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HandsomeKC -> Hello from a handsome KC Dom (2/1/2012 4:52:14 PM)

Hello all,

Yes, I am a good looking, (and modest!), Dom in Kansas City. Wanted to say hello to one and all.

I am looking for an attractive, submissive female to play with. Have not had too much luck on CM. Met some nice people, but the search goes on.

What challenges have you had finding someone? I've had lots, want to get other's perspective.



OsideGirl -> RE: Hello from a handsome KC Dom (2/1/2012 5:06:15 PM)

Welcome!



Fornica -> RE: Hello from a handsome KC Dom (2/1/2012 5:07:25 PM)

Welcome to CM.



ashjor911 -> RE: Hello from a handsome KC Dom (2/1/2012 5:13:56 PM)

Welcome



Casssy -> RE: Hello from a handsome KC Dom (2/2/2012 2:07:23 AM)


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ORIGINAL: HandsomeKC
What challenges have you had finding someone?

None really. Is it supposed to be challenging? [:D]



Delilya -> RE: Hello from a handsome KC Dom (2/2/2012 4:39:20 AM)

Found my "one" here within 7 months, so I have no advice on it being challenging. Good luck.



OohAahMrs -> RE: Hello from a handsome KC Dom (2/2/2012 6:17:26 AM)

Hey you good looking dude, give us guys a chance!



HandsomeKC -> RE: Hello from a handsome KC Dom (4/1/2012 9:07:01 AM)

Casssy,

For me it's been very challenging, problematic. I really want someone who I connect with, first and foremost. But to be attracted to, that has been the problem.

To be frank, most of the women I've met are overweight. It's not my thing. I want someone thin, athletic, slender, call it what you will. But in shape and pretty. I would love, love, love to find a thin, pretty woman in her 20s to play with, that is my fantasy, but I am open to age.

But so many subs I've found are overweight and just not attractive. I imagine the thin pretty ones don't stay single for long. And I don't want to date someone long distance, and I won't relocate, so the search goes on. I get onto CM for a while, message some women, don't hear back, get frustrated and give up, then go into the vanilla world searching, then back on here. About 4 years of that cycle.

But I have hope I will find someone.

Would like to hear other's experiences.



MissKittyDeVine -> RE: Hello from a handsome KC Dom (4/1/2012 9:20:38 AM)

You might have more luck if you expanded your parameters. It´s one thing being attracted to a particular physical type, but would you really dismiss someone who ticked all the emotional boxes while not being your perfect physical type? You come across as very fussy - not to mention shallow - so it´s no wonder that you´re having no success. Look at the common factor in your failed search - YOU.

By the way, since you place such importance on external appearance, you ought to place a photo of yourself on your profile so that people can judge if you fit their definition of handsome.



MissKittyDeVine -> RE: Hello from a handsome KC Dom (4/1/2012 9:26:38 AM)

Ah. Another clue. You say ´this is my fantasy´. Most submissive women are *sigh, how many times has this been said* able to take their pick as THEY are the ones in demand. They don´t care about fulfilling your fantasy, so unless you have something more to offer them, your search is likely to remain unsuccessful.



JstAnotherSub -> RE: Hello from a handsome KC Dom (4/1/2012 11:24:26 AM)

I am not thin or pretty for that matter. I do have many friends who are. They face the same problems I do when searching for a mate, both vanilla and kinky.

I would dare to bet that, while you find your self to be irresistibly handsome, you are not many folks cup of tea, in the looks department. Add your wonderful personality and, well, you are no better or worse off than any of us.

Good luck finding what you seek. Ya might wanna put a pic of your self up, so all the thin, attractive 20 somethings can see if you are an old fart that they find attractive.



BurntKitty -> RE: Hello from a handsome KC Dom (4/1/2012 11:30:16 AM)

Welcome to CM, and good luck with that.

Have you tried your local munch &/or events in your area?



MissKittyDeVine -> RE: Hello from a handsome KC Dom (4/1/2012 12:06:15 PM)

I read your profile - you come across as a person with character, who cares if you don´t fit the ´thin/pretty´ mould?

Looks don´t last, and someone who has nothing else to offer will become very tedious in the end (or long before).

quote:

ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub

I am not thin or pretty for that matter. I do have many friends who are. They face the same problems I do when searching for a mate, both vanilla and kinky.

I would dare to bet that, while you find your self to be irresistibly handsome, you are not many folks cup of tea, in the looks department. Add your wonderful personality and, well, you are no better or worse off than any of us.

Good luck finding what you seek. Ya might wanna put a pic of your self up, so all the thin, attractive 20 somethings can see if you are an old fart that they find attractive.





TNDommeK -> RE: Hello from a handsome KC Dom (4/1/2012 1:46:12 PM)

Welcome to the forums, and..good luck.



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