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DaddySatyr -> RE: Being trolled for having morals (1/30/2012 5:25:05 PM)
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ORIGINAL: xssve
Is it for having morals, or for hassling people that don't share yours? Just asking, because I can't remember the subject coming up for me more than once or twice in the years since I've been coming here.
Back when I was looking I'd usually skip over the married ones, I was looking for a 24/7, till death do us part slut, but I wasn't averse to playing in the meantime. I wouldn't do it without the husbands consent, I'm not homewrecker, and husbands have been known to react badly to this sort of thing when it's sprung on them fait acompli.
But even with spousal consent, to me it just means complications, I tend to make some kind of emotional investment in the people I'm shtuping, I like to think it's important enough to put everybody else on hold at least till you kinda get to know each other a little bit so I probably wouldn't fool around with a married woman for the same reason I probably couldn't get too excited about fooling around with a single chick that had another boyfriend, be like dating half a person - I've turned chicks down for that, lose the boyfriend, then we'll talk.
So unless it's like gangbang scene or something, maybe a Threesome or even the stunt cock in a cuck scene, it feels weird to me - doesn't even make sense 'cause I could probably get all into those other things, but not a one on one.
It's not morals or anything, I'm not even sure what it is - makes some people hot, I'm just lukewarm about it.
But you know it's their lives, I'm not their mother, it's not my job to enforce marital vows, people get bored, get on each others nerves, maybe even just feel like going out and meeting other people, social monogamy is quite common in many places, and nobody gets too worked up about it - if they're not hurting anybody there's no harm in it.
They're adults and they can presumably deal with the consequences of making adult choices - not my business to make those choices for them, I have to make choices for myself and live with those consequences.
Which consequences might include not getting a lot of married trim on the side maybe, but whatever, I think I can live with that, move on.
^^ This (and kudos for bringing the Yiddish, at the appropriate time)
Peace and comfort,
Michael
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