angelkisspure -> Need additional info (1/14/2012 12:48:05 PM)
Have a live in sub that enjoys the D's relationship,but no pain. Considering an additional sub that thrives on pain. Does anyone know a better site than seekers for info on techniques?
AcademyForSlaves -> RE: Need additional info (1/20/2012 5:18:11 PM)
Hi.
I know of FetLife, Leather Munches, AcademyForSlaves, and Collarme has pain subs on here too. It's not really that you need a site just on pain but that you need to keep up the search for a sub that's into pain.
Hope this helps.
LadyPact -> RE: Need additional info (1/20/2012 8:18:42 PM)
OP, are you asking about which sites are better to find people on or which sites are better to learn about topping techniques?
kalikshama -> RE: Need additional info (1/21/2012 7:56:01 AM)
I think the best way to learn technique is by going to a BDSM event that has demos.
In addition to a few chapters on technique, "Screw the roses send me the thorns" has a great Where to Hit chart on page 148, which provides guidance on intensity levels for different areas of the body.
You may wish to practice flogging pillows until you are sure of your aim.