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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/19/2012 10:50:02 AM

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you do, too, darlin.. and I miss you!! COME VISIT!! (btw, check your cmail) WHEN YA COMING TO VISIT????

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/19/2012 2:38:53 PM

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I am going to fill out this form and send it back to you. Then you'll be sorry.
http://youranonnews.tumblr.com/post/14142649243

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/19/2012 4:54:09 PM

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I am going to fill out this form and send it back to you. Then you'll be sorry.
http://youranonnews.tumblr.com/post/14142649243

Yeah, I had to bookmark that.

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/19/2012 7:23:22 PM

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Holy crap. What group should I avoid?

Seriously.

I had just been thinking to myself how incredibly civil fetlife is compared to this. But I guess I tend to hang out in more gear oriented groups over there like Blacksmithing in BDSM.

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 10:35:36 AM

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Well it is a dating SITE, even if the forums here aren't specifically about dating - the irony I find is most of the self appointed moderators in here are not here looking for dates, so why the hell are they reading and chastising people who are? Just don't fucking read it, I look for interesting topics I have an opinion on or want to know more about - true, it gets slow sometimes, and you get the urge to stir up some shit just for something to do, at that point I just go elsewhere.

It's kinda like sex: some people spend all their time bitching about people doing things they don't want to do, instead looking for somebody to do the thing they want to do.

On the flip side, I don't really want to wade through a bunch of spam and wank fodder to get to a good discussion, that's probably true of every forum on the internet, discussion forums are typically for discussion, and most sex sites, Literotica for example, have personals forums for that kind of stuff.

CM doesn't have a personals forum on this side, the other side is basically one big personals forum, but no discussion, so it's not unusual that a lot of newbies all aflutter and eager to out and discuss their new found kink or trolling for abuse end up in Introductions or General or some other random forum, where people are actually trying to talk about stuff.

Point is, the easiest way to avoid that is to give it a place of it's own, and direct any strays there - in the absence of such a forum, it's gonna go somewhere, intros is as likely a place as any.

So, if you're trolling for interesting new posters, then troll for those and ignore the rest - if you're so bored all you have to do is hassle people all day long, get another hobby, 'cause that's just as pathetic.

When they get ignored, they'll figure it out and either adjust or go elsewhere.

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 10:40:15 AM

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And you're all a bunch of sockpuppets as far as I know, I don't believe any damn thing I read in here.

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 10:40:37 AM

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Good on ya

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 10:49:20 AM

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Well I say so because I'm sick of clicking on a thread only to find 15 pages of self indulgent snark - I'd rather read wank fodder.

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 10:54:35 AM

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Myself, I would rather, and do, skip over 90% of the shit on here.

I guess it's all in how you look at it.

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 10:55:32 AM

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My exception is when some tool is in here pushing Masculine superiority, but I don't play favorites there, I don't take shit off The Matriarchy either - take that shit back to Gor or Lesbos, or wherever, I'm a Humanist, and the internet is one place we can meet in the middle.

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 11:07:48 AM

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It is?

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Well it is a dating SITE

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 11:08:34 AM

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I never viewed it as one. Silly me.

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 11:10:52 AM

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Is it advertised as such somewhere? No snark, genuinely curious.

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 11:11:42 AM

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It is?

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Well it is a dating SITE

this

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 11:13:45 AM

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I logged out to look at the main page, and I keep looking for anything saying about dating, or match up or anything like that..I don't see anything other than "community"..which to me, means..discussion, getting to know like minded individuals, etc.

Perhaps we've stumbled upon the reason for discourse..completely different views on the site in general?

I personally found CM by googling bdsm discussion.

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 11:26:06 AM

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What site are you on?

What main page are you talking about - the one with all the profiles stating what people like to do and have done to them and who they want to do it? That page?

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 11:31:38 AM

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Here's a hint, look at the main page and see how many people on the first page have ever posted in the forums - they just logging on to stare at their own profile or what?

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 11:48:34 AM

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www.collarme.com
Yes, the one with the profiles. You needn't be snotty, I'm truly curious as to what I asked.
Facebook also has sections with what our interests are (as does Fetlife)...are they dating sites as well?
My point being, while you may see it as one..others may not.
In regards to "why are they here" if not posting in the forums? To meet likeminded people in their area?
I'm not presuming why anyone is here, but calling it a dating site, I disagree with.

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What site are you on?

What main page are you talking about - the one with all the profiles stating what people like to do and have done to them and who they want to do it? That page?

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 11:59:46 AM

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Personally for me the other side is a dating site. Why else would I have come here and posted a profile? To just say "hey look at me! I'm into kink!...<waving around her arms> yeah you over there! Look at me!"?

But on this side I see it just as a time waster when I am not doing what I should be doing.

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RE: Welcome to Collar Me - 1/27/2012 12:02:18 PM

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So the snark queen doesn't like snarking? Don't be stupid, it's a singles site, maybe one in Ten, or a Hundred members have ever even posted in the forums, half of 'em probably don't even know there are forums - I have no idea about chat, I never go there.

So I guess this is just a site for catty bitches to browbeat the world into conforming to their specifications? That's what draws in the advertising revenue in is it?

Anyway, I wanted to include a disclaimer - I consider gender superiority, either/or, a valid, if predictable topic, Peon is definitely into female superiority, but he's just expressing his feelings, not trying to lay down the law for everybody else, which I consider the significant distinction, I personally feel that keeping it somewhat neutral, a place where everybody can be comfortable, averts a lot of flameouts.

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