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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 11:04:14 AM   
pinkee


Posts: 487
Status: offline 		Okies, i'll play.
 
1.  My little one's happiness; peace & joy for myself.

2.  Coffee shop and meandering convo is my favorite; i also like shopping & movies, bookstores, etc.,etc., etc.

3. Depends

4. About s'things and not others. 

5.  Don't have any <shines halo>.

6.   Crickets

7. Genocide

8. Yes

9. Thank Gawd the numb nut is driving away from me.

10. Huh?

11. Huh?

12. Who in the hell are Y/you?

13. Yes

14. Lawyer <insert joke here.>

15. We put the "fun"in dysfunctional.

16. Never

17. No

18. No

19. Subsequent to my last sexual encounter.

20. Huh?

21. Huh?

22. i could, but i'm lazy.

23. Never; i'm a submissive.

24. Nothing

25. Huh?

26. Huh?

27. Read my profile; i'm lazy.

28. Also too lazy to get into this.

29. Sure.  <ties shoes.>

30. Huh?

31. Just wiped the slate clean. 

32. Nope.  My friends value T/their time and privacy.

33. Because i won't settle for less than all i want.

34. Yes; because he was a f**ktard.

35. Gave me the creeps.

36. Huh?

37. i told the truth and They didn't. 

38. Huh?

39. My friends are real pains in the ass about this....but i love T/them for it.

40. Which community?

pinkee



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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 11:20:10 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


Posts: 19224
Joined: 10/25/2005
Status: offline 		01. What do you want out of life?
Positive connections and to feel like I'm making a positive difference at least to those close to me.  I'm going through a "why I chose to be born here and now" phase so feeling a greater desire to connect with the world at large, but general simply being "me" is good.

02. What would a typical day with you be like?
Busy.  Fun.  If we had the day to do what we wanted usually- sleeping in, checking email, movies, dinner out, change, party, hot raunchy stuff and then sleep.

03. Who would you turn to if you needed help?
My mom or my partners

04. Are you passionate?
Yup.

05. What are your three worst traits?
Lack of empathy, shyness, and laziness

06. What are you afraid of?
Getting lost

07. What is the worst crime committed against humanity in your opinion?
Child abuse

08. Do you have soft hands?
Yes

09. What is your reaction if someone cuts you off in traffic?
Rapid degradation

10. What's the one thing you hope I won't find out?
How little I've actually read.

11. What is your full name and home address?
HA.  Elizabeth Amy and I live near BWI

12. Can I call you any time (within reason) at home?
No.  I mean you CAN, but I'd consider after 9 or 10 to be too late for anyone but family or partners.

13. Can you verify who you are and what you look like?
Yes.

14. Where do you work or what is your occupation?
Boring assistant stuff

15. How do you get along with your immediate family?
Pretty well for the most part

16. How often do you call or visit your parents?
Call every week at least once, visit a few times a month

17. Have you ever had a restraining order issued against you?
Not that I know of

18. Have you ever been arrested/charged/convicted of a felony?
Nope

19. When was the last time you were screened for STDs?
I believe 2004

20. Do you have any mental health problems?
Moderate OCD

21. How does BDSM fit into your life?
Happily

22. Could you explain what a D/s relationship means to you?
It means being myself

23. When did you first know you were dominant?
When I felt the spark of "rightness and serenity" in myself when I was dominating.

24. What do you think qualifies you to be a dominant?
It's what feels right to me

25. What do you think the role of the submissive partner should be?
Follow the authority they agreed to follow

26. Why would I be suitable as your slave/submissive?
N/a

27. What kind of relationship are you hoping to create?
Right now I'm open to anything except wife or mother

28. What is your idea of "consent/consensual" in a BDSM relationship?
Being informed of the motivation and specific act, with no negative consequence for saying no

29. Can you name and demonstrate at least one knot used in bondage?
Yes

30. Is there is an appropriate reason/time/place to push someone's boundaries?
Sure.

31. What is your current dating status?
I am.

32. Who else are you involved with and may I speak to all of them?
Sure, they all have CM accounts.

33. If you're as good as you seem, then why are you still available?
Cuz I rock.

34. If you have ever been married, why did you get divorced?
N/a

35. Why did you break up with your (most recent) ex?
He went monogamous on me with someone else and then went back to poly but not interested in me

