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MistrixMsE -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 2:23:16 AM)

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

Eating feces can be a symptom of pica, which affects women much more often than men.  A prodomme who had been a lay social worker once told me she thought there was a high connection between scat fetish and childhood sexual abuse.  I think separating consensual fetish from illness is one hell of a gray area here.



Quite the opposite in my experience... I get three distinct varieties most often professionally...none tend toward child sexual abuse victims.

Adult baby types who enjoy messy play.. usually we start with pies etc and end with the pee & poo
Goddess worshipers who wish to show their commitment by consuming the waste of goddess (this overlaps the emetophiliacs as well)
Severe degradation types who get off on the most disgusting degradation scenes they can get... often a VBS scene (piss puke & shit in short order)

In my experience, child sex abuse victims who are looking for mommy child play in a positive environment are more common... being rocked... held... nurtured. They arent usually classic age players or adult babies though.. often they are looking for a 'safe age role play' that allows them to regress without being 'helpless' (i.e. infantile).

I started actively doing work like that in the 90s. I had the most connection with a young lady who was both abused at home, and then thrown out when she came out as lesbian to her mom, as a teen... when i met her she was 18. I was speaking about healthy non-traditional sexuality at a gay/lesbian center to a bunch of teen/young adult recently homeless youth who were in a group home there. She started crying when I was discussing age play as a nurturing, safe way to work through traumatic experiences or non-bonded familial relationships.... it resonated with her so much.

She came to see me a lot for about 6 months... and before anyone asks, no.. it wasnt a pro scene thing. I was so struck by how badly this girl needed a healthy space to work through those feelings of rejection and abandonment... that I asked her to visit. Still get kind of choked up thinking about her... :(



RedMagic1 -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 6:32:13 AM)

I've seen quite a few scat threads here, and this one is far and away the most constructive.  They are usually just full of people stopping by to say, "Ewww gross!"

I found your post beautiful, Ms E.  Wherever the young lady is now, she is better off than she would have been, because of the compassion and care you showed her.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 6:33:49 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MistrixMsE

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I do not have the Bowels of Reliability that would let me earn the large dollars for that. Good on her!


Honestly, its all about ones diet. Eat 6 small meals a day and you can often schedule it pretty well, day or night.. Make the heaviest meal the one fathest out from the 'deposit' and chase your last meal with a larabar... dates & nuts make for easy pooping... especially when the stage is set with a nice coffee during negotiations!

I have no qualms with water/hard sports, even blood play etc... in the right scene with right player. That said, I could never be in a romantic relationship with a toilet... having shat on a good many.. I know they are rarely 'turd monogamous' and beyond the idea of kissing someone who eats shit, i would also be concerned that I wasnt the only lady they are playing with. I dont get the shit during sex thing tho.. watersports, yes, shit no... with the exception of occasionally messy anal play.. it doesn't work for me in that context.



I would be SO sick eating that way... it's one of the reasons I pray I never get diabetic, and monitor it so closely. And..... well, TMI, but let's say No, not really likely without Laxative Assistance. Which would SO cost extra!!

And agreeing too, about not wanting a relationship with someone into scat. Watersports, no big deal, and I have done a lot of enema play, but no eating of the questionable stuffs and getting your hands on me.

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I must say, thanks y'all for keeping this a non-judgmental discussion. It's not a surprise that many BDSM folk are very vanilla in terms of their activities, but many are just enchanted with sharing their disgust. So good on ya!



MaerskII -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 8:31:13 AM)

periodically checking back on my Thread is proving interesting from all angles of peoples' perspective on this. but, I am wondering why people have started talking about and are seemingly focused on the "eating"??

... with Watersports, someone who does this for someone, they don't HAVE to drink or be forced to swallow mouthfulls, do they.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 8:37:22 AM)

I am not sure why folks focus on the eating...because it's the "ickiest" part, or the most high risk, I guess. No, not everyone into watersports drinks, some just get peed on. It's a world of folks!



GreedyTop -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 8:40:07 AM)

this has been a seriously interesting thread. SO not my kink, but as has been said, it is wonderful to see it being DISCUSSED instead of just dissed!!



FemmeDominion -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 9:19:00 AM)

What angle would you like discussed? I'm not trying to be being snide or rude - if I remember correctly you mentioned not wanting to eat it, or wear it. In my limited experience these are the two things most commonly done with scat. What angle are you thinking about it from? If you told us then perhaps we can be more helpful.

