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Kaliko -> RE: Is this cheating? AND .. (1/26/2012 6:35:17 PM)
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Well, regarding your first question, I guess I am to make the assumption that you two are exclusive? If you haven't promised exclusivity, then I'd say it's not an issue.
Assuming you have, though, then yes, it's cheating. I'm all for a man I'm with looking at whatever images, movies, etc. he wants to, but if there starts to be any interaction...real interaction, not just talking about the subject of sex but actual phone or internet sex talk...that's when it enters a different level. Personally, if my man said to me that he wants to engage in erotic conversation with others, I'd help him dial and leave the room to give him privacy. She may be fine with it, for all you know. (Likely not, though...don't go spilling the beans on my account.)
As far as your second question, perhaps if you are searching for humiliation you are maybe making up situations for yourself that would give you some similar types of responses? Just a thought. Maybe you're putting her into that dominant position, especially after she denied you sex because the dog was in the room. Perhaps you're trying to extend the feeling.
And finally, regarding your other post, if you are worried about her freaking out and leaving you, then that may be for the best. If you're at the point where you are having sex, assuming exclusively, with each other but you can't share a little kinky fantasy with her or can't talk with her about physical issues that may affect your sex life without her freaking out, then you are likely not compatible and you will be stifling those desires of yours for some time to come. Break the kink out early, I say.
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