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buffalozap -> Testing the water (1/12/2012 8:25:06 PM)
Hello My wife and I are both into this scene, her with more experience than I. Together we have enjoyed occasional bdsm themed play (her sub) but there is a piece of our puzzle missing. My wife is bisexual and before we met had a committed relationship with another woman. That relationship had my wife as the "domme" with a sub female partner. Now my wife needs to have that dynamic again. I am supportive that this is part of who she is. Right now I am a couple months from an engineering degree so for now we want to meet friends and get to know potential options. At some point in the future we may want a live in for companionship and submissiveness mainly to my wife but me on occasion too. Also domestic work would be expected as living expenses and weekly allowance would be provided. We have a daughter so all kinkyness would be at all times behind closed doors. We want to find that special someone who will understand us and enjoy being a part of our family as much as we will enjoy them being a part of ours.

SirLangsdorff -> RE: Testing the water (1/12/2012 9:16:01 PM)
Welcome and good luck in your search.

MistressDarkArt -> RE: Testing the water (1/12/2012 9:18:32 PM)
Good luck in your search, and welcome to the boards. You may want to check out the Poly section here; lots of good information, including the reminder that when seeking a third, patience is key.

OohAahMrs -> RE: Testing the water (1/13/2012 6:25:05 AM)
Hey guys, while you're waiting for the right girl to come along, you might like to do something to kill time like say, count grains of sand upon a beach!

ashjor911 -> RE: Testing the water (1/13/2012 7:24:13 AM)
Welcome

OsideGirl -> RE: Testing the water (1/13/2012 7:35:20 AM)
Good luck with the unicorn hunt!

Iamsemisweet -> RE: Testing the water (1/13/2012 8:42:59 AM)
I know people say what you are talking about is hunting unicorns. But, you two seem to be an attractive, educated, articulate couple, with a lot to offer other than kink. I bet you beat the odds and find what you are looking for. Start attending munched and other kink functions. It is a numbers game, you may have to talk to a lot of people to find the " one".

FrostedFlake -> RE: Testing the water (1/13/2012 2:25:13 PM)
Best wishes to you both.

buffalozap -> RE: Testing the water (1/14/2012 3:00:00 PM)
I want to thank everyone for posting a reply. I understand based on these responses that what my wife and I are looking for is not going to happen overnight. However, that is ok with us, we are not in any hurry. We want to meet the right person, get to know her and develop a lasting relationship.

MastersPetgirl -> RE: Testing the water (1/14/2012 6:21:55 PM)
Welcome and good luck. I am in the same search as you. Maybe it will happen and maybe not. But what better place to look? MPG

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