fucktoyprincess
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ORIGINAL: fucktoyprincess ... and see where your friends and family lie along the tolerance spectrum, and see if there is any pattern. . Lol, but of course, this presupposes that we can accurately judge, and that by judging we do not in fact lower our own tolerance score. After all, isn't our assessment of another's intolerance likely to be influenced more by the degree of disagreement from our own views than by already assuming the conclusion: that our own purported intelligence makes us sufficiently tolerant to our own biases that we can make a fair assessment of others? This is making my head swim. Maybe I'm just dim witted. And therefore intolerant... Agreed. I did say the following in my original post "Of course, the issue will fall back on the fundamental issue of how one defines "tolerance". And I believe one side has a better grasp of what this truly means than the other." I do honestly believe that one side does have a better grasp. I have no hesitation in saying that socially conservative people are less tolerant of other people, and other viewpoints, than others. They typically do NOT have a live and let live attitude. They typically feel that how they choose to do things is how everyone should choose/(be forced?) to do it. I am certainly intolerant of intolerance. But I fundamentally believe in live and let live. I DON'T presume to have all of the answers - which is why I prefer to leave as much as possible to individual choice (i.e., if two adults of whatever gender and sexual orientation want to get married, let them get married; if they don't, they don't; if a woman wants to use birth control, let her; if she doesn't she isn't required to, etc.) What I find disconcerting about those who are socially conservative is that they presume that their way of doing it is not only CORRECT, but also the ONLY way that things can be done by everyone else. I am happy to let conservatives make their own decisions for themselves, as long as they give me the same freedom. But allowing someone else to do something that you don't believe is correct requires holding two competing thoughts in your head at the same time. And, I do sincerely believe, that the ability to hold multiple competing thoughts in one's head is an absolute prerequisite for tolerance. While a social conservative can claim that their homophobic friend down the block is "tolerant", I think, by any objective sense of "tolerance", it is quite easy to reach the conclusion that homophobia is NOT tolerant. Period. How, exactly, is something like homophobia a tolerant viewpoint? By what rationale is imposing one's personal views against homosexuality on the rest of the community, tolerant? The social conservative will simply fall back on "well, it's wrong, so it does not have to be tolerated." But at the end of the day, they certainly can't claim tolerance for a viewpoint like that. The same can be said for racism and any number of other things. If you don't tolerate people who are different from you, how can you claim tolerance? Two quotes from Gandhi: "Anger and intolerance are the enemies of correct understanding." "When I despair, I remember that all through history the way of truth and love has always won. There have been tyrants and murderers and for a time they seem invincible, but in the end, they always fall -- think of it, always." Those who are intolerant and who, like tyrants, constantly try to impose their will on others, will, in the end lose. Intolerance in the world is what leads to things like the Holocaust. Tolerance is the only thing that will set humanity truly free.
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