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What the hell? - 1/13/2012 8:43:09 PM

tameeks

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Is with people and the messages they send? I've only been active on this site (I'm talking about the collarme side) for a couple of days, my profile is pretty blank, but it DOES say I'm only here actively seeking friendship. Anyhoodles, I got a message today, here's what it said:

If lil cunt has interest? I invite you to join me on yahoo IM at: Masterof_alldouchebags

Mind you, this is the first contact for this douche. I'm not a cunt; I think the word is very disrespectful. If you really want someone to respond, is this REALLY a good way to go about it? If you've done this, did it work for you? If you've received a message like this, have you responded in a positive way?

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RE: What the hell? - 1/13/2012 8:45:20 PM

Hillwilliam

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tameeks. You are what is known in the vernacular as 'new meat'

New female members tend to be troll bait for about the first 30 days. All you can do is iggy and block them and laugh at them because of the fact that they are so pitiful.

Trust me, it gets better.

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RE: What the hell? - 1/13/2012 8:49:45 PM

Fornica

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Yup. Look around on the forums a bit and you'll see a LOT of threads about this.
You will get *hundreds* of mail. Most are cut and paste messages that these people send to every new chick. They don't generally even *look* at your profile.
Block and delete.

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RE: What the hell? - 1/13/2012 8:50:29 PM

DarkSteven

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Yeah, new meat with a purty picture.

Bluntly, there are men who are less than socially adept, and they figure their only chance is with a brand new female. Yer it.

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RE: What the hell? - 1/13/2012 8:54:46 PM

angelikaJ

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You can hover over a message and get the gist of it (or in many cases read the whole thing) and if you don't like what you see, delete it unread...bye-bye douchey-guy.

You can also report suspected cut and pastes as spam.

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RE: What the hell? - 1/13/2012 8:56:21 PM

NiceButMeanGirl

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I'm sorry you got that sleazeball letter.

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RE: What the hell? - 1/13/2012 9:22:49 PM

lizi

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Put on your raincoat, it'll happen again and again. There are a lot of people that come here thinking anything goes and social niceties aren't necessary. They think a kink site has tons of eager women just waiting to fulfill their every need. They think if they want their sexual urges taken care of then there will be someone wanting to take care of them, sight unseen. It's crazy. Use the tactics the others suggested of hovering over your messages to see if you want to read them and using the block and delete buttons. Write em back if you want telling what you think before blocking and deleting if you like.
Good luck!

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RE: What the hell? - 1/13/2012 10:07:08 PM

crazyml

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Hello! And welcome to the crazy world of CM!

As the others have said, you've got a cute pic and you're new.

You'll get a slew of messages from people, alas. There are a lot of jackasses out there.

I'd suggest that you fill out your profile and make it clear the kind of person you are, the kind of person you'd like to meet and the kind of things (kinky and non-kinky) that you'd want to do with the right person.

Then get used to the "Delete and Block" feature.

Don't despair though, there'll be a fellah out there for you.

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RE: What the hell? - 1/13/2012 10:20:55 PM

FrostedFlake

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And I'm it! I mean... Hi Tameeks!

quote:

If you really want someone to respond, is this REALLY a good way to go about it?

If the fella is willing to mail that a thousand times and doesn't care who answers, it just might get him what he is after. OTOH, he could be a sandwich short of a picnic.

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RE: What the hell? - 1/13/2012 10:38:10 PM

Duskypearls

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Tam, unfortunately, we gals all go through that for a bit. You can expect to be rudely propositioned for while, maybe a month or so, and then maybe once in a while after that. Distasteful though it is, it is unavoidable part of the initiation. Try not to take it personally, don't answer any that are like that, and "hover" over them and delete without opening. Believe it or not, the time will come when they won't affect you much, and you'll be able to laugh them off.

On behalf of all the goodhearts here, welcome to the site. There are many wonderful people here, whose positive contributions will soon far outweigh the baser ones. I hope you have a wonderful time here.

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RE: What the hell? - 1/13/2012 11:03:22 PM

slaverachel2Him

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i just got one form a lady who "read" my profile and knows we can make it together. i am straight and owned and married. HOW she figured out we can make it is a mystery. My guess is some scammers have "bots" trolling for possible rubes.

quote:

ORIGINAL: tameeks

Is with people and the messages they send? I've only been active on this site (I'm talking about the collarme side) for a couple of days, my profile is pretty blank, but it DOES say I'm only here actively seeking friendship. Anyhoodles, I got a message today, here's what it said:

If lil cunt has interest? I invite you to join me on yahoo IM at: Masterof_alldouchebags

Mind you, this is the first contact for this douche. I'm not a cunt; I think the word is very disrespectful. If you really want someone to respond, is this REALLY a good way to go about it? If you've done this, did it work for you? If you've received a message like this, have you responded in a positive way?

