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Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/16/2012 11:52:00 AM

brian78

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Hello – I am looking for advice/recommendations on how to find someone who can fulfill my lifelong dream of becoming a sissy maid. I am 33 years old, single, and line near Chicago. My extent of actual sissy maid training is very limited, and were all professional dominatrix. Now, it is nothing against the Mistresses I served, but I just don’t think my complete training would be economically feasible. Also, while I enjoyed the session, it mostly involved me putting on a maid outfit, and that was considered training. I am in this for the long haul, and my goal is to be a properly feminized sissy maid who actually does serve my Mistress (or Dom Couple/Master is something I may consider). I am not looking to be physically transformed with hormones, etc. but I am definitely willing to under-go exercise as my Mistress sees fit to help shape my feminine figure. I am 6’0” 245lbs, and definitely don’t look like a girl, and I don’t necessarily expect to. However, what I am looking for in my training is training in mannerisms, walking, sitting, and curtsey like a sweet little girl, as well as a feminine demeanor and smile. I am also 100% submissive, and although I am not a masochist nature I do expect to be punished as part of my training if I exhibit any unfeminine behavior or don’t do my job. I would love to tell you more about myself and my desires, but this is something I have suppressed for a long time and ready to go forward with. I really want to serve, whether it is just my Mistress or a party, I really look forward to the day I am in in my pretty uniform, high heels, and serving drinks to people. I hope someone out there can help make my dream come true. I know, when you first look at the big rough macho me, you will probably say I have no change to become a sissy maid. However, I will prove you wrong and I will make you proud of the girl you trained me to become that I hope you will show me off to your friends. I am not looking for a Professional, but I do expect to pay my dues through hard work and actually cleaning in consideration of the training. I am looking for some advice on how and where to meet woman who are interested in finding a real life sissy maid to train. Are there some clubs that are better? Are there some websites that are better? Any advice would be greatly appreciated from this new "girl" in the scene. Thanks

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RE: Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/16/2012 11:58:53 AM

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Paragraphs. They make your writing MUCH easier to navigate.

The simplest answer is to look in your own area. There are all manner of local listings on fetlife, and also lots of special interest groups on what you are interested in.

Dressing and maid service are things that you learn by actually DOING them, so reach out to other maids who are in your area, too, don't just focus on the women. There's solidarity in sharing information!

Good luck, a GOOD maid that is into service is a wonderful thing to find.

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RE: Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/16/2012 12:04:13 PM

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I have no experiences to share with you that would help you on your way to fulfilling your lifelong dream,
however, I did do a google search, and found quite a few sites that offered information on this topic.
http://www.mrs-silk.com/
http://www.sissymaids.info/
Best of luck to you Brian.

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RE: Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/16/2012 12:12:16 PM

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My advice would be to focus on the SERVICE side of things (learn how to cook, do laundry, clean a house, clean a bathroom PROPERLY and without someone having to stand over you and make you) instead of BEING SERVICE (being dressed up and being allowed to flit around with a feather duster).

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RE: Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/16/2012 12:14:54 PM

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Do they still teach home ec in schools? Anyway there is a lot of call for formal tea service, learn to do that, how to set a table, how to serve at a dinner party. Proper care of fine china and silver, brewing tea and coffee correctly, knowing the difference between teas...

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RE: Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/16/2012 6:34:00 PM

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Hi Brian

I can't really speak to the sissy part....I'm sure there are others who can....

as for the maid/service part....there are plenty of skills you can learn to help make yourself more "marketable." I would look for FemDom clubs and groups in your area--you will far more likely to find Dommes willing to train/sissify you, and the cost of entry to parties will vary club to club.

So skills.... learn to clean, and take it seriously. Read up on cleaning tips and "practice" on your own house.
If you're into table service--whether it's formal tea or table service--start here: http://www.butlersguild.com/index.php?subject=89&nm=The%20Formal%20Dinner

I'm surprised how many service subs do not know how to properly serve a meal or bring a Domme a beverage. The more skills you can bring to the table, so to speak, the more Dommes will want to train you. Good luck!

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RE: Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/20/2012 5:14:27 PM

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Hi.

It's possible to get proper training to be a real sissy maid. We give sissy training because the HeadMistress we work with loves sissy slaves and sissy maids. She owns one as a fulltime lifestyle sissy maid and she trains many others. So sure it's possible and it is available out there. You just have to not give up your search.

Hope this helps.

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RE: Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/20/2012 5:22:22 PM

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Trying to scrounge up rent money again, are we?

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RE: Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/20/2012 5:28:12 PM

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I would look for FemDom clubs and groups in your area--you will far more likely to find Dommes willing to train/sissify you, and the cost of entry to parties will vary club to club.

Actually....similar to this idea: I know here in our area, there's a Domme's discussion group that happens once a month. They're always looking for subs to serve drinks, snacks and be of service. There would be no charge, you'd get exposure to Dommes in your community and you'd get to learn a little bit.

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RE: Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/20/2012 5:59:09 PM

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Trying to scrounge up rent money again, are we?

Hey now, the electric bill at the Academy of Spam ain't gonna pay itself.

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RE: Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/20/2012 9:31:25 PM

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Trying to scrounge up rent money again, are we?

Do you know that it is actually painful when I snort OJ out of my nose?

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RE: Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/20/2012 9:35:12 PM

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Trying to scrounge up rent money again, are we?

Do you know that it is actually painful when I snort OJ out of my nose?

Need I remind you I'm a sadist?

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RE: Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/20/2012 9:36:50 PM

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Need I remind you that I'm a sadist and not a masochist?

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RE: Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/20/2012 9:39:08 PM

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I believe in equal opportunity.

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RE: Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/20/2012 11:10:23 PM

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Whatever happened to consensual play?

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RE: Advice on becoming a sissy maid - 1/21/2012 1:24:32 AM

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Trying to scrounge up rent money again, are we?

Hey now, the electric bill at the Academy of Spam ain't gonna pay itself.

Well, it IS getting on the end of the month...rent's due in 6 days for many folks.

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