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sheisreeds -> RE: How common would you say the BDSM lifestyle is? (1/14/2012 9:38:46 AM)
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Kink and enjoying aspects of BDSM is extremely common.
BDSM as a lifestyle and identified as a personal need, and driving force of self fulfillment and expression of a relationship is a much smaller number.
A great example was last night, we were at a party and everyone there identified as kinky on some level. A conversation started about what this means to us, and only a handful said it was a need, and an even smaller percentage of that number said it wasn't just "foreplay" but a primary drive of intimacy.
There's nothing wrong anywhere you fall.
It's just different ways of being.
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