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Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/29/2012 11:52:59 AM   
stokedconfidence


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Status: offline 		Hi everyone,

My name is Chad and I'm 21 years old. I know that I may sound young to a lot of people but I'm a mature male who does not believe in screwing around or wasting time.

That being said, I'm new to BDSM (well, new to being open about my interests) and I'm here to hopefully meet some great people and have some really worthwhile conversations with those who are willing to take the time to get to know me and help me uncover who I am as a submissive male.

Please feel free to message me if you're serious only. I know I'll get an influx of weird messages, but please try to be honest and sincere. I know this site gets a lot of slack for being really phony, but I believe there are some genuine people on here also.

Furthermore, my interests are merely that. I don't have much experience beyond what I think I would enjoy or know that I enjoy through videos and stories, but I am open to trying to new things and figuring out where I belong.

Thanks,
Chad


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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/29/2012 12:06:49 PM   
searching4mysir


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Status: offline 		Welcome to the discussion side of CM, Chad.

You might want to reconsider your last paragraph. Reality and fantasy are not the same. What happens in videos and stories may SEEM hot, but the reality may be very different.

It's OK to explore and it's OK to change your mind about something you were curious about (because you thought it was hot on video/in writing) but after experiencing want to place it on your hard limits list.

My hard limits list is pretty basic, but I keep a lot of things on a soft limits list...and exploring those limits depends on the person I'm with.

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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. (NC) - 1/29/2012 12:22:42 PM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		Hi Chad,

Nice pics and profile!

While you are new to the site (for about a month) you will get a higher than normal percentage of weird messages but you seem smart so will be able to screen effectively.

If you say where in NC you are, others might come along and point you towards BDSM events in your area. Also checkout Fetlife - the preferred site for events. If you are looking for people close to your age look for TNG groups.

People do connect on CM - check out the Positive Experiences forum. While sub males have the hardest time (due to supply and demand), since you are young, attractive, and intelligent, you'll beat the odds.

Welcome,

KK

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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/29/2012 12:31:39 PM   
ashjor911


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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/29/2012 1:09:41 PM   
DarkSteven


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ORIGINAL: stokedconfidence

My name is Chad and I'm 21 years old. I know that I may sound young to a lot of people



Actually, Chad, 21 is old enough to get you into every club I know, and you can also get into the TNG groups.  Not a bad age at all.

Welcome to collarme!


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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/29/2012 2:21:36 PM   
Delilya


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Status: offline 		There are real people here. I've met several and was even lucky enough to find my "one". You'll do fine. Jump on in, the waters warm.

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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/29/2012 2:28:00 PM   
sexyred1


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Status: offline 		Welcome.

You do not need to reconsider changing your last paragraph. I applaud your honesty and the way you stated your inexperience, but possible interest.

Good luck.

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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/29/2012 2:49:30 PM   
TorMaster


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Status: offline 		Its nice to see other new people, Chad. I hope you find what you need here.

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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/29/2012 2:53:51 PM   
Buzzzz


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Status: offline 		Wewlcome to cm. If you are in NC, you can contact me, there are plenty of things to do .

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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/29/2012 3:15:58 PM   
amaidiamond


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From: Watford / London
Status: offline 		welcome!

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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/29/2012 3:33:04 PM   
BurntKitty


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Status: offline 		welcome to CM!

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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/29/2012 7:40:36 PM   
shylilbear


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Status: offline 		Just remember one key thing. Have fun and enjoy yourself!




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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/29/2012 10:53:09 PM   
GreedyTop


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Status: offline 		hiya!

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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/29/2012 11:20:57 PM   
kjade


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Status: offline 		Hiya chad! Welcome.

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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/29/2012 11:57:35 PM   
orimotis69


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Status: offline 		we're about as genuine as you're going to get.

Welcome to the boards

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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/30/2012 4:04:52 AM   
OohAahMrs


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Status: offline 		Hey chad, yo chad, you de man chad!

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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/30/2012 2:38:41 PM   
stokedconfidence


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Status: offline 		Thanks for such a welcoming response. I look forward to getting to know everyone :) I can and make some great connections. Life is short, live it long.

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RE: Welcoming BDSM and the lifestyle. - 1/30/2012 10:14:04 PM   
MistressDarkArt


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Status: offline 		Welcome, Chad! Enjoy the journey, you'll do fine!

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