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alexglass73 -> Straight male forced bi (1/21/2012 9:43:22 PM)

So I have found a woman that can be my Mistress and she lives near by (score)! The thing is I'm straight but to show my devotion I'm supposed to have 2 sessions with a bi dom. From research I have done I'm realizing that many femdoms want to see this the thing is many of the men are "forced" to do it. I have been thinking about having to suck cock and take it up the butt from a man and I just don't know. I'll look at other men in public and wonder "could I"? Some of me wants to do it for her but I'm having trouble getting over myself being with a man. Have any of you been in this position? I'm really not in any way into men but it would have to be one of those things I have to do. Any advice would be appreciated.



Miserlou -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/21/2012 9:55:22 PM)

if you're not comfortable doing it then don't do it. talk to her about your reservations.



peppermint -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/21/2012 10:05:33 PM)

You say she lives nearby.  Have you met her yet? 

If you have not met her could she actually be a guy trying to prey on straight male subs?

If forced bi is a hard limit for you, then do not do something you might regret.  Talk it over with her over a cup of coffee. 

Yes, some female Dommes enjoy watching their male subs with another man.  However, those same Dommes realize that it takes trust and devotion to build a straight man up to the point that he will do such a thing for her.  Is this Mistress asking you to have these two sessions even before meeting her? 

Having been online for a long time I am suspicious of anything that seems a bit off.  Unless you have actually met this women in person this feels like one of those off times. 



lizi -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 7:10:54 AM)

I'm not sure it's a good idea to do something for someone you hardly know. You might regret it later. I'm not real hyped about someone who starts off by pushing you into doing something that is a stretch for you, many Dominants who care about their submissives would take their time in getting them to be comfortable with something that was difficult for them to do. If 'she' is asking for it right off the bat, my money is on 'her' being the bi male Dom who gets his supply of guys by pretending to be a woman.

My opinion is that her asking for devotion from you by performing an intimate act with another seems absurd to me. Maybe being a woman, I'm more careful with myself. Is she going to personally guarantee that this bi Dom is disease free? How is she looking out for you? She should be if she's the one in charge.

If this is a case where you truly would be forced to do this and you would ONLY do it for her, I'd hold off till you know her better and want to do things for her from your heart. There are things called hard limits where you have a say in what you will or will not do. You're very young, why do something you'll always regret? I'd advise that you wait and find out if she's really the woman for you and if you do indeed have an interest in this activity. Get to know her for a bit and see if she's sincere and she is indeed a woman. Spend some time with her. My gut feeling is that someone asking you to 'prove' your devotion to them is a complete wanker and has ulterior motives. Don't set yourself up to be used.



Fornica -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 7:18:00 AM)

They all said the deep, thoughtful things, so I'll add the rest.
1) Welcome to CM.

2) If you are curious about cock sucking, just frigging do it, don't do the whole palm to forehead "le sigh...I do not WANT..but I shall, for you, if I'm forced" thing. It's ok to be any shade of sexuality you want to be. Embrace the penis if you need to, my friend.

ps- pants :)



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 7:20:12 AM)

Don't do it, one taste of cock & you will be gay forever & then you will burn in hell for all of eternity.

Or probably not as hell doesn't exist.



Fornica -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 7:22:13 AM)

Hold up.
OP..is this the chick in your friends list, per chance? And is this little task "required" before actually meeting her? And lemme guess..she wants photos?



Hillwilliam -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 7:23:05 AM)

If you havent actually met her in the flesh yet, I have a bet.

Wanna bet that said "Bi Dom" is handy and 'she' just happens to know one.

Wanna bet also that after you suck his cock that 'she' will disappear into thin air?



Fornica -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 7:24:54 AM)

Hilly...if she's the one on his list, she also happens to be young, blonde & hot ;)



Hillwilliam -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 7:26:50 AM)

The picture is at least.

ETA I'm a cynical old SOB.



Fornica -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 7:32:35 AM)

'tis why we love you.
Well.
That and your giant cock.



DarkSteven -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 7:34:35 AM)

"You must be this devoted to enter the ride" doesn't cut it for me.  I'm used to women that demand discussion and exploration of mutual interests, etc., not sex with designated strangers.



kalikshama -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 7:52:39 AM)

What everyone else said, IOW, don't do it - this demand is not appropriate for this stage in your "relationship."



KatyShatter -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 8:46:45 AM)

Just reiterating what everyone's said. If you're not comfortable with it, then don't do it. It takes a while to build up the trust necessary for something like that to happen, and if this woman is demanding that right off the bat, I don't think she's the kind of the person you'd want to be with.

If she's even real at all, that is.



myotherself -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 8:53:43 AM)

What the others said...and a quick look with Google image search shows that the pic on his friend's profile is rather a popular one ...[8|]



agirl -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 9:55:18 AM)

Have you know her long? Have you met her?



BootyBoy -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 12:37:27 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Ninebelowzero

Don't do it, one taste of cock & you will be gay forever & then you will burn in hell for all of eternity.

Or probably not as hell doesn't exist.


Obviously you've never been to New Jersey.



alexglass73 -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 2:09:28 PM)

No I have not met her. That is one of the things that was really making me not want to do it was the fact I have not met her so why should I do something I seriously don't want to do. I personally think she is legit as far as she is a she and all. Thank you for the replies everyone. And to the person who said I was doing it to be "forced" to do it. This is not one of those cases.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 2:20:29 PM)

For what it's worth Alex it takes a fair sized pair to come out with this mate. Hats off to you for doing so.



Fornica -> RE: Straight male forced bi (1/22/2012 2:32:48 PM)

Alex, I sent you a message on the other side.



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