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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

You can have all of that in a relationship with someone who will fuck you. Just sayin.

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The only thing Im really guilty of is questioning the role of BDSM in my relationship and having trust issues with it.

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ORIGINAL: kalikshama

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The only thing Im really guilty of is questioning the role of BDSM in my relationship and having trust issues with it.

And lying.

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ORIGINAL: xssve

Lotta women put up with a lot worse, for a lot longer than that. You seem to have your head together now - you wanna get fucked? Can't make up your mind? Horrors, you must be BPD. We're all head cases in here, don't sweat it, choose your own madness baby.

You do know that the only cure for narcissism is love don't you? I think you're covered for now, move on, seriously, 'less you like giving BJ's. A lot.

If you do, there's plenty of takers in here, not a problem, but there's othing wrong with wanting more, and anticipation is half the fun - just a question of how long you can reasonably string that out before it just kinda goes flat.

I think you went as long as anybody can be reasonably expected to, and then some, given the information I have, and taking you at your word.

At worst, you're lovin' a little too much to take up the slack of somebody ain't lovin' enough, there's masterful, and then there's lazy and selfish. We all get that way from time to time, but it shouldn't be a lifelong habit.

Love yourself first baby: you can't love anybody else if you can't love yourself.

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24




Exactly what am I lying about?

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He is not married because I visit his home. Yes I am 44 and I was in a relationship for 22 yrs.

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I failed to tell I have also been married 22 yrs and Yes have a Master. Does my husband know? Sure does

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For the other posters such as Kalikshama, you are hitting the nail on the head

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My Master is an unusual man, and I do think the mentioning of personaltiy disorder is " dead on it"

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Kalikshamma hit the hail on the head. He is a narcissist

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Kalikshama, I just want to say you are one intelligent, insightful lady. You describe this man like you know him. Are you into psychology in some way?

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Kalikshama you are the one I thank the most because you have lived through such an ordeal. Sounds like yours advanced into living together which isnt gonna happen here, and I so MUCH THANK YOU from the bottom of my heart of this insight. HUGE HUGS TO YOU!!!

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I do believe he is a narcissist. I am actually a good communicator and how I managed to stay wrapped up with him this long is beyond me.

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Here is the only sexual thing he has said to me toward my own needs. " I almost grabbed your tit your last visit" ..................OH BOY!!!! hahahahaa, lucky me.

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in the past he has pursued his "money tree" which is me

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I wouldnt want to lose me either if I was him. I helped him toward a car, and bought him an expensive tool to help with his work.
I really have been a love struck blind fool.

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this relationship has been more a physiological game then anything else

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Somehow he talked me into staying, of course I never made it hard for him to contact me.

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I am leaving him before he ruins my life

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it advanced to him asking for gifts to redeem myself. He wanted control over everything, and recently asked to start a bank account together and mind you we dont live together. This is when I started really thinking, something is definitely off with this guy. He has always knew i wanted more so he would say things to lead me on.

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this man is a master manipulator, charming, demanding, and handsome. He has a gift of getting his way and being powerful in the world, and I fell for it. But now Im done.

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If anyone else comes across this thread having the same problem. My advice is STOP ALL CONTACT AND RUN!

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all i need to red flag the start of a bad relationship. He gave me plenty of signs to look for

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Only problem I have was staying in to long and not seeing him for who he was much sooner

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No I am not going back IM done.

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yes he is involved in studies of capitalism....in the last two yrs......studying my pocketbook

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I just needed to hear how stupid I was being, even though I knew it, he just has had so much influence over me its been unreal.

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

Wrong! Its truth. Im married and I have a Master too. Married 22 yrs.

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I asked him once "WIll we ever have sex?" and he said I can not answer that. But also keep in mind he told me once he preferred worship over sex. I take my collaring very seriously and need some advice!!!! I dont think I can go without sex forever.

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I have also been married 22 yrs and Yes have a Master. Does my husband know? Sure does

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

I gaurantee you one thing, in person you would think twice before you challenged me. Easy behind a screen isnt it girls?

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

THe narcissist part of my Dom was hitting the nail on the head. ANd yes, I was distraught about my relationship with him because I wasnt getting what I want. AND YES advice would be it would be best to get out of a relationship if it is not satisifying one, but I am not ready to say goodbye to him just yet. People get mad, they say things, argue , in many relationships..........DOes it make one a liar??? AHHHHHHHH no.

I have decided to stick it out a bit longer, and when i said that all the sudden I am BPD blah blah. A liar.

I had a question about my Master I was addressing that problem, not adding the complication I was married etc. Because people were going to get on their soap box and get side tracked on that not address my real question. I think I can handle this problem on my own, I have the answers and now this is just plain drama. I appreciated the advice at first but now with all your accusations I think a few of you "need a life"
If there is any wonder why people dont stay or post here its because of this RIGHT HERE. I gaurantee you one thing, in person you would think twice before you challenged me. Easy behind a screen isnt it girls?

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ORIGINAL: Fornica

Is that a threat? Feel free to send me your phone number, and we can arrange a meet.

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

I gaurantee you one thing, in person you would think twice before you challenged me. Easy behind a screen isnt it girls?

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I have decided to stick it out a bit longer, and when i said that all the sudden I am BPD blah blah. A liar.