Rochsub2009 -> RE: Ass licking (2/12/2012 11:33:29 AM)
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I'll take a crack at this. Some have been hard on you, but I'm going to assume that you're new to BDSM and simply don't know what a "slave" or "sub" are. Both terms relate to power exchange relationships. By "power exchange", that usually means that one person is in charge (the Dom/Domme/Master/Owner) , and the other person obeys (the sub/slave/property). Some people practice D/s (Domination/submission) in all aspects of their relationship, while others keep the D/s activities restricted to the bedroom. What you've described sounds more like a fetish. You like to lick pussy and ass. That doesn't make you a sub or a slave. It simply make you someone who enjoys giving oral sex. A good test of whether you are potentially a sub or a slave is to ask yourself whether you enjoy doing what YOU like, or if you would find enjoyment in doing what SOMEONE ELSE likes (even if you don't particularly enjoy or want to do that activity). If something inside of you gets all tingly when you think about obeying another person's commands (even when they tell you to do something that you may not want to do), then you may want to explore being a sub. But if you don't like the idea of doing anything but the things that YOU enjoy (like licking ass and pussy), then you probably aren't a sub or slave. I hope that helps you to understand better.
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