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LadyPact -> RE: What is the norm? (UK) (1/28/2012 7:52:13 PM)
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Welcome to the forums, OP.
On the blessing/curse thing, it really depends on one's own perspective. A regular play partner or a long term dynamic sounds like it would eliminate the curse factor for you. If you were content in satisfying the kinky desires, and that would make it a blessing, it's hard to call it a curse just for the lack of a partner that suits the things that you want.
I'm of the opinion that kinky people still really are the minority. Those who have been kinky all along have a hard time imagining that others could feel a different way because they are unfamiliar with the other side. As a later in life kinky person, I can tell you that I never had such desires until I was introduced to kink. In My opinion, it's very similar to whether people are straight, gay, or bi. When somebody is the complete opposite on the scale from you, it's hard to imagine what excites them because those things might not excite us at all.
Sorry to bubble burst, but kinky people as a group really aren't more open minded, or accepting, or any other good character quality higher than the rest of the population. We're like any other group of folks that happens to have something in common. It's one of the subjects that gets raised in discussions here, so you might really enjoy the forums.
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