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Looking for an Exhibitionist Masochist - 2/10/2012 8:26:20 AM   
BaronLeiden


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Yes, how many times have you heard the age old story of boy meets girl, girl would like boy to get off with other girls, boy says alright but only of I can torture them as well.

My wife and I have been together for a very long time. Throughout our time together she has fantasised about me cheating on her with many other women. She likes the idea of watching me have my way at her expense. Its a very complex emotional area but it really excites her. I interpret it as she is being very submissive and voyeuristic even though it is much more involved than that. The term that covers this kink is Cuckquean for women and Cuckold for men. It is very different from threesomes, poly, and swinging. My wife has asked me to use terms like cheating and girlfriend because their use is so emotionally charged for her.

I have always been very sadistic and am interested in meeting strong-willed women who want to be put to the test. I like to think of it as their curiosity or pride in their capabilities is the fatal flaw I am interested in. They need to climb up on that cross and its my job as the centurion at the bottom to bear witness and pass judgement. I like the idea of cheating on my wife only because I know she will enjoy it very much. It also gives me a thrill that it will be emotionally difficulty for her. I am looking forward to re-connecting afterwards, the cuck equivalent of aftercare.

My wife wants me to find the potential girlfriends to cheat on her with. I know a lot of couples expect the wife to search for girlfriends but we are doing it differently. I am really interested in meeting new people for the first time. I looking forward to getting to know them inside the bedroom and outside. I am quite aware that finding a girlfriend willing to do this is going to be difficult but I'm trying my best.

I am being optimistic and trying to come up with new ideas. I have placed adverts in a number of places, including FetLife and CollarMe. Let me know if you can think of any good ideas or websites that might help, or if you have any useful advice from your own experiences.

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RE: Looking for an Exhibitionist Masochist - 2/10/2012 8:47:12 AM   
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welcome.

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RE: Looking for an Exhibitionist Masochist - 2/10/2012 9:07:09 AM   
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Welcome To You Both

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RE: Looking for an Exhibitionist Masochist - 2/10/2012 9:09:02 AM   
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RE: Looking for an Exhibitionist Masochist - 2/10/2012 10:10:23 AM   
poise


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BaronLeiden

Yes, how many times have you heard the age old story of boy meets girl, girl would like boy to
get off with other girls, boy says alright but only of I can torture them as well.

The term that covers this kink is Cuckquean for women and Cuckold for men.
It is very different from threesomes, poly, and swinging. My wife has asked me to use
terms like cheating and girlfriend because their use is so emotionally charged for her.

I like the idea of cheating on my wife only because I know she will enjoy it very much.
It also gives me a thrill that it will be emotionally difficulty for her. I am looking forward
to re-connecting afterwards, the cuck equivalent of aftercare.

Let me know if you can think of any good ideas or websites
that might help, or if you have any useful advice from your own experiences.


Welcome to Collarme, Saul. While it does seem like a daunting task you have in front of
you, it isn't impossible. I think a better term to start using instead of girlfriend would be bottom.
A girlfriend seems to define someone whom you will also be making an emotional commitment to,
and what you describe sounds like a play situation only.

I suggest that, along with your internet adverts, become more involved, as a couple, in some of the
local events in your neighborhood. This would not only increase your odds of making contact with
those that may be interested in your scenario, but your wife may enjoy watching others at play in the
interim. Fetlife is great for finding such events. Best of luck to the three of you.

< Message edited by poise -- 2/10/2012 10:11:05 AM >


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RE: Looking for an Exhibitionist Masochist - 2/10/2012 3:04:53 PM   
Delilya


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good luck

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RE: Looking for an Exhibitionist Masochist - 2/11/2012 7:11:54 AM   
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Welcome bar, talk to the hand?

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RE: Looking for an Exhibitionist Masochist - 2/18/2012 8:19:04 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: BaronLeiden

Yes, how many times have you heard the age old story of boy meets girl, girl would like boy to get off with other girls, boy says alright but only of I can torture them as well.

My wife and I have been together for a very long time. Throughout our time together she has fantasised about me cheating on her with many other women. She likes the idea of watching me have my way at her expense. Its a very complex emotional area but it really excites her. I interpret it as she is being very submissive and voyeuristic even though it is much more involved than that. The term that covers this kink is Cuckquean for women and Cuckold for men. It is very different from threesomes, poly, and swinging. My wife has asked me to use terms like cheating and girlfriend because their use is so emotionally charged for her.

I have always been very sadistic and am interested in meeting strong-willed women who want to be put to the test. I like to think of it as their curiosity or pride in their capabilities is the fatal flaw I am interested in. They need to climb up on that cross and its my job as the centurion at the bottom to bear witness and pass judgement. I like the idea of cheating on my wife only because I know she will enjoy it very much. It also gives me a thrill that it will be emotionally difficulty for her. I am looking forward to re-connecting afterwards, the cuck equivalent of aftercare.

My wife wants me to find the potential girlfriends to cheat on her with. I know a lot of couples expect the wife to search for girlfriends but we are doing it differently. I am really interested in meeting new people for the first time. I looking forward to getting to know them inside the bedroom and outside. I am quite aware that finding a girlfriend willing to do this is going to be difficult but I'm trying my best.

I am being optimistic and trying to come up with new ideas. I have placed adverts in a number of places, including FetLife and CollarMe. Let me know if you can think of any good ideas or websites that might help, or if you have any useful advice from your own experiences.


Sales pitch.

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