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A New Domme - 2/6/2012 4:07:32 PM   
slvemike4u


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Hello friends,and even those who don't really like me all that much(what are you folks doing here,get back to P and R...lol)please allow me to tell you all(since I feel like shouting it from the mountain top)about the new Domme in my life.
She is here(I haven't discussed this with her,so She will remain nameless),I started writing Her about a year ago,North Carolina is a big state and She wasn't all that close to me.Knowing that She would be relocating closer to me in the future She said She would keep me in mind for a future meeting.....
Well we,(if you are a male sub i mean) have all heard this before,a nice,polite,and harmless rejection...but I saw a crack in the door and kept writing.Every once in awhile I would write,ask about the relocation,how things were going etc.etc.
Finally,after commending me on my perseverance She allowed how She was now in my area and perhaps we should meet for coffee.Now I am a great guy,really I am(in my own mind and in the mind of those that know me anyway....lol) but I don't exactly bowl a person over at a first meeting....I am rather shy and withdrawn.Well She says "here we are,this is your chance,what do you have to say for yourself....make your pitch",I respond....hmmmmmna....hmmmmna....hmmmmmna...She starts laughing at me.Asking if I am the same guy that wrote her such nice letters,well I finally get everything under control and was able to sound like a cognizant,sane almost normal human being.
Whatever charm I was able to exude was enough for Her to decide that we should see each other another night for a drink and a snack.
That worked out fine,I was more relaxed,whatever nervousness I now had came across as endearing...my shyness was now a quality ,rather than a liability.We,mostly She decided we needed to "play/scene" together to see how that went.
It went wonderful,She pegged me off the bat as an eager submissive who nevertheless holds something of himself back....She was/is intrigued about knocking down that wall.On my part I have been trying,with more than a few others ,to reach "subspace" that nirvana where one can just let themselves go to another....She wants to try to take me there.I am only to happy to let Her do so.
So the deal is struck,I am now Hers and She is in charge as we set out on this journey....I don't see how I could be happier with all of this
I told Her the other day of this new sensation wherein I can not wait for tomorrow to get here,cause each day is just getting better and better....I have never,ever had that before....I have it now,and will cling to it as long as I can

< Message edited by slvemike4u -- 2/6/2012 4:08:15 PM >


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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 4:11:45 PM   
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For reals? HUZZAH!! I'm sure she took one look at your fabulous blue eyes and that was it.

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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 4:26:26 PM   
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Mike.. I am sitting here, literally, beaming for you! I hope this is everything you dreamed and beyond anything you ever imagined. Much good luck and well wishes as you step onto a new relationship path.



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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 4:55:30 PM   
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Thanks Ladies,so far..and we are just starting out,it seems that everything I always hoped I would find,and more,in this lifestyle is finally within my grasp.Now all I need do is to be willing,brutally honest,and a little fearless as I follow direction and allow myself to be led where I want to go.
I can,and want to,do this....I enter into it with more enthusiasm than anything heretofore in my life.That I think is a direct product of just how difficult my search was,how long it took and the luck I know I had in finding someone who I clicked with,who was than,willing to work with me.


Naturally I must exclude Parenthood from that "enthusiasm" part....being a daddy will never be topped,sorry Ma'am

< Message edited by slvemike4u -- 2/6/2012 4:56:38 PM >


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Forget Guns-----Ban the pools

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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 4:58:43 PM   
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I am really pleased! Like, smiling stupidly pleased.

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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 5:08:10 PM   
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That's great!!!! Yay you :)))

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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 5:12:21 PM   
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VERY awesome! I'm so happy for this chance the two of you are taking. : )

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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 5:16:37 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

Hello friends,and even those who don't really like me all that much(what are you folks doing here,get back to P and R...lol)please allow me to tell you all(since I feel like shouting it from the mountain top)about the new Domme in my life.
She is here(I haven't discussed this with her,so She will remain nameless),I started writing Her about a year ago,North Carolina is a big state and She wasn't all that close to me.Knowing that She would be relocating closer to me in the future She said She would keep me in mind for a future meeting.....
Well we,(if you are a male sub i mean) have all heard this before,a nice,polite,and harmless rejection...but I saw a crack in the door and kept writing.Every once in awhile I would write,ask about the relocation,how things were going etc.etc.
Finally,after commending me on my perseverance She allowed how She was now in my area and perhaps we should meet for coffee.Now I am a great guy,really I am(in my own mind and in the mind of those that know me anyway....lol) but I don't exactly bowl a person over at a first meeting....I am rather shy and withdrawn.Well She says "here we are,this is your chance,what do you have to say for yourself....make your pitch",I respond....hmmmmmna....hmmmmna....hmmmmmna...She starts laughing at me.Asking if I am the same guy that wrote her such nice letters,well I finally get everything under control and was able to sound like a cognizant,sane almost normal human being.
Whatever charm I was able to exude was enough for Her to decide that we should see each other another night for a drink and a snack.
That worked out fine,I was more relaxed,whatever nervousness I now had came across as endearing...my shyness was now a quality ,rather than a liability.We,mostly She decided we needed to "play/scene" together to see how that went.
It went wonderful,She pegged me off the bat as an eager submissive who nevertheless holds something of himself back....She was/is intrigued about knocking down that wall.On my part I have been trying,with more than a few others ,to reach "subspace" that nirvana where one can just let themselves go to another....She wants to try to take me there.I am only to happy to let Her do so.
So the deal is struck,I am now Hers and She is in charge as we set out on this journey....I don't see how I could be happier with all of this
I told Her the other day of this new sensation wherein I can not wait for tomorrow to get here,cause each day is just getting better and better....I have never,ever had that before....I have it now,and will cling to it as long as I can