Just want to help.



slaveluci -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 11:41:06 AM)


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ORIGINAL: lizi

I think DS has your answer if you'd like to try this.
I just wanted to say, in all the time I've been into BDSM, talking to people about BDSM, and here on the boards I have never seen a female into scat and not all that many men, although it does come up from time to time. Any woman who ever did engage was a professional. Not to say my experience is an absolute, but quite honestly I have never even once seen, heard, talked to a woman who was into scat.


I have. There is a very well known, long time poster here that I really respect who has talked openly about being involved with this with her former owner. I don't know how "into" it she was on her own but she has talked many times about having participated in this activity when with him. It's not that out of the question though it isn't exactly what I'd call common..........luci



kalikshama -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 11:53:52 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

I do not have the Bowels of Reliability that would let me earn the large dollars for that. Good on her!


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LadyHibiscus -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 11:55:10 AM)

You are such a GIVER!!! But seriously, in the fetish a liquid explosion is a whole other "interest" from the solid.

For reals.

Yes, the exciting world of the professional dominant. wheeeee!



MaerskII -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 12:00:08 PM)

in reply to FemmeDominion .. you said:

"What angle would you like discussed? I'm not trying to be being snide or rude - if I remember correctly you mentioned not wanting to eat it, or wear it. In my limited experience these are the two things most commonly done with scat. What angle are you thinking about it from? If you told us then perhaps we can be more helpful."

I have on several occasions been involved with someone who was "into" Watersports; but we never took it further than the way we did it together. That didn't include drinking. Though it did come within close proximity of our mouths, we did it purely for the pleasure we got out of doing it together with each other--it was a sexual thing for us and it worked. we never drank or swallowed. So where people are saying that Scat play commonly involves part/full body smearing, licking and or eating; I disagree. For me the sight of what a partner of mine is doing for me as part of sex whether before or during is a curosity of mine to try.



dublinemma -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 12:12:37 PM)

I fantasise about cleaning a man's ass after he's shit. I've tasted my own, to be honest, don't really see why people find it so disgusting, pee makes me gag etc more!

In saying that I find the thought of being shit on a huge turn off, i wouldn't really eat it, as in a full piece or even half. For me either of them things would be horrible, but licking his ass afterwards wouldn't be.



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 12:31:53 PM)

Having endured lady farts which are the vilest of odours I really don't want the solids anywhere near me.

Just saying like.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 12:35:54 PM)

Does this mean our contest is off, Niney?



Ninebelowzero -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 12:37:28 PM)

Not at all I can just imagine the rush for the bathroom after 18 pints of Hobgoblin



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 12:39:12 PM)

I couldnt drink 18 pints of anything in an evening!!



SomeCdnGuy -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 12:44:36 PM)

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In saying that I find the thought of being shit on a huge turn off, i wouldn't really eat it, as in a full piece or even half. For me either of them things would be horrible, but licking his ass afterwards wouldn't be.
Now that's interesting. Do you suppose that might be because of the serving aspect of cleaning him?



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 12:48:32 PM)

Or because Rimming Is Fun.



Iamsemisweet -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 12:54:52 PM)

MaerskII, meet dublinemma.  Your dream girl.
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ORIGINAL: dublinemma

I fantasise about cleaning a man's ass after he's shit. I've tasted my own, to be honest, don't really see why people find it so disgusting, pee makes me gag etc more!

In saying that I find the thought of being shit on a huge turn off, i wouldn't really eat it, as in a full piece or even half. For me either of them things would be horrible, but licking his ass afterwards wouldn't be.



PeonForHer -> RE: Scat watching/participation (1/26/2012 12:59:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

I've seen quite a few scat threads here, and this one is far and away the most constructive.  They are usually just full of people stopping by to say, "Ewww gross!"



I agree.

I do wonder about two things. One is, how many people have fantasies of this but know that they couldn't do it in practice? The second is: how many people do occasionally try it, but wouldn't dream of mentioning it here? Because, let's be honest, the crowd here can be *very* harsh when it comes to certain views and behaviours.

Maybe a new poll in the appropriate forum is in order, so that those who choose to remain anonymous can do so . . . .



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