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peppermint -> RE: Buying a slave (1/31/2012 10:11:59 AM)
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No one is trying to belittle you. You are just one of the many guys to write here and ask the very same question. In this day and age it is assumed that most people know that real slavery was outlawed a long time ago.
According to your profile you must be an experienced Dom. You say you have experience. How did you find your last submissive? Have you ever been to a munch or any meeting of kinky people? That is where you have the best chance of finding a submissive of your own.
I'm being quite frank here as I'm in your own age category. When you are near 60 it gets difficult to find a female submissive. Most will be already taken. There are way more kinky men than kinky women at that age on both sides of the kneel. This means that if you really want to find a submissive you will have to do more than look online and offer to help to pay for transportation costs.
First thing for you to do is delete that awful profile. As Steven has stated, it is only going to attract scammers. Scammers don't giive a shit that you wrote saying they shouldn't contact you. Apparently it's not working so why put negative stuff in that profile? You want only positive stuff in your profie because that makes you look good. Write a new profile. Tell us about YOU. Tell us about your day. Tell us what makes you tick. What activities do you enjoy and include vanilla as well as kink activities. Read the profiles of the submissives within 200 miles of you. Write to some of them if you are interested and tell her why you are interested in her. Write them a nice note introducing yourself just as if you were introducing yourself to a group of people.
Then, get off the computer and find some real life people. Read the FAQs to find the groups and meetings and munches near you. There is a link in the FAQ that will lead you to a web site that lists all the groups in Tennessee. Then drive to one of them. Make yourself personable. Make friends. Network. There may not be a submissive waiting at the very first munch you attend, however, eventually someone will hear about somebody who is looking and if you have made friends, they'll let you know about this somebody.
Last, don't open your home to someone you do not know. That's just asking to get ripped off. Also, get to know someone BEFORE you give 24/7 a try. I really hated that part of your profile where you will give the sub a short trial in your home. That is just plain mean to kick someone out who may have nowhere to live, no family close by, and no job. Again. GET TO KNOW HER BEFORE YOU INVITE HER INTO YOUR HOME. D/s is like any other relationship. You get to know each other. You get to date. You meet her family. She meets your family. You spend some evenings in watching movies. You go out with friends.
By the way, Gary and I met at a kink event called In the Woods. He was 64 and I was 54. We lived 550 miles apart. However, we did meet because we took the time to attend an event that would have a lot of people there. We met because we took the time to make friends at the event. A person became friendly with Gary. That same person made friends with me. We got intoduced. Six months later after meeting families and doing a lot of talking and getting to know each other we moved together. That was 6 1/2 years ago. We both had profiles on Collarme but had never searched for someone so far away. The event brought us together.
Now get out and find that perfect submissive for you. Good luck.
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