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Slutastic: Help me out here. Anyone willing and able to address this issue?
Sure. The god you're looking for, Slutastic, won't ever come to you. He's above begging on the doorsteps of submissives like an encyclopedia seller of an older time or a spam emailer of our present time. You will have to make considerable effort to seek him out and then, if you are lucky enough to find him, lay yourself on the ground, open and vulnerable to his attention, will, and force. You will need to recognize his ability to give you what you need and hope and pray he will find you worthy of notice. How do you tell him him from the hot air sources that come to your doorstep in their clumsy attempts to court and spark? Besides the fact that he finds begging the submissive to pay attention to him far beneath him, you will find that when you attempt to prick him, he does not deflate. But his patience is not endless. Once he's felt you've pricked enough to know there's solidity, not gas behind his presence, then if you venture beyond that point, if you prick again, you'll be banished from the kingdom of his regard (you'll be shocked by how much you've grown to need this without even realizing it) and you'll rue the day that you pricked him one too many times. Should you ever find such a god, your very best option is to make yourself useful to him, give him a reason to keep your (I'm talking generically here--or perhaps I am speaking of myself) sorry ass around.
Kana made a good point. I'm wondering if you grasped it? His point was that not all gods are the same. The guys you're talking about are very familiar to me. I call them wanna-be gods, there's nothing particularly awesome about them--except their egos. Look for the substance behind the arrogance, those qualities that justify the arrogance. Nobody begrudges a great and benevolent ruler who has turned his country around from an impoverished mess to a thriving healthy safe place his arrogance. That arrogance has been earned. Look for those who have earned the right to be arrogant, not those trying to make themselves feel better by wrapping a shiny-looking but ill-fitting garment around their impoverished or lazy bones.
Ishtarr: Why are you complaining about exactly the type of man your profile is designed to attract?
I couldn't disagree more. While I know such a profile will attract plenty of hot air balloons because they like to imagine they are what she is seeking (actually all submissive female profiles attract plenty of hot air balloons, truth be known), it will also attract the notice of the genuine article, although, as I suggested above to Slutastic, the genuine article won't usually write first or even play the silent "look at me looking at your profile" game. Someone who wants what the OP wants usually has to put considerable time and effort into locating such an individual, but the cool thing is that, with a profile like hers, the right individual will be quite receptive to her.
Why would the type of man who is strong enough to get what he wants -including the women he wants- bother with a woman who professes herself to be damaged goods, when he can just as easily get the functioning shiny toys instead?
In my experience, which is rather extensive, shiny healthy toys tend to attract equally boring shiny healthy masters, neither of whom grasp the depths and the heights that sadistic perversion and profound control can bring about. Or at least that's been true for the last 25 years that I've been watching the online and offline circus side show known as the bdsm community.
The cool thing about damaged goods is that, as well as being fucked up, we tend to be humble and flexible, open to change, understanding of the need to be completely subservient to someone we can genuinely worship. This makes us capable of doing things that most Marvelous Shiny Submissive Toys(tm) are too (cough) "healthy" to do. The gods that I have known have understood the uses and benefits of "damaged goods" and often prefer them over the the self-satisfied "look how marvelous I am!" toys, because the latter are often rigidly inflexible due to ego and are really, at heart, not very much fun at all to play with. I'm assuming in this of course, that the god under question has a thriving sadistic streak.
Afterword: Sigh. It looks like this particular bird has taken wing already. A pity. I hadn't the time to respond before now. I hope she is lurking and sees what I intend for her as a message of hope.
** standing on the back of the auditorium seating, hooting and hollering with applause **
While the OP may no longer be around to benefit from this very insightful post, I am most appreciative
that you shared your thoughts here. It's good to read you again.
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