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TheKingofHell -> What do you think is worse? (2/13/2012 11:50:04 PM)
A. Being alone. B. Being in love with someone who only hates you and only tolerates your presence not knowing how you really feel(because you often come off as a dick despite your best efforts). C. Being with someone who is in love with someone else or is sleeping around behind your back. D. Not being able to be loved even though its what you want more than anything. E. Having once loved but lost it for what ever reason. I would say... its a toss up between B, C, and D. But if I have to choose I'd go with D.

KMsAngel -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/14/2012 12:17:59 AM)
C. i'm happier without a male in my house that is cheating and wants to be with someone else.

DarqueMirror -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/14/2012 12:25:25 AM)
C. I'm happier without a narcissistic female in my life who claims to love me when, in fact, she's just seeing what she can get from me while sleeping with others.

Kirata -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/14/2012 12:27:53 AM)
Where's the option for "Polls Like This One"? [:D] K.

DarqueMirror -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/14/2012 12:30:44 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kirata Where's the option for "Polls Like This One"? [:D] K. That'd be option F.

DomThoughts -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/14/2012 12:50:27 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DarqueMirror quote: ORIGINAL: Kirata Where's the option for "Polls Like This One"? [:D] K. That'd be option F. No, option F is 'Seriously! quit being whiny, ever likely she don't love you!, move on, find someone new'

littlewonder -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/14/2012 9:07:15 AM)
well it wouldn't be B because I don't ever fall in love with men who hate me. I can't for the life of me how or why anyone could. That's not how love works for me. I guess out of all of them it would b C but I'm the type that if you cheat on me I no longer love you and I'm gone like the wind. A is easy..been there done that for the majority of my life. E has already happened to me. It's not easy but you eventually move on and life goes on. and D....hhhmmm....I guess for me that's like A. Been like that for a few years but learned to love myself and know that there is a higher power who loves me so it wasn't something that lingered in my life. So basically I guess I'm saying....it depends.

mnottertail -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/14/2012 9:08:36 AM)
A is always worse if you are having a heart attack and cant get to the phone.

ResidentSadist -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/14/2012 9:10:54 AM)
^

mnottertail -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/14/2012 9:12:07 AM)
If you're snapping one off, or can't pee with somebody watching you, A is nearly mandatory.

littlewonder -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/14/2012 9:14:01 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail A is always worse if you are having a heart attack and cant get to the phone. UGH...that's what happened to my aunt and no one found her body for a week because she was a loner and never let people in. I think that's something I do worry about.

LillyBoPeep -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/14/2012 10:46:25 AM)
A -- well I have plenty of experience with that, and I'm a-ok with it. B -- I have never understood the allure of someone who doesn't like you. Have some self-respect and ditch 'em. =p C -- Not so bad -- sure the feelings are hurt, but you can rebuild them. No one's dead, and the rest of your life is still ahead of you. D -- (i'll come back to this one) E -- Depends on the type of loss -- if you "lost" because you guys broke up, then there is still a possibility. Again, feelings can be hurt, but you'll survive. If someone dies, it sucks because life is simply cut off, and it's over for that reason, only, not because of something that really had something to do with you. After dealing with this, for a while I thought I'd have been better off never meeting the guy, but now that I've moved on, I'm happy for the chance to have met him, and it hasn't really changed my ideas on love. D is my answer -- if you are unable to be loved, why is that? Usually people like this (at least when I've met them) have a way of forcing others away from them, but they don't realize it. I'd say it's the worst because if you can't look at yourself clearly, you may never be able to figure out why. And if you can't figure out why, you can't change it. Most people are just content to blame others, rather than look back at themselves, and issues like this can take years and years to be resolved, if they ever are.

LaTigresse -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/14/2012 11:20:51 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kirata Where's the option for "Polls Like This One"? [:D] K. Exactly. The poll is all about the OP. It's all me me me me meeeeeeeee, poor ME. Selfish bint. Fuck that shit. What I believe would be worse, not being able to love. I care much less whether or not my love is returned. I do care that I love.

Arturas -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/14/2012 11:24:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kirata Where's the option for "Polls Like This One"? [:D] K. now now, remember this ain't Gor.

Winterapple -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/14/2012 11:34:51 AM)
FR A. It's better to be alone than in a bad relationship. There will be times even in a healthy and thriving relationship where you will feel alone or have things you have to go through or process on your own. People who can be own their own and aren't afraid of being unpartnered probably make very good partners because they enter into relationships for different reasons than people who are terrified of being alone. Not being a part of a couple doesn't sentence you to a Yvette Vickers sort of fate. You can have thriving connections with others, family, friends, community. B. That sounds dreadful. I can imagine having feelings or attraction to someone who is indifferent but love for one who actively hates you? Emotional masochism, you're likely getting off on your own suffering. C. A common enough scenario. Painful but nothing to jump off a bridge about. If we've agreed to forsake all others and one doesn't well there it goes. Though for some it comes around again. D. I don't buy the premise of this. Everyone has the ability to be loved. Some people have emotional and psychological problems that keep them from feeling or recognizing when someone loves them. Some people sabotage themselves out of fear of intimacy. Some people are socially challenged and don't know how to go about finding a partner. Romantic love isn't the only kind of love there is. There is love for those who are open to it and able to give it themselves. You usually need some self love and self worth in life. E. It's better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all. I've had two endings in my life. One due to his death. The love remains. The other was my first love which ended when he came to turns with being gay. Again the love remains but it's friendship/famile. I don't regret being in love with either of them or the time we were together. Happy Valentines Day, Prince of Darkness.

needlesandpins -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/14/2012 11:45:39 AM)
surely wanting to be loved and knowing no-one does love you has to be the worst. i guess for me it's knowing what i want and knowing i'll never have it. needles

ResidentSadist -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/15/2012 10:55:42 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail If you're snapping one off, or can't pee with somebody watching you, A is nearly mandatory. Dude... if it snaps off, I think you did it wrong. Just sayin'

Hellion64 -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/16/2012 7:00:37 AM)
B.

LookieNoNookie -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/16/2012 7:32:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: TheKingofHell A. Being alone. B. Being in love with someone who only hates you and only tolerates your presence not knowing how you really feel(because you often come off as a dick despite your best efforts). C. Being with someone who is in love with someone else or is sleeping around behind your back. D. Not being able to be loved even though its what you want more than anything. E. Having once loved but lost it for what ever reason. I would say... its a toss up between B, C, and D. But if I have to choose I'd go with D. That's ALL fucked up. Don't even want to IMAGINE those scenarios. I think my answer would be "F": "That's ALL fucked up and I can't imagine living any of those possibilities".

NuevaVida -> RE: What do you think is worse? (2/16/2012 10:27:52 PM)
A. I enjoyed being alone, and I like my alone time, although I'm never alone too long. There's so much to do in life, and so many people to experience it with. B. People I love know how I feel, so this is non-applicable. I was married to a man who didn't like me. I left. I won't be where I'm not wanted. C. This would be hard, but ya move on. I don't give my energy to people who don't treat me well. D. I'm of the belief that those who can't be loved often don't love themselves, and that's why. I love with myself, so this is non-applicable, too. E. I think everyone experiences this at one time or another. I have, more than once. You rebuild and move on. I don't look at experiences in terms of "worse." Experiences are experiences. I look at "Why" and "What can I learn from it." Looking at things in terms of what's worse is too negative a view for me.

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