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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:19:41 PM

CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: Arpig

He administered some long involved interview process and concluded that I was indeed experiencing dissociative fugue states.

(snip)

You see, that is the problem I am having, I am not conciously able to control what these personalities do when I am in a fugue state. I have no memory of the times when they do things.

(snip)

At this point I do not know if I am officially suffering from DID, or if it is simply me functioning in an altered state of conciousness.

Perhaps you would be wise to ask your mental health professional to clarify his diagnosis.

What you have described has no resemblance to a dissociative fugue state (the word "states" makes no sense when you know what the phrase means), and a fugue state of any kind has no correlation to alternate personalities in the way you describe.

Further, Dissociative Identity Disorder (formerly called Multiple Personality Disorder) is a result of a trauma that causes the psyche to "fracture", if you will, creating another identity to protect the main "host" from the trauma. While the host is generally unaware of the alter(s), the alter(s) are aware of each other and the host. A new alter is not created at whim, or to "flesh out" the life of another alter. DID most often occurs in children (before age 9, and average age is just under 6), and is typically the result of extreme, violent, and/or horrendous emotional, physical, and/or sexual trauma.

In therapy, the therapist will work to determine which of the alters is charged with keeping the memories of the trauma. The ultimate goal is to re-unify all of the alters back into the one host personality.

Cali
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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:23:42 PM

LadyPact

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The therapist didn't recommend it, I chose it against his recommendation.

Oh bullshit!!!
Do you really want to tell Me that your fucking therapist said you shouldn't look people in the face and say what you have done wrong??????

No, Bob. I'm not doing this anymore. You either stand the fuck up and make the attempt to make amends or you at least have the decency to leave good people alone.

Do you even know what you have done? Do you have any idea of the harm you have caused? Give Me some kind of answer about the harm you have caused Me. Either be happy in the fact that you called My reputation into question publicly, or do the right fucking thing and openly admit that I was just some fucking pawn in your little game.

Say it here, Bob. I will not be satisfied with anything less.

Tell Me what that I ever did to you. Why did I deserve what you have done?

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:24:06 PM

Arpig

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Those are the terms he used, and as I said I am going to therapy.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:31:58 PM

Icarys

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This is good.. I mean really good stuff here lol

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:37:15 PM

LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: Arpig

Those are the terms he used, and as I said I am going to therapy.

'And that makes it all ok????

You know what??? Fuck your therapist and fuck you!!! If I am the only motherfucker that has to clean up the mess you created, I'm supposed to live with that now????

I gave you chance after chance. When you were in grief, I did everything possible to make Myself available. I opened every door that I could. I was here. I never closed Myself off to you..,... I gave you every opportunity.

And how did you repay Me? Did you even once look at Me as a human being who tried to help you? No! You were too busy living in your head and not giving a shit about other people.

This site is just about getting to the bottom of the barrel. You helped to make it that way. You fucked over people like Me who didn't do a damn fucking thing against you. Play the fucking tape to the end. Are you so secure in your position that people like Me are an acceptable sacrifice?????

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:37:22 PM

seababy

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: seababy

I hadn' t read any personal attack stuff. I came in late to all this after a 2 year break from CM, so it was way too confusing to sort out except it had something to do with sock puppets.

I did get a feel though that in that time the feel of CM had changed I was disappointed that the place had the same feel as when you walk into a room after two people have had a bad fi
Sea
No, you haven't. Really?????

Well, that's great. You don't have to deal with what has happened here. I'm glad for you. Really, I am.

At the same time, that is not My experience. I have walked into much groups and events that, because of this, My character has been called into question. I have lost friends who have been a part of My life for years, who, regrettably believed bullshit, rather than a real person.

And here I am left. I have been called publicly, that I am a liar, a cunt, a worthless piece of trash. A fucking piece of scum who has no worth to anyone anywhere.

I'm supposed to be ok with this??? I'm just litter on the highway that some fucker can throw into the trash because his "illness" gives him the right?????
No. I'm sorry. No fucking more. I won't sit on the sidelines anymore. I am sick of this fucker being allowed to abuse the members of this forum. At some point, it's time to stop.