36. What would your last submissive say about you?
Good person but not right for me at the time

37. What worked and what didn't in your previous relationships?
Actually owning up to your own feelings worked, manipulation didn't work

38. How many times has someone used a safeword with you?
Never

39. Would you be offended if I have a safe call set-up?
No.

40. Do you have references within the community?
Yes.

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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 11:44:06 AM   
Merritt27


Posts: 82
Joined: 8/10/2005
Status: offline 		01. What do you want out of life? 
  To be happy and healthy....and to be the best slave/partner/lover i can be to my Daddy. 

02. What would a typical day with you be like?

Pretty busy at the store.....making sure everything runs smoothly and for the most part everyone is happy....At home, same thing....making sure things run as smoothly as possible and Daddy is happy. 

03. Who would you turn to if you needed help?
Daddy.....the one who owns me now....
or if he couldnt be reached and it was a dire emergency my parents.  

04. Are you passionate?
Very....i am passionate about my relationships...of every variety.  Passionate about my work, my life and most importantly passionate about the love of my life....

05. What are your three worst traits?
i'm a spender, i dont always slow down to think and
i can be overly sensitive at times.  (Luckily He is patient and helping me with these things)

06. What are you afraid of?
not being enough

07. What is the worst crime committed against humanity in your opinion?
The Holocost.  Punishing people for their religious beliefs is unforgivable to me.....

08. Do you have soft hands?
yes

09. What is your reaction if someone cuts you off in traffic?
Depends on the day....somedays i might yell and scream....other days i might laugh.

10. What's the one thing you hope I won't find out?
What a bad speller i am. 

11. What is your full name and home address?
Oh no, no....that only goes to a select few...

12. Can I call you any time (within reason) at home?
sure

13. Can you verify who you are and what you look like?
Uhmm...yes. 

14. Where do you work or what is your occupation? In the family business as the office/operations manager. 

15. How do you get along with your immediate family?
Very well for the most part....otherwise the business would be going straight to hell in a handbasket. 

16. How often do you call or visit your parents? 
Speak to them daily.... 

17. Have you ever had a restraining order issued against you?
NO, i'm not the stalker type

18. Have you ever been arrested/charged/convicted of a felony?
Nope...i'm a good girl...Daddy says so.

19. When was the last time you were screened for STDs? 
About six months ago

20. Do you have any mental health problems? 
no

21. How does BDSM fit into your life?
It just is a part of my life....something that is very apparent every day in our home. 

22. Could you explain what a D/s relationship means to you?
Security, love, respect and control. 

23. When did you first know you were dominant?
LMAO.....not a dominant bone in my body.  i first knew i was submissive the first time i read The Beauty series...and it struck more than a chord. 

24. What do you think qualifies you to be a dominant?
Not a damn thing...

25. What do you think the role of the submissive partner should be?
To support the Dominant in any way they can...to contribute what they can and are asked to.  To be the person in the background making things run as smoothly as possible for the Dominant. 

26. Why would I be suitable as your slave/submissive? 

N/a

27. What kind of relationship are you hoping to create?
A lasting one built on love and mutual respect

28. What is your idea of "consent/consensual" in a BDSM relationship?
Communicating what is expected on both sides and coming to a common ground/agreement.  In my case i consent to whatever He asks of me...as i am owned...different with play partners

29. Can you name and demonstrate at least one knot used in bondage?
can recognize them but not name them

30. Is there is an appropriate reason/time/place to push someone's boundaries?
Yes, but that is well after a certain amount of respect and familarity has been established not to mention a feeling of absolute safety

31. What is your current dating status?
i am very happily owned. 

32. Who else are you involved with and may I speak to all of them?
of course. 

33. If you're as good as you seem, then why are you still available?
The heart is not available...it is owned completely.  As far as anything else goes, ask Daddy. 

34. If you have ever been married, why did you get divorced?
Never been married

35. Why did you break up with your (most recent) ex?
Different ideas of what a committed relationship meant

36. What would your last submissive say about you?
my last Dom would say that i could be a cute, pain in the ass...but He loved me anyway. 

