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NibbyJibby -> RE: Why Financial Domination Bothers Me... (1/21/2012 12:04:22 PM)
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Your comment has me intrigued.
Many financial Dommes fall into the category you describe, but also those typically are very obvious... example the barely of age money princesses, the websites that are flashy and glittery, those that profess to take your money and offer nothing in return, etc., etc. These sites and individuals openly make that obvious, so it is what it is. If such is what one seeks out, it indeed is what they shall receive. Nothing wrong with that if open and honest about it. Seems as simple expectations to be fulfilled..
Not all financial Dommes fall into that category and it is the danger area... where one is with belief and led to have expectation and to be scammed. It has happened just as such things happen in every other venue of society. It however is not the norm although many are with bias and perception that it is. In truth most financial Dommes make very clear their expectations and that of their slave/victim. If not one's cup of tea then simply move on. If it is one's cup of tea then be with awareness of what you seek and search it out.
There are also reputable financial Dommes that are true to their word and giving of themselves.
In reading your comment.... " i personally have not met a SINGLE ABSOLUTELY ONE SINGLE Domme who has asked for money who has EVER KEPT A SINGLE ONE OF HER PROMISES! THEY JUST LIE TO YOU FOR YOUR MONEY!!! Out of a hundred zero!!! Absolutely none have been real!!! So take it for what it's worth!!!".......... i am most curious if you have ever served a financial Domme and if so i am double curious how you did not receive promises made. That absolute goes against my experiences. The only time i hear of such is when the submissive/slave does not fulfill his promises and obligations. Example: to make promise of payment then to renege, or to not fulfill tasks, to get caught in a lies, not follow through, etc. That being said i have had a few experiences that were not fulfilling and one financial Domme (EG) comes to mind immediately. In having in early days for very short time served Princess Sierra it was not what i was seeking... too much greed, not enough interaction. In that situation perhaps it was me that was too greedy with my expectations. No harm done, no scam, no hard feelings. At the time i was just venturing into this area of power exchange... exploring, learning, seeking a compatibility. That being said She is perhaps the best known and longest serving online money Domme. That would not be possible if She fell into the criteria You speak of.
Anyone that says all financial Dommes are lazy and do nothing are naive and not speaking fact. I have served online financial Dommes that are total trustworthy, with awesome character values and totally giving of themselves. Indeed one i served for four years. Was it expensive, yes. But She gave so much of Herself it felt as a bargain. Sessions and tasks were challenging and imaginative. She pushed limits and yet remained within limits.We would average 20 hours or more per week online. Indeed a online session seldom encompassed less than three hours, and some we remained eight hours or more. She gave much of Herself and i became one of Her few stabled slaves. She had a number of others that were outside this realm. She was greedy absolute, but also she was very generous of Her time and Her focus and interest truly was the power exchange aspect. She put effort to create so i got what i wanted so that She got what She wanted. We connected, i was able to trust and give of myself to become worthy of Her generosity and to be part of Her stable which consisted to 4-6 slaves, There were many others but most were wankers, curiosity seekers, insincere or incapable and thus never worthy of Her generosity and personal aspects. She held control of credit cards, bank accounts, Amazon and PayPal. Never was there a trust issue, never did She steal, never did She take without my knowledge and acceptance... ok sometimes a forced or enticed acceptance, but still fair game and in truth freely given. I was not a true money slave although yes i obviously paid tributes in various ways. Perhaps my philosophy with financial Dommes is different in that i served professional Dommes and thus the concept of momey exchange was acceptable and normal to me.
In having served some truly superb money Dommes and thus to know first hand there are many and they absolutely exist... what did you do if you ventured this path and did not find what you sought! What was your expectation from a money Domme? Indeed i am with a number of curiosities in reading your words.
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