My name is Lady Pact. I am pleased to meet you and from here, we shall move forward. Move on with Me or don't. The choice is yours.

I never said you should be ok with this or that his behaviour is acceptable or even that you shouldn' t be anything else but angry.
I think you have misunderstood the well intentions of my post towards you and Tazzy.
I sincerely wish you well and hope that now that the truth is out some mending of your reputation can occur. Slander is an ugly thing and a vicious weapon.

Sea

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:39:21 PM

Icarys

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Am I the only one fixing popcorn right now?

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:40:59 PM

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Yes.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:41:49 PM

Icarys

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

quote:

ORIGINAL: Arpig

Those are the terms he used, and as I said I am going to therapy.

'And that makes it all ok????

You know what??? Fuck your therapist and fuck you!!! If I am the only motherfucker that has to clean up the mess you created, I'm supposed to live with that now????

I gave you chance after chance. When you were in grief, I did everything possible to make Myself available. I opened every door that I could. I was here. I never closed Myself off to you..,... I gave you every opportunity.

And how did you repay Me? Did you even once look at Me as a human being who tried to help you? No! You were too busy living in your head and not giving a shit about other people.

This site is just about getting to the bottom of the barrel. You helped to make it that way. You fucked over people like Me who didn't do a damn fucking thing against you. Play the fucking tape to the end. Are you so secure in your position that people like Me are an acceptable sacrifice?????

Pssst.. How do you know anything "he" has said is truth? :) and why are you being a glutton?

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:43:57 PM

LadyPact

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Sea,

I owe you an apology. I have no justified reason to take My anger out on you.I would ask that you will have kindness in your heart and forgive Me.

I am sorry for any offense.

With Dearest Regard,

Lady Pact

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:44:01 PM

Arpig

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No LP, but there is nothing I can do to undo what has been done. I have worked with VAA to get to the bottom of this, and have taken what steps I can to put an end to the situation.

You are mad as Hell at me, and you, and everybody else has every right to be. As I said, I am not making any excuses nor asking for forgiveness. It is what it is, believe me, the problems here on this board are the smallest part of my problems right now. While you all may question the reality of people on forums, I now question the reality of people I meet.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:44:32 PM

Icarys

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ORIGINAL: NuevaVida

Yes.

I think it's funny that so many have been duped. Everyone thinks they know people here and it's just not so, it's not even the case in 40 year marriages, why be upset that it's not the case in an online forum.

Ahh well, it was good sport for me at least.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:44:45 PM

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FR-

All I can say is...

LoL...I knew it!

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:46:35 PM

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I never said you should be ok with this or that his behaviour is acceptable or even that you shouldn' t be anything else but angry.
I think you have misunderstood the well intentions of my post towards you and Tazzy.
I sincerely wish you well and hope that now that the truth is out some mending of your reputation can occur. Slander is an ugly thing and a vicious weapon.

Sea

I did not misunderstand, and I thank you. Please, understand, that for some of us, this is quite painful. LP is a wonderful woman.

I simply ask that you give her a bit of leniency.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:46:37 PM

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Not at all, Icarys. I started *my* popcorn an hour ago when this subject came up on another thread.

Sounds like a clear case of well... you know. (winks)

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:46:55 PM

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<3 no offense, you have gone through hell.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:47:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: DarqueMirror

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All I can say is...

LoL...I knew it!

Knew what? Were you replying to something I said or the general thread?

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:48:25 PM

Arpig

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Don't take it out on each other, I am the one who did this, address your anger at me.

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:48:47 PM

Icarys

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ORIGINAL: DarqueMirror

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All I can say is...

LoL...I knew it!

Yeah me and another dude called it some time ago where Hannah and heather were concerned. I had my suspicions about Piggy. :)

Hell I wouldn't even put it past them to be pulling a prank upon a prank lol. :) It would be good fun if "they" (edit :) ...) were.

< Message edited by Icarys -- 1/13/2012 11:52:06 PM >

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RE: thanks for the dance. - 1/13/2012 11:49:34 PM

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ORIGINAL: Clickofheels

Not at all, Icarys. I started *my* popcorn an hour ago when this subject came up on another thread.

Sounds like a clear case of well... you know. (winks)

I am glad you are enjoying this.

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