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looking for help gettiong started - 2/12/2012 8:39:00 AM   
slave0103


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Status: offline 		Hi I am new this site and I am looking for a mistress to train me. I have done self bondage and getting bored and lookin g to take it to the next step. Does anyone have any ideas on how to take that next step. I have put a profile out there and e mail acouple of mistress but no bites yet
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RE: looking for help gettiong started - 2/12/2012 8:40:19 AM   
OsideGirl


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Status: offline 		Get out from behind your computer and become active in your local community. Meet real people.

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RE: looking for help gettiong started - 2/12/2012 8:43:11 AM   
DarkSteven


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OsideGirl's right.  Get out there.  And show some more initiative.


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RE: looking for help gettiong started - 2/12/2012 8:49:58 AM   
heartfeltsub


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Status: offline 		http://polyamory.meetup.com/cities/us/ma/plymouth/

This has a listing of some possible groups in your area. Yes i pulled it from a poly google search, but there are other groups there as well.

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RE: looking for help getting started - 2/12/2012 9:19:52 AM   
slave0103


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RE: looking for help gettiong started - 2/12/2012 9:48:05 AM   
payingoinker


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ORIGINAL: slave0103

Hi I am new this site and I am looking for a mistress to train me. I have done self bondage and getting bored and lookin g to take it to the next step. Does anyone have any ideas on how to take that next step. I have put a profile out there and e mail acouple of mistress but no bites yet


good luck


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RE: looking for help gettiong started - 2/12/2012 12:52:47 PM   
kalikshama


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Status: offline 		Ah, if only you'd posted a few days earlier I would have pointed you towards the New England Leather Alliance Fetish Fair Fleamarket, which just finished today.

Fetlife is better for finding local events. There's a bi-monthly munch in Taunton:

https://fetlife.com/groups/20107/about

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Description:
The Taunton munch is a low-pressure social gathering for people involved in or interested in BDSM, that meets on the 1st and 3rd Thursday of each munch at Smokey Bones, in Taunton, MA, starting at 6:00 PM. People are free to arrive and leave as they wish. The primary purpose is socializing.

Rules:
This is a family restaurant, so street attire is appropriate.


And one is forming that may meet in Hanover. I suggest this one if you are shy as EVERYBODY will be new.

https://fetlife.com/groups/44897/group_posts/2007320

A group for south shore MA Kinksters from Cohasset, Duxbury, Hanover, Hingham, Hull, Kingston, Marshfield, Norwell, Pembroke, Plymouth, Scituate ..ect

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RE: looking for help gettiong started - 2/12/2012 1:41:57 PM   
slave0103


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Status: offline 		thanks I will check out the group thanks again and good luck to you

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RE: looking for help gettiong started - 2/12/2012 1:44:42 PM   
Delilya


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RE: looking for help gettiong started - 2/12/2012 1:52:20 PM   
slave0103


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RE: looking for help gettiong started - 2/12/2012 2:15:33 PM   
Higuysitsme


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Status: offline 		You might want to actually write something about yourself and what you're seeking on your profile as well. Look up some of the threads that tell you how to write something eye catching. Get out and meet people as suggested, and get writing to folk. And don't talk about 'bites'. If a domme bites you, you'll know about it!

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RE: looking for help gettiong started - 2/18/2012 4:22:23 AM   
kalikshama


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A group for south shore MA Kinksters from Cohasset, Duxbury, Hanover, Hingham, Hull, Kingston, Marshfield, Norwell, Pembroke, Plymouth, Scituate ..ect


The first meeting of this group is Sunday 2/19 at 2 PM at the Unos in Hanover.

https://fetlife.com/events/91677/v2

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