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RE: Straight male forced bi - 1/24/2012 7:03:54 AM   
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RE: Straight male forced bi - 1/24/2012 7:06:17 AM   
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RE: Straight male forced bi - 1/24/2012 7:29:51 AM   
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RE: Straight male forced bi - 1/24/2012 9:12:24 AM   
Rochsub2009


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Status: offline 		I didn't read any of the other replies, so I'll probably repeat some of what has already been said.

Firstly, "forced bi" is a bit of a misnomer, since so many guys beg to be "forced" to do it.  How is it "forced" if they're begging for it?

But having said that, it sounds like something that actually would be forced upon you, since you're reluctant to do it.  IMO, this is a perfect formula for strengthening a long-term D/s relationship.

IMO, good D/s relationships are built upon trust and a desire to obey your Dom/Domme.  Some of my favorite D/s memories are of times when I was asked to perform acts that had been hard or soft limits for me. 

You may find that it is quite enjoyable when you find a Domme who is able to get you to try some of the things that are currently limits for you.  But that takes time and trust.  Don't do it until you've established a very high level of familiarity, comfort, and respect for your Domme.  Once those things are in place, you may learn that it feels good to be pushed to surpass your limits.  But if those things aren't in place, you may simply feel cheap and used.

I don't know how long you've known this Domme, but if you are just getting to know her, don't even think of doing something that you are very uncomfortable with.  IMO, no legitimate Domme would make you violate one of your hard limits as a prerequisite to becoming her sub.

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RE: Straight male forced bi - 1/24/2012 9:24:46 AM   
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I don't know how long you've known this Domme, but if you are just getting to know her, don't even think of doing something that you are very uncomfortable with.  IMO, no legitimate Domme would make you violate one of your hard limits as a prerequisite to becoming her sub.


Ya, they've never met, it's a prereq, we called BS.

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RE: Straight male forced bi - 2/20/2012 10:58:58 AM   
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Status: offline 		Looks like you got away from her with only minor damage. Not everyone does. Good for you.

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RE: Straight male forced bi - 2/21/2012 6:42:21 AM   
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Status: offline 		I think there are a number of different issues here. One is, do you want to try sucking cock or being fucked by a man, the other is should you do something that you're not sure about simply to meet the pleasure of someone you don't know.
Issue 2 is easy - the answer is No! It's not easy actually meeting someone on a site like this - and I believe that you must have a face to face before you even consider doing anything. It's one thing to post a pic of you doing something on your own (but even then, where do all these pics end up? On public femdom galleries?) but an absolutley different thing doing something with another person.
In re issue 1, theat's different. At some stage you might want to try (it's fun) but best to either do it yourself because you want to try, or at least with a Mistress you know well and trust competely. As for looking at guys and wondering, this never happens to straight guys who stray - women always look better. However, a hard cock has its own magic, especially if you're wearing bar, panties, stockings and heels and are kneeling down LOL

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RE: Straight male forced bi - 3/11/2012 1:55:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		Don't do it sweetie. I'm into "forced" bi, but I NEVER force a sub to do anything that he honestly dislikes. I merely create the setting that enables him to do what he really wants to do. There are men with deep dark desires that have to be brought around to allowing themselves to experience taboo sex, but that takes time, trust and exploration. Not to mention that the desire has to be there somewhere in the first place! You should have met her in a vanilla setting a couple of times at least and then have some mild play dates with lots of check-ins during them as your Domme learns your limits and boundaries. What this "domme" is demanding is something out of a fantasy and dangerous. I would never allow a sub of mine with someone else unless I'd checked that person's recent STD test results first AND the sub agreed to the person I was pairing him with. My subs depend on me to protect them in all ways and this is one of the most important responsibilities I have as a Domme.

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RE: Straight male forced bi - 3/11/2012 6:41:46 AM   
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Status: offline 		I know a guy who had a gay experience, doing it for someone else not himself. Later on he really regretted it, and was going through whether to tell his soon to be wife or not. It was bothering him that much. The relationship ended after telling his secret. So if You are gonna do it because You have an interest. The fact your on here asking, says alot.

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RE: Straight male forced bi - 3/11/2012 4:20:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24
The fact your on here asking, says alot.


Actually, it doesn't. All it says is he's the kind of guy who needs other people's opinions to back up his own thoughts and desires.

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RE: Straight male forced bi - 3/11/2012 8:21:28 PM   
sissyslutmichell


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Status: offline 		i was in this position before my mistress brought a man home without telloing me and ordered me to get on my knees and suck him off i am not into men but i always obey my mistress. i just told myself it we over soon but mymistress nlovedwatching be suck his cock and a love to please my mistress soi got through it ok. after that she has had men fuck me also which have learned to enjoy

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RE: Straight male forced bi - 3/12/2012 8:38:14 AM   
JeffBC


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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009
I don't know how long you've known this Domme, but if you are just getting to know her, don't even think of doing something that you are very uncomfortable with.  IMO, no legitimate Domme would make you violate one of your hard limits as a prerequisite to becoming her sub.

Wow... now THAT is a pretty broad brush that casts me clearly as "not a legitimate Domme" (LOL - which is true for a variety of reasons).

Still though, my point remains. Not everyone deals in limits.

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