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LadyHibiscus -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 12:26:20 PM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer


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ORIGINAL: MissImmortalPain

We aren't blessed with tittys and pretty reproductive parts, unlike what men have? We don't apear soft and fun to the touch?


To be fair, a lot of the time I think you women are cursed with titties and your reproductive parts. And on all but rare occasions, you're hard and prickly to the touch. Just saying.



Hmph. <nostril flare, accompanied by haughty glare>

And MIP, I require no excuse to swing weaponry! Which is good, since I don't do mood swings. [:)]

edited for gestures.



kalikshama -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 12:47:39 PM)

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ORIGINAL: HisPet21

Nah, I don't get turned on by the idea that men are superior to women, nor do I believe that men are superior to women. I do, however, get turned on by the fact that men are generally stronger than women (testosterone and all that). I like being physically weaker than my partner. It makes for some pretty awesome wrestling!


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DesFIP -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 1:01:02 PM)

The female superiority kink is something that I've only seen espoused by sub males. I've seen women say that they believe all women should be submissive, but that's not the same as believing women are inferior.

And really OP, I bet you know many women who don't impress you at all. Who you wouldn't vote in as dog catcher as the saying goes.

The problem with saying all men or women are inferior is that it's not very far from saying all whites are superior to all other races. Or all Christians are superior to all Jews. And as I'm sure you would admit, this is bigotry, plain and simple. Myself, I don't associate with  bigots of any order.

In a more practical sense, few dommes are going to want a man who is willing to submit to any woman. She wants to be seen as something special and this attitude says that any woman would do.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 1:07:07 PM)

Girls are better. But you're right, Des, any man who comes to me and wants to bow down JUST because I'm female isn't of interest to me at all. And when I run my next "test", which is having him do something for an invalid friend of mine, that whole "superiority" thing changes in a hot hurry.



sexyred1 -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 1:11:11 PM)

I don't feel my gender is inferior in any way, shape or form.

As for feeling "below" a man? Only when his weight is on top of me holding me down.



lizi -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 1:19:52 PM)

I don't feel either gender is superior to the other. All humans are equal.



Wheldrake -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 1:34:37 PM)

My submissive side would probably enjoy a world in which women really were much more intelligent and capable than men. There's something very powerful about the idea of being in an inferior category, of being born into natural subservience. Unfortunately for my submissive side, but fortunately for a lot of other reasons, that just isn't the world we live in.

Of course, it's absolutely true that women in Western countries are beginning to outperform men in education, statistically speaking. The reasons for this must be complicated sociocultural ones, and it would be naive to think that the trend will continue forever, but it's not impossible that we'll live to see a day in which at least some elite professions are dominated by women. My submissive side, appreciative of female power of almost any sort, rather likes that idea. I don't think it would a disaster for society, either. A certain amount of male talent might end up going to waste, but as long as we were producing enough qualified doctors, or anthropologists, or whatever it wouldn't matter too much if a high proportion of them happened to be female.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 1:35:43 PM)

Wow. And you have a submissive side? Really.



Wheldrake -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 1:43:05 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Wow. And you have a submissive side? Really.


Er... yes, I do. What made you think I didn't? Or were you just being sarcastic in a way that my tiny inferior male brain (kidding, kidding) finds difficult to process?



LadyHibiscus -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 1:44:03 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Wheldrake

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Wow. And you have a submissive side? Really.


Er... yes, I do. What made you think I didn't? Or were you just being sarcastic in a way that my tiny inferior male brain (kidding, kidding) finds difficult to process?



No, I found the verbiage and tone of your post very condescending. As a person who does NOT go through life looking for insult, I think it's interesting.



Wheldrake -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 1:47:45 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus


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ORIGINAL: Wheldrake

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Wow. And you have a submissive side? Really.


Er... yes, I do. What made you think I didn't? Or were you just being sarcastic in a way that my tiny inferior male brain (kidding, kidding) finds difficult to process?



No, I found the verbiage and tone of your post very condescending. As a person who does NOT go through life looking for insult, I think it's interesting.

Condescending? I certainly didn't intend that, and I'd be interested to know what exactly gave you that impression. I was just explaining my perspective, in what I thought was a clear and straightforward sort of way.



Winterapple -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 1:56:03 PM)

FR
I don't think either gender is superior to the other.
A lot of male submissive seem to get off on the
idea but I doubt most of them think all women
are goddesses. And a woman choosing to submissive
to her partner is not declaring she's an inferior
person.
He doesn't make me feel that I'm inferior
because I'm a woman. He makes me glad
I'm a woman.



MissImmortalPain -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 3:13:08 PM)

I really didn't think you needed an excuse, Hibi. But seeing as you pointed it out I will go ahead and explain why I said it. I have seen women use "hormones" as an excuse for everything from crying at sad movies to loading a gun and killing the ex/corrent/might be male in their life. I have also seen courts of law(predominantly run by men) give these women a free pass for it. Which(IMO) speaks volumes as to the intelligences of the men we call intelligent to begin with.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 3:50:16 PM)

Remember the twinkie defense MIP? ^_^ Next time I feel swingy, I'll holler "outta my way, I'm having a mood swing!" Fair warning, eh!



MissImmortalPain -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 3:54:11 PM)

I would find the picture but I have a headache and it is almost dinner time, but I'm sure you have seen it....

I have PMS and a Gun..don't piss me off.

Now I want a twinkie...you really are an evil woman.



mnottertail -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 3:57:01 PM)

JAYSUS!!! Get me some orange juice shooters and some strapons in here STAT!!!!



MissImmortalPain -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 4:01:02 PM)

I don't really have pms. I'm actually weirdly nice to the point that I annoy myself when I have pms. So can I have some jack and maybe just someone to beat the crap out of ?



LadyHibiscus -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 4:03:43 PM)

Crown Royal Black and a sjambok, pls!



DesFIP -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 8:01:33 PM)

Besides Hostess is in bankruptcy so Twinkies could become hard to come by.



Awareness -> RE: For subs: Feelings of gender inferiority as a turn-on. (1/16/2012 8:25:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Keeeth

Hi subs and Mistresses/Masters too,

Every now and then I am confronted with an article in the media, or a video on youtube, or even an ad in the paper which reminds me of supposed female superiority in some aspect. For example, there are articles on girls outdoing boys in school at the end of each scholastic year, and a recent ad for a medical practitioner at a hospital featured a photo of 4 employed doctors smiling for the camera, 3 of them being female.

Now, while i recognize that the underperformance of boys in schools is an issue, this none the less turns me on and fuels my fantasies as a sub.

I was wondering if that was true for any of you subs, male or female.

Regards,

keeeth
  Being a male sub is what defines your inferiority, not being male.



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