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New here, Male Dom seeking f/s! - 1/30/2012 10:18:38 PM

Barry960

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OK, well I really want to just vent my life story practically, explaining all my deepest kinks and why I'm here, but maybe should do a brief summary instead.

Basically, I started out in sites that are for submitting art relating to fetishes, and primarily am active in one that is for art in general, but has a lot of submissions and members primarily interested in fetish stuff. I would like this site to actually mesh with that one due to my comfort level there, and friendships from there. I joined this site to meet compatible women in RL of course, but as an aside, would love to share my own art and see art postings in here. From artwork centered type sites, all the time I get women right up my alley as far as compatible interests, but they are always off in another state, and really act personable only to get me to draw them as the subject without intent of actually meeting up and experiencing those very ideas we both so passionately are turned on by. That kind of can be frusterating, although it's nice to get volunteer muses from time to time.

I do have experience with my area of interest, bedroom bondage mastering of women, but don't think of myself as a dom in the sense I think it is in the bdsm "community". I am just me, and have my fetishes, and not that much taken to labelling myself, but wouldn't mind the label "master" again, heh heh. I don't know much about the intricate mind games and verbally how to be a dom is what I'm saying, but am not opposed to getting into that realm a bit if the right woman needed it, but mainly just am looking for someone who fantasizes about getting tied up and incorporating that into their sex life... maybe she played "cops and robbers" or "cowboys and indians" as a girl, and to this days still is curious to explore those strange but pleasing feelings she got when the neighbor boy tied her to a tree in the backyard, or a chair in the garage. I do like submissiveness in a female, but not neccessarily any more than what we might consider the "old fashioned" way, although who knows what kind of scenarios can develop?

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RE: New here, Male Dom seeking f/s! - 1/31/2012 12:44:19 AM

Delilya

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good luck

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RE: New here, Male Dom seeking f/s! - 1/31/2012 2:47:42 AM

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Hi, Barry!

There is a forum for art and photography here: http://www.collarchat.com/forumid_60/tt.htm

Welcome to collarme.

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RE: New here, Male Dom seeking f/s! - 1/31/2012 3:55:58 AM

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Welcome

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RE: New here, Male Dom seeking f/s! - 1/31/2012 5:29:53 AM

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Welcome bas.

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RE: New here, Male Dom seeking f/s! - 1/31/2012 11:26:36 AM

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RE: New here, Male Dom seeking f/s! - 1/31/2012 11:28:13 AM

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Welcome and good luck!

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RE: New here, Male Dom seeking f/s! - 1/31/2012 12:41:45 PM

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Welcome to CM :)

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RE: New here, Male Dom seeking f/s! - 2/1/2012 8:17:33 AM

Barry960

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Thanks everybody, and thanks @DarkSteven! I should have explored around more first before asking about image links, and it's a familiar easy setup it looks like. I'm posting one for now, and see how people in this site react to my tastes and style of drawing...just a cartoonish amalgamation of various styles that I liked over the years.

Also, maybe someone could clue me in on getting along in here, and not getting pissed off. In past bdsm sites I've been in, there seemed to be a lot of abrassiveness, but this is the first time I am in good company with a good number of female submissives and male doms it looks like, and I think that was a factor (surrounded by all F/m). I have come across several profiles where they vent about really mean people in here.

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RE: New here, Male Dom seeking f/s! - 2/1/2012 9:10:36 AM

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There is snark sometimes, quite a few here can be sardonic (hell my sense of humor is sarcastic to the core) - a thick skin and an ability to fence words works wonders here :D

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RE: New here, Male Dom seeking f/s! - 2/1/2012 10:52:34 AM

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quote:

Also, maybe someone could clue me in on getting along in here, and not getting pissed off.

- Treat people as if you were sitting at the dinner table with them.
- Respond to the positive people.
- Don't respond to assholes - this only feeds them.

A note on the Goreans here due to your comment:

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I am intersted in Gor to explore the fetish element of it

The Goreans here appear to have a very different reason for their interest. I won't put words in their mouth but this is not the aspect they tout but rather often reiterate that Gor /= BDSM.

< Message edited by kalikshama -- 2/1/2012 10:59:14 AM >

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RE: New here, Male Dom seeking f/s! - 2/1/2012 11:01:25 AM

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Hi Baz welcome & enjoy yourself, it is that simple.

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RE: New here, Male Dom seeking f/s! - 2/1/2012 7:58:32 PM

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ORIGINAL: Barry960
<snip> I am in good company with a good number of female submissives and male doms it looks like,

You'll find a good number of female dominants and male submissives, too!!

Welcome to CM, make yourself comfy, sit down and rest a spell. No, not that chair.....

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RE: New here, Male Dom seeking f/s! - 2/1/2012 10:00:29 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Barry960

Thanks everybody, and thanks @DarkSteven! I should have explored around more first before asking about image links, and it's a familiar easy setup it looks like. I'm posting one for now, and see how people in this site react to my tastes and style of drawing...just a cartoonish amalgamation of various styles that I liked over the years.

Also, maybe someone could clue me in on getting along in here, and not getting pissed off. In past bdsm sites I've been in, there seemed to be a lot of abrassiveness, but this is the first time I am in good company with a good number of female submissives and male doms it looks like, and I think that was a factor (surrounded by all F/m). I have come across several profiles where they vent about really mean people in here.

When I first landed here, before putting up a profile or responding to anyone's posts, I took about 2 months to carefully watch the discussions here, and even looked back on old posts. That way, I got the lay of the land, and a taste of who's who, and how they communicate, and respond to others. It was extremely helpful to me, as I very much felt like a stranger in a strange land.

As for helping you with not getting pissed off, I dunno. Personally, I make it a point to nearly NEVER take anything personally, NEVER to engage in arguments, and ALWAYS put my true self out there. I own and defend my thoughts, feelings and opinions, and never press them upon others, knowing theirs will often differ from mine and they will not always agree with me, which does not make mine any more right than theirs. I'm kind of the live and let live sort, and wish to give the best of me, whenever possible. I neither encourage, nor invite, friction, frustration or fuss. Life's too bloody short, and I'd much rather laugh and have fun while it lasts.

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