37. What worked and what didn't in your previous relationships?
Depended on the relationship i suppose.....D/s wise, i was young and inexperienced.  So things They said They wanted...i thought i could do, but in reality i couldnt...or vise versa. 

38. How many times has someone used a safeword with you?
i have used a safeword twice...not with my current Owner

39. Would you be offended if I have a safe call set-up?
Not at all..i would think you were smart.  i have been not so smart on occasions in the past...luckily my gut instinct was right. 

40. Do you have references within the community?
Yes




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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 11:47:00 AM   
Padriag


Posts: 2633
Joined: 3/30/2005
Status: offline 		01. What do you want out of life?  Same an anyone I suppose, happiness, and I'm doing alright with that.
02. What would a typical day with you be like?  Laughing.  Not sure I have typical days, but I do like to laugh.
03. Who would you turn to if you needed help?  Depends on who seemed most qualified to help.  You don't ask your lawyer to fix your car ya know.
04. Are you passionate?  You could drown in it.
05. What are your three worst traits?  Sometimes I'm too blunt, too harsh and sometimes I overwhelm people without meaning to.
06. What are you afraid of?  Becoming too afraid to try one more time... if that day ever comes... just shoot me, I'm done.
07. What is the worst crime committed against humanity in your opinion?  Religion
08. Do you have soft hands?  Nope... too many years as a carpenter.
09. What is your reaction if someone cuts you off in traffic?  Ya know cell phones are great for reporting moving violations...
10. What's the one thing you hope I won't find out?  To quote a song, "And I'm the only witness to the nature of my crime..."
11. What is your full name and home address?  Padriag Sean O'Neal... and no I'm not posting my address in a public forum.
12. Can I call you any time (within reason) at home?  Yup
13. Can you verify who you are and what you look like?  Yup
14. Where do you work or what is your occupation?  I own my own business.
15. How do you get along with your immediate family?  Very well
16. How often do you call or visit your parents?  Frequently, I see them all the time.
17. Have you ever had a restraining order issued against you?  Nope
18. Have you ever been arrested/charged/convicted of a felony?  Nope
19. When was the last time you were screened for STDs?  Last year, but then I don't sleep around that much either.
20. Do you have any mental health problems?  Nope
21. How does BDSM fit into your life?  Its a part of it, but my life doesn't revolve around it.
22. Could you explain what a D/s relationship means to you?
It means I'm the one who takes charge and responsibility in the relationship.  Its my job to set the boundaries, expectations, goals, and rules.  I'm management.  Her job is to be responsible for herself, do her best and follow where I lead.  If she finds she can't do that, she needs to get out.
23. When did you first know you were dominant?  About 1994 was when I discovered the lifestyle and found a word and description for that part of my nature.
24. What do you think qualifies you to be a dominant?  Because the first person I mastered, was myself.
25. What do you think the role of the submissive partner should be?  A companion, a friend, a lover, someone who makes me the first priority in her life, who wants to make my life more pleasant so far as she is able.
26. Why would I be suitable as your slave/submissive?  Presumably because you are honest, obedient, know what you want and are sincere about it, can make me smile, share some things in common with me, and I find you attractive.  That'll do for a start.
27. What kind of relationship are you hoping to create?  A permanent one.
28. What is your idea of "consent/consensual" in a BDSM relationship?  Simple... I ask if you're ready to become my slave, you say yes, I ask if you know what that means, you say yes, I ask you to write down what that means, you do, and if I'm satisfied that you're making an informed decisions based on your responses... congratulations, you've consented.  Okay, maybe not so simple...
29. Can you name and demonstrate at least one knot used in bondage?  Well personally I like using square knots because I find them easy to untie quickly if I need to.  They're simple to tie, fairly secure, but with a quick tug come undone.  Sometimes when tying arms or legs I like to use a clove hitch which is also fairly simple to tie and untie.  For suspension I generally start with a bow line or a karuda.  What... I was boyscout for cryin out loud!  I won merit badges for this stuff.  LOL
30. Is there is an appropriate reason/time/place to push someone's boundaries?  If they're my boundaries... nope!  Some submissives want to be pushed into doing things they secretly desire.  It complicates things and sometimes leads to disasters, which is why as a rule I avoid those situations.  Instead of pushing your boundaries, I'll make you beg for it.
31. What is your current dating status?  I'm single
32. Who else are you involved with and may I speak to all of them?  Which part of "I'm single" wasn't clear?
33. If you're as good as you seem, then why are you still available?  Because I really am that good and I'm not going to settle for someone who doesn't have just as much to offer.  (Told ya I was blunt)
34. If you have ever been married, why did you get divorced?  Never married.
35. Why did you break up with your (most recent) ex?  She broke it off, my business was still new and she needed more security than I could offer at that time.
36. What would your last submissive say about you?  That's easy, I still have what she wrote.
"Sir always has a lot on His plate.  He mentors a lot of people and sometimes i think im just too much to add to that list.  But no matter how many times ive seen Him helping someone else everytime ive ever needed Him He is there.  Always in that clearing always watching.  He is a fine friend.

