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lemmony2 -> ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 4:56:07 PM)
Lets have some fun here people.. Please take the time to post for us your definition of submission , your definition of slavery and the furthest extreme of either you have personally gone. Next post your most extreme submission and slavery desire or dark thought... Come on don't be chicken ..this will be fun and mite even give everyone ideas... ;) Who knows may be a reward for the most original winner.. :) Mr Levi

Fornica -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 4:59:17 PM)
Most extreme act of submission? Not kicking him in the head when I am up all night with the baby and he sleeps in.

OsideGirl -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 5:02:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lemmony2 Lets have some fun here people.. Please take the time to post for us your definition of submission , your definition of slavery and the furthest extreme of either you have personally gone. So, in order for it to be genuine submission, it has be extreme?

kalikshama -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 5:02:32 PM)
First define "extreme" and "reward." [8D]

DesFIP -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 5:09:23 PM)
My definition of the difference between a sub and a slave. A sub is someone who won't do what I will. A slave is someone who will do what I don't. In practical purposes, that's how most people use it. Extreme. Not buying Edy's limited edition Peach Pie ice cream during those few weeks in summer when it's available because he says all ice cream must have chocolate. And not throwing a fit when we missed Apple Pie ice cream season at Stewart's.

lemmony2 -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 5:11:15 PM)
haahah nope no definitions given..This is an open ended thread. Which means since everyone has their own definition of extreme and slavery and submission it is left to each individual to fill out theirs and their belief as to what I am referring. If I gave any details then I would be defining and by nature directing what I want, and I would much rather this to take the shape of each and every poster.

kalikshama -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 5:17:20 PM)
My best extreme story was from when I was in the USAF with access to bombs, but I was vanilla then so it doesn't count.

OsideGirl -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 5:22:22 PM)
Well, extreme usually falls into BDSM....which is not the same thing as dominance and submission. I won't qualify because my most extreme act of submission is giving up control to one man for the last 12 years. And I refuse to debate the whole "slave vs sub" thing, it's already been beaten to death, brought back to life and beaten to death again.

Kaliko -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 5:23:58 PM)
Okay - two things to say, here. Lemmony - you go first. Dammit, kalikshama, I WANNA HEAR THE STORY! You know I love bombs!

SailingBum -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 5:27:00 PM)
Extreme I used to run with knives... Ever since I accidently stab my girl countless times the cops made me stops. BadOne

lemmony2 -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 5:37:08 PM)
listen folks you are missing the point and the idea here. You are getting to wrapped up in what others say counts and does not count.. THIS has nothing to do with stereo typing of what others think sub means or slave means or what extreme means.. What I may think may be 100% different from you which may again be 100% different from the next person. I want you to post what each of thee things mean to YOU.. Your idea is supposed to be different then everyone else.. That is the flavor. EXTREME does not have to mean bungee jumping without a rubber band it means where you see your personal furthest achievement.

lemmony2 -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 5:38:19 PM)
dats funny sailingBum..did they take away he spoons and forks to?

lemmony2 -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 5:41:31 PM)
I would go first and I would love to add my story's but I do not want to set a direction or to subliminally create a precedent that others would follow. The idea here is I want everyone to open up themselves and their views. This is ment to be fun for everyone and for people to be able to post what they feel is the most outlandish things or insane accomplishments they have had. quote: ORIGINAL: Kaliko Okay - two things to say, here. Lemmony - you go first. Dammit, kalikshama, I WANNA HEAR THE STORY! You know I love bombs!

Fornica -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 5:41:42 PM)
You mustn't micromanage a pile of Dominants, silly. We'll push you from your rock. :)

lemmony2 -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 5:43:40 PM)
I am counting on it..Never play king on the mountain? :) quote: ORIGINAL: Fornica You mustn't micromanage a pile of Dominants, silly. We'll push you from your rock. :)

Epytropos -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 6:35:39 PM)
Submission is obedience. Slavery is obedience without reservation. There are interpersonal components and emotional complexities, but in the simplest terms that sums it up. Personally I've never really been on that side of things, so no extremes to tell I'm afraid lol

tazzygirl -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 6:53:51 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lemmony2 Lets have some fun here people.. Please take the time to post for us your definition of submission , your definition of slavery and the furthest extreme of either you have personally gone. Next post your most extreme submission and slavery desire or dark thought... Come on don't be chicken ..this will be fun and mite even give everyone ideas... ;) Who knows may be a reward for the most original winner.. :) Mr Levi Subs retain some control over a set of aspects of their lives that they have agreed to retain. Slaves relinquishes all control, except what the owner allows them to keep... which can change upon the desires of the owner. I dont think I have ever been "extreme". I was, and am now, simply what he wants me to be.

RaspberryLemon -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 7:09:56 PM)
Submission is the act of surrendering your will to another's. Slavery is being owned by another person--mind, body, every part of you, indefinitely. I don't know about "extreme." I am owned by my Master. But I don't really think of it in terms of "extreme."

HisPet21 -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/17/2012 8:31:25 PM)
quote: Please take the time to post for us your definition of submission , your definition of slavery and the furthest extreme of either you have personally gone. Sub: A person who generally relinquishes control to a dominant, but can say "no" at any time, for any reason, and decides which aspects of her/his life to maintain control over on a daily basis (i.e. me) Slave: A person who relinquishes complete control over his/her life to a dominant, excluding a few pre-agreed upon hard limits Furthest Extreme: I let my partner read my erotica, which no one was ever supposed to read, ever. Doesn't sound bad, but it was a leap of faith on my part. I'd never shared my awful, disgusting fantasies with anyone before, and was afraid of rejection. Which is probably why he made me show him the work...to prove to me that I didn't need to fear rejection. quote: Next post your most extreme submission and slavery desire or dark thought... You can't handle my fantasies. [;)] quote: Come on don't be chicken Too late, hehe.

shesfarfromhome -> RE: ..Inquiring minds want to know.. (1/18/2012 2:56:41 AM)
I must admit that sharing one's personal erotica has got to be a major leap in a submissive's journey. I don't know about you... but anyone I've let into my personal fantasies has already passed a few major tests of trust... As a submissive by nature... sharing such fantasies feels like an extra leap of faith... as fantasies of my own seem a bit presumptuous to begin with. Sharing them is a leap of faith that I could only hope are recognized for what they are.

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