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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/22/2012 9:03:21 AM

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Sorry to hear that :(

Guess that's one thing we do right in the US.

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/22/2012 9:09:28 AM

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This is a very easy dilemma to solve. You need to submit to everyone PERIOD. Everyone is your master and you have to submit to everysingle person that says they are a master to you. Especially the ones online.

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/22/2012 9:18:43 AM

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As for DM's please dont make me laugh. The last time i was in a club with my ex partner and we had a problem the DM was no were to be seen, neither was the lady that had been on the door taking money. And its like that in most of the clubs over here. Not what your probably used to in the states.

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/22/2012 9:20:27 AM

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Janah, i hope your joking and not as big of an arse as you look. Lol

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/22/2012 9:21:47 AM

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Oh Im much bigger ....

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/22/2012 9:25:25 AM

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Sounds it but looks can be deceiving.

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/22/2012 9:26:24 AM

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I actually wasnt kidding. But wasnt that the answer you were looking for?

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/22/2012 9:28:23 AM

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No, but you have managed to leave me wondering if you even read what's out and contribute anything as a whole to society.

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/22/2012 9:30:15 AM

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Funny ... I was wondering the same thing about you.

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/22/2012 9:31:49 AM

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If you want to pet a dog....do you ask the dog or the owner if it's okay?

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/22/2012 9:33:20 AM

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Masters just hit the nail on the head when hes said "what a toss pot" Lol

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/22/2012 9:35:34 AM

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id ask the owner. The question i asked got answered within the first few replies but then you get people who decide to go off topic slight and decide that they know everything about you, when they know jack shit.

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/22/2012 9:50:40 AM

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It's all good. Just adding my opinion.

My view is that as his submissive, I'm not in a position to negotiate playing with someone else. That doesn't mean that he won't ask me what I think, it just means the decision is his. Which is how we agreed to run our relationship.

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/26/2012 5:47:43 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Have a look at it from the other way around. Of course, what has been established in your own dynamic is how things are going to be.

Let's say that I'm the person that comes along who wants to play with you. I don't know your dynamic. Wouldn't the smartest thing that I could do be to ask the person in charge?

This is truth. This "should be" protocol. But, it isn't always that way. I truly believe a better way would be to list it on your profile that any requests have to go through your Master first and possibly only. If someone emails you without asking your Master first, let your Master know and let the sender know. If that same sender continues without addressing his question to your Master, well, they have this crazy-ass Java button that says "Block User." If the sender won't respect the rules you and your Master have set in place, what are the odds that this dimwit won't respect you and the M/s dynamic?

Of course, if your Master hasn't told you to list it on your profile, and you're not allowed to do things like that without his approval, go through him.

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/26/2012 7:40:47 AM

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ORIGINAL: DesideriScuri
If someone emails you without asking your Master first, let your Master know and let the sender know.

Oh good God, that would drive Master crazy. He doesn't care if someone talks to me. He doesn't need to baby sit me. The only time someone gets referred to him is if they still want to meet me after talking to me.

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/26/2012 1:28:39 PM

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Yes, not many clubs in our local area seem to cope for people in a wheelchair though, 70% of the time im stuck in a wheelchair due to an accident i had at a club in manchester. maybe i will look at starting my own up. I know 90% of clubs and munches in the uk dont have access for wheelchair users.

I'm pretty sure the figure isn't as high as 90% - especially for licensed clubs (on account of it being unlawful), I do know that some of the smaller munches tend to take place in side rooms in pubs, but I knocked about the scene in Essex with a disabled partner for a couple of years and never once encountered an accessibility problem that the organisers weren't willing to bend over backwards to resolve.

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/28/2012 11:09:08 AM

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Nope, it is not wrong. The person is just being rude, and unable to grasp the fact that you gave them the information about how your Master wanted it done.

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 1/28/2012 11:48:06 AM

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If you want to borrow someone's car, you don't ask the car. You ask the owner.
If you want to borrow someone's dog, you don't ask the dog. You ask the owner.

The same is true for any of Master's property, human, animal or inanimate.

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 5/10/2015 6:25:12 AM

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Hi pest, glad you back in Lancashire. As you now so near hope we can chat and make it happen. Tried to message but you blocked me!

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RE: Master/Dom or sub/slave?? - 5/10/2015 6:27:17 AM

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