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curliesub -> slave or sub (2/2/2012 2:51:31 PM)

I have been asked as to why I consider myself a slave and not a sub ( yeah I know my user name says otherwise)

My reasoning is I don't have a natural submissive nature but I like to be MADE to serve my owner and wear my collar 24/7.

How do you differentiate between the 2?




Fornica -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 2:53:42 PM)

Here are some links of past discussions that you might wanna check out :)
http://www.collarchat.com/searchpro.asp?phrase=sub+or+slave&author=&forumid=ALL&topicreply=topic&message=subject&timeframe=%3E&timefilter=0&language=single&top=300&criteria=AND&minRank=0&sortMethod=d&submitbutton=+OK+



fucktoyprincess -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 2:55:46 PM)

I would have thought slave was a subset of submissive (i.e., all slaves are submissive, but not all submissives are slaves). My perspective, but I'm sure others might have a different perspective.



DesFIP -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 2:55:59 PM)

Does your owner enjoy having to make you get him a refill on his morning coffee every single morning?

Beyond that, some subs have less freedom than some slaves. There is not one true definition. You get to pick whatever label gives you a thrill.



curliesub -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 2:58:20 PM)

Yes he does actually.

Thanks for your thoughts



Endivius -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 3:01:00 PM)

The only deffinition that matters here, is the one you choose. Don't burden your mind with the inconsequential. How you designate yourself in a relationship is not nearly as important as how you participate in it. Just be you, and ignore all the bullshit. If the person asking doesnt like your answer it's not the end of the world.



curliesub -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 3:06:27 PM)

Thanks, I shall search for topics before I post in future :)



OsideGirl -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 3:36:47 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: Endivius

The only deffinition that matters here, is the one you choose. Don't burden your mind with the inconsequential. How you designate yourself in a relationship is not nearly as important as how you participate in it. Just be you, and ignore all the bullshit. If the person asking doesnt like your answer it's not the end of the world.
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curliesub -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 3:38:49 PM)

I agree, good post.



Fornica -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 3:53:30 PM)

No need, I just thought you might wanna see the different views on it, it's a pretty broadly defined thing, kwim?



ProlificNeeds -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 4:26:43 PM)

I prefere to be called a food item. Muffin, pumpkin, rotten apple, you get the idea. I feel neither sub, nor slave has any context to me, but in the context of a sub SANDWICH that might be okay. I await the day someone calls me a grapefruit or a kumquat.



SimplyMichael -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 5:00:17 PM)

I own slaves other people just dominate submissives.



curliesub -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 5:13:48 PM)

I like that term.. My little Kum-quat :)



SpiritedRadiance -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 5:15:54 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Endivius

The only deffinition that matters here, is the one you choose. Don't burden your mind with the inconsequential. How you designate yourself in a relationship is not nearly as important as how you participate in it. Just be you, and ignore all the bullshit. If the person asking doesnt like your answer it's not the end of the world.


You know you keep this up and its going to end poorly Please remove yourself from my mind and reordering my thoughts in a tactful manner.



Endivius -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 6:01:15 PM)

It puts the lotion in the basket!

[:D]




peppermint -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 6:34:32 PM)

I am a submissive.  I am not a slave.  I am not a slave because I dislike the word and do not want it used to describe me. 



littlewonder -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 6:37:46 PM)

I am his slave because I am submissive in nature and I do things for him because I want to and it makes him happy, not because he forces me.

If he had to force me every single time he would not see me as a slave.





OsideGirl -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 6:50:36 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint

I am a submissive.  I am not a slave.  I am not a slave because I dislike the word and do not want it used to describe me. 


I feel the same way.



graceadieu -> RE: slave or sub (2/2/2012 11:19:01 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: peppermint

I am a submissive.  I am not a slave.  I am not a slave because I dislike the word and do not want it used to describe me. 


Yeah, I definitely feel you on this. I guess it's just that I'm so horrified about real-life non-consensual slavery that I couldn't call myself a slave without feeling like I was somehow disrespecting victims of sex trafficking and forced labor. Which I know is kind of ridiculous and just my bleeding-heart liberalism getting the better of me. I'm not judging anyone who chooses to use the term slave in their own consensual relationship, this is just a me thing.



Casssy -> RE: slave or sub (2/3/2012 2:28:57 AM)

I am a dominant bottom bisexual masochist switch sadist Mommy type and that is not all I am but I havent found some more labels to stick on yet.
I do feel I am running out of space tho [:D]



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