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What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 2:20:44 PM

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As a sub, describe your fantasy spanking.

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 2:24:19 PM

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I find the key is to take your hand and hit them on the ass repeatedly. For advanced users, the upper thighs can be used as well.

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 2:31:21 PM

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His hand, my ass... nuff said.

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 2:37:02 PM

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Why should it be a fantasy? There are lots of good real ones.

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 2:39:41 PM

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A good spanking includes a heavy hand. There need be no else.

As for the fantasy aspect? I don't want to ruin the innocence of this forum with such dirty things.

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 2:41:47 PM

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Why should it be a fantasy? There are lots of good real ones.

Steven....because he wants wank material.....

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 3:02:28 PM

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sigh.

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 3:24:31 PM

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Well my favorite fantasy is pretending he's like an alien who appeared in my living room and he throws me over the couch and like dissolves my undies with his ray gun and then he spanks me without ever touching me.....!
It's amazing.
In my head.

I don't know I don't have spanking fantasies, sorry. Could you tell? I just like getting spanked sometimes with lots of gratuitous nakedness involved. Have fun though finding your fantasy!

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 3:29:54 PM

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Well my favorite fantasy is pretending he's like an alien who appeared in my living room and he throws me over the couch and like dissolves my undies with his ray gun and then he spanks me without ever touching me.....!
It's amazing.
In my head.

I don't know I don't have spanking fantasies, sorry. Could you tell? I just like getting spanked sometimes with lots of gratuitous nakedness involved. Have fun though finding your fantasy!

No such thing as gratuitious nakedness. Nakedness is it's own reward

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 3:34:40 PM

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Nakedness is the best part! Whatever else is there besides naked bodies is just icing. Mmmmm, cake....
How about spanking with cake? I just made that one up! New spanking fantasy right there

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 3:43:38 PM

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Nakedness is the best part! Whatever else is there besides naked bodies is just icing. Mmmmm, cake....
How about spanking with cake? I just made that one up! New spanking fantasy right there

I would definitely scream for some ice cream!

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 3:48:07 PM

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This repeatedly striking my back, ass, and legs:

Super Thick, Super Thuddy, Called a "Prized Find" in Complex Magazine, Voted #1 on the web by JoyClub in Germany... these are the real deal!

Now you can give them the "roses and the thorns". A beautiful and surprisingly thuddy toy. Many people describe the sensation of being hit with a DeTails Rose flogger as being "hit with little fists" as the roses are very dense and thuddy. Certainly the most unique bouquet of flowers you can give a kinky partner!

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 3:52:15 PM

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The best spanking is one thats with a man or woman who i care about, who respects my speed, and enjoyable pace, whos kind respectful and is careful

And who offers aftercare if i need it..

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 3:56:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

This repeatedly striking my back, ass, and legs:

Super Thick, Super Thuddy, Called a "Prized Find" in Complex Magazine, Voted #1 on the web by JoyClub in Germany... these are the real deal!

Now you can give them the "roses and the thorns". A beautiful and surprisingly thuddy toy. Many people describe the sensation of being hit with a DeTails Rose flogger as being "hit with little fists" as the roses are very dense and thuddy. Certainly the most unique bouquet of flowers you can give a kinky partner!

I adore this site!!! I remember going through it and daydreaming about the floggers. :) Thanks for reminding me, I forgot all about it!

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 3:59:10 PM

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My personal fave involves a left handed Lebanese midget with DDD's chained face down, ass high, filled with cheez-whiz in one orifice and pesto in the other, forced to gnaw on a giant stick of salami while I whip her with a flogger made from strands of hand-roll al dente spinach fettuccine while yodeling the theme song to Shaft.
I'm telling ya-do it with a gal once and she'll never stop knocking at your door, begging for more.

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 4:14:03 PM

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As a sub, describe your fantasy spanking.

When I was married, I used to have fantasies of my husband calling me out on some such chore I didn't do (there were many) and telling me to lean over the bed and wait for him. He'd go about his business in the morning, getting ready for work, and when he was done he would come upstairs and admonish me and spank me hard enough so I would hurt all day at work. This would be, in my fantasy, a fairly regular occurrence. (In my fantasy, I suppose I suck at keeping up with chores.)

Of course, this was because my husband was doing no such thing, or anything even remotely like it, and because I had no idea what I even wanted or how to ask for it. I just knew I fantasized about that, among dozens of other things that I knew he would frown upon, so I think that's why it's such a strong fantasy for me. It's not so kinky or weird or anything, but it's a very strong internal reaction for me to think about it. It is the picture, I suppose, in a nice tidy box, of what I wanted our relationship to be.

I also rather like the aspect of both waiting for it and the verbal scolding that comes before it.

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 4:15:23 PM

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ORIGINAL: Kana

My personal fave involves a left handed Lebanese midget with DDD's chained face down, ass high, filled with cheez-whiz in one orifice and pesto in the other, forced to gnaw on a giant stick of salami while I whip her with a flogger made from strands of hand-roll al dente spinach fettuccine while yodeling the theme song to Shaft.
I'm telling ya-do it with a gal once and she'll never stop knocking at your door, begging for more.

You had me at cheez-whiz.

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 4:16:06 PM

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I adore this site!!! I remember going through it and daydreaming about the floggers. :) Thanks for reminding me, I forgot all about it!

De Tails Toys will be at New England Leather Alliance Fetish Fair Fleamarket Friday, February 10 to Sunday, February 12 2012

I love the descriptions on their site - very useful.

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 4:22:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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I adore this site!!! I remember going through it and daydreaming about the floggers. :) Thanks for reminding me, I forgot all about it!

De Tails Toys will be at New England Leather Alliance Fetish Fair Fleamarket Friday, February 10 to Sunday, February 12 2012

I love the descriptions on their site - very useful.

I can't go to these awesome events. I can't afford to. BUT I WANNA!

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RE: What makes a really great spanking? - 1/22/2012 4:34:31 PM

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ORIGINAL: Kana

My personal fave involves a left handed Lebanese midget with DDD's chained face down, ass high, filled with cheez-whiz in one orifice and pesto in the other, forced to gnaw on a giant stick of salami while I whip her with a flogger made from strands of hand-roll al dente spinach fettuccine while yodeling the theme song to Shaft.
I'm telling ya-do it with a gal once and she'll never stop knocking at your door, begging for more.

Kana wins the quote of the day!

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