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RE: What the hell? - 1/14/2012 9:34:58 AM

Missokyst

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Basically, this is how it works. You join and show up on new members. Jackals view you and assume you know nothing and can be pursuaded to
A. Get naked on cam
B. Hand over your phone number so they can verify you are female/male.
C. Pay a tribute to some unknown dominant.

Women get the first 2 on the list. Men tend to get the last 2.

Welcome to CM. It does get better if you just ignore the opening volley of trolls.

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RE: What the hell? - 1/14/2012 9:43:30 AM

Ninebelowzero

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Look I'm sorry OK I sent it to the wrong one honest, I mean it's not like I really think that of you or any other beautiful woman honest.

Welcome to the boards, hope you enjoy yourself.

quote:

ORIGINAL: tameeks

Is with people and the messages they send? I've only been active on this site (I'm talking about the collarme side) for a couple of days, my profile is pretty blank, but it DOES say I'm only here actively seeking friendship. Anyhoodles, I got a message today, here's what it said:

If lil cunt has interest? I invite you to join me on yahoo IM at: Masterof_alldouchebags

Mind you, this is the first contact for this douche. I'm not a cunt; I think the word is very disrespectful. If you really want someone to respond, is this REALLY a good way to go about it? If you've done this, did it work for you? If you've received a message like this, have you responded in a positive way?

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RE: What the hell? - 1/14/2012 9:46:17 AM

seekerofslut

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tameeks

If you really want someone to respond, is this REALLY a good way to go about it?

Depends what's being trolled for.

Welcome to the Other Side.

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RE: What the hell? - 1/14/2012 9:49:40 AM

lemmony2

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Sorrry bout your experience and do not think everyone is of the same nature.. Unfortunately some times different places do attract more lunies then other places.

If you are interested in a friend you are more then welcome to add me or drop a line. I promise i am not to far out their. I tend to be a bit philosophical and love and intellectual debate at times thou.. ;0

If it makes you feel better I am a male and have just a few days on here as well and have hundreds of :"I will love you long time for money you send to me now" letters hahahhhha I think the bugs come out of the wood work when they smell us fresh victims...

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RE: What the hell? - 1/14/2012 10:03:11 AM

fucktoyprincess

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Try not to let this type of interaction get to you. There will always be some mail in the inbox of this sort. My best advice is to ignore such mail entirely. I do not think this kind of rude approach is deserving of any type of answer from you. Delete and move on. If you respond, even to say "no thanks", the sender will take it as a sure sign of interest from you and continue harassing you. Trust me, I speak from experience.

For every piece of mail that comes in like this, trust me that you will receive mail from those who are much more sincere both in who they are and in their approach. Focus on the sincere ones and accept the rude as an unfortunate cost of being on a site like this. Wish it were not so, but it just is what it is.

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RE: What the hell? - 1/14/2012 12:03:14 PM

searching4mysir

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quote:

ORIGINAL: tameeks

Is with people and the messages they send? I've only been active on this site (I'm talking about the collarme side) for a couple of days, my profile is pretty blank, but it DOES say I'm only here actively seeking friendship. Anyhoodles, I got a message today, here's what it said:

If lil cunt has interest? I invite you to join me on yahoo IM at: Masterof_alldouchebags

Mind you, this is the first contact for this douche. I'm not a cunt; I think the word is very disrespectful. If you really want someone to respond, is this REALLY a good way to go about it? If you've done this, did it work for you? If you've received a message like this, have you responded in a positive way?

Hey tameeks!

This is normal. As everyone said, you are "new meat" and there are some eejits on the other side who think that just cuz a gal's on a kinky site that she is promiscuous and will fuck anything with a pole.

Laugh it off, and remember that "block and delete are your friend".

They will never truly go away. I recently had a "domme" reach out to me telling me I'm beautiful and that if I wasn't into chicks (for her) that I could have her son dom me instead. Of course she never triggered a "viewed profile" and/or read it from the home page, or she would have seen that I was already owned and no longer searching.

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RE: What the hell? - 1/14/2012 12:31:13 PM

ResidentSadist

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Just pretend you are fresh meat in a bar full of horny drunks. Expect no less and no more than that. Somewhere amidst the haze of hormones and alcohol, there lurks some good people. The CM gang has some real genuine people, just gotta' sort the weeds from the flowers.

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RE: What the hell? - 1/14/2012 3:57:16 PM

Silvaria

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I hear this...I make it clear on my profile that I am NOT interested in "chatspeak", but I still get messages saying things like, "wat r ur limits"...I don't even recognize that as a language, lol...

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RE: What the hell? - 1/14/2012 11:09:25 PM

Casssy

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I never get that kind of mails anymore. I must be getting old...

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