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ElanSubdued -> RE: how far? (1/21/2012 8:35:00 PM)
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silmirillian,
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I once had an experience with a Mistress (who got me started on this whole erotic asphyxia thing) who kept asking me while I was suffocating in a giant black garbage bag if I would die for her. As I could not answer being unable to breathe she cut open the plastic and said "too bad, I really want to take you all the way it would give me immense pleasure". So I have often reflected on that wondering if I could allow a Mistress to do that if it is something She really wanted.
I think most people ponder dying, though they may not ponder it the way you have here. At any rate, it's time to FUCKIN' DITCH the Mistress and QUICKLY.
Edited to add: okay, okay. I've now read all the humour. My first response was a "fast reply". Still, all joking aside, OP, I don't fuck around with this kind of stuff. Breath play on the level you're romanticizing and eroticizing, and at the level you want to go is randomly deadly. There is no safe way to do breath play at that level. And, for styles of breath play that truly cut off breathing, there is no safe indicator as to when someone will go into cardiac arrest. Once your partner is suffering cardiac arrest, there is no way to save them... not unless you happen to be near a hospital with appropriate equipment. I stop at covering someone's mouth (with my own mouth or hand) for a few seconds. Yes, I've covered their nose to. This is a "few seconds and let them breathe again" thing. My partner (or myself, if I happen to be the recipient) isn't really losing control of their breath. It's really no different than you holding your own breath for a few seconds, however, the mind-fuck aspect is there when someone else does this to you. Past this kind of play, when you get to choking at the neck, garbage bags, and so on, you're into dangerous, unpredictable territory. There are people every year who die from these levels of breath play and who, of course, thought they were safe.
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