Bud....that RAWKS!!!!!!!

(I remember the feeling :) fucking awesome.....go get 'er....and DON'T fucking let 'er go!!!!)

I have spoken.

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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 5:17:43 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

For reals? HUZZAH!! I'm sure she took one look at your fabulous blue eyes and that was it.


(I gotta get me some lenses).

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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 5:20:22 PM   
slvemike4u


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The chance is all Hers,She offered me a relationship,laid out the structure,some boundaries and asked me if I was willing to accept....I was in my birthday suit,vulnerable and putty in her hands....so She said She wanted no answer than,for me to think about it,mull it over and let Her know.
I needed no time(though She insisted I take it)and accepted more than willingly and now we have this thread
A few days later I looked at Her and sort of called Her on the "choice" She had presented me....I said something to the effect that She knew,without a doubt ,that I was a deer in the headlights right there ,right than...and that there was never any chance of my declining......She looked me in the eyes,smiled and said something like....."I know little monk,you were all mine from that moment on" ...well that is how I remember it anyway.The quotes might be off a bit,but nothing absolutely nothing was lost in translation....lol.

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Forget Guns-----Ban the pools

Funny stuff....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNwFf991d-4


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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 5:20:45 PM   
lizi


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Woo hoo! That's awesome! 

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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 5:22:59 PM   
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That's great news!  Although

quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u
She pegged me off the bat


You could have phrased the above better. 


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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 5:27:53 PM   
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How sweet! Congratulations.

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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 5:38:17 PM   
slvemike4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

That's great news!  Although

quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u
She pegged me off the bat


You could have phrased the above better. 


Yeah,in the quest for truth in writing.....I could have.One must be patient and await Her decision as to when to grace you with a "pegging"

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If we want things to stay as they are,things will have to change...Tancredi from "the Leopard"

Forget Guns-----Ban the pools

Funny stuff....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNwFf991d-4


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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 5:39:18 PM   
slvemike4u


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LookieNoNookie


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

For reals? HUZZAH!! I'm sure she took one look at your fabulous blue eyes and that was it.


(I gotta get me some lenses).

Wait a minute...my eyes aren't blue ?
What the fuck,I been cheated.....lol.

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If we want things to stay as they are,things will have to change...Tancredi from "the Leopard"

Forget Guns-----Ban the pools

Funny stuff....https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eNwFf991d-4


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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 5:47:26 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: slvemike4u

The chance is all Hers,She offered me a relationship,laid out the structure,some boundaries and asked me if I was willing to accept....I was in my birthday suit, (YOU SLUT!!!!!!) vulnerable and putty in her hands....so She said She wanted no answer than,for me to think about it,mull it over and let Her know.
I needed no time(though She insisted I take it)and accepted more than willingly and now we have this thread
A few days later I looked at Her and sort of called Her on the "choice" She had presented me....I said something to the effect that She knew,without a doubt ,that I was a deer in the headlights right there ,right than...and that there was never any chance of my declining......She looked me in the eyes,smiled and said something like....."I know little monk,you were all mine from that moment on" ...well that is how I remember it anyway.The quotes might be off a bit,but nothing absolutely nothing was lost in translation....lol.


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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 6:05:02 PM   
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ahhhh... sweet.  Mazel Tov!   Hope it continues to be lovely.  :)

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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 10:09:52 PM   
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Fantastic, Mike!! *warm fuzzies* I wish you both al the best!

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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 11:05:02 PM   
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First, while I said this in private, its now time to say so in public...

YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It could not happen to a sweeter guy and I am grinning from ear to ear for you!!!

Second, if you can manage to remember.. I want pics, dammit!!!!

And third, from my heart, I am so happy for you that I cried when you first told me.

She is a lucky woman.

~smooches

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RE: A New Domme - 2/6/2012 11:15:13 PM   
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Congratulations! Hope you both enjoy the journey.

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