He tempers that strength and wisdom with humility.  He is a force like no other.  He makse me feel like i am invincible.  i think that is the most important thing to a baby lion.  Feeling safe to explore because they know that the strongest beast in the pride have got their back.  Knowing they will be held accountable but with the freedom to fall on their face and knowing that the bite on the nape of the neck will only hurt a second and the lesson will last a lifetime."
You don't forget it when someone says something like that about you.  She said I was like a big cuddly lion.
37. What worked and what didn't in your previous relationships?  Lots of things worked, but there were times I just couldn't understand her fears.  She had some bad experiences she just couldn't seem to work past no matter how hard we both tried.  Sometimes things just don't work out, no matter how many times you wipe away their tears.  38. How many times has someone used a safeword with you?  Rarely, it will happen sometimes in the beginning when I'm getting to know them... after that its very unusual.
39. Would you be offended if I have a safe call set-up?  No, wouldn't be offended if you brought a chaperone either.  Hell, I've even asked two lasses fathers for permission to date their daughters, and lived!  And btw, neither do I want to be a secret you hide from your friends and family, if you're dating me you ought to be damn proud of it, I don't date just anyone ya know.
40. Do you have references within the community?  Yes, but probably no one you know, and I doubt you have any I know.  So the whole reference thing turns out to be kinda useless doesn't it.

Now I have just one question for the submissives who throw these lists at us dominants.  Are you willing yourself to answer all those same questions you ask us?  If not, then don't ask us.

And Proprietrix, I generally agree with you, a lot of these questions are a bit silly or self defeating.  For fun, its alright.  As a way to screen potential dominants, its leaves a lot to be desired.

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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 11:51:39 AM   
murmur


Posts: 394
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ORIGINAL: champagnewishes

The universal answer to any question....
 
"It depends...."
 


muahaha... i second that one.

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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 12:48:00 PM   
CrappyDom


Posts: 1883
Joined: 4/11/2006
From: Sacramento
Status: offline 		01. What do you want out of life? 
     A whole bunch of great sounding things that I have never spent the least bit of time persuing

02. What would a typical day with you be like? 
    A typical day would be pretty boring so insert something cool sounding.


03. Who would you turn to if you needed help? 
     A friend of John Browning

04. Are you passionate? 
     Gee no, I am a dead fish..

05. What are your three worst traits? 
    Give the typical interview response, I overwork myself, I am sometimes too detail oriented and I set my goals too high. 

06. What are you afraid of? 
  The Republican culture of death

07. What is the worst crime committed against humanity in your opinion? 
     GWB

08. Do you have soft hands? 
     No, they are always filthy and grimy.

09. What is your reaction if someone cuts you off in traffic?
     I run them off the road 

10. What's the one thing you hope I won't find out? 
   That I think questionaires like this are idiotic

11. What is your full name and home address? 
     1600 Pennsylvania avenue,  DC 

12. Can I call you any time (within reason) at home? 
     Sure on my cell so I can ID the ringtones not to answer when my overbearing wife is around.

13. Can you verify who you are and what you look like? 
   no, when I swam across the boarder I lost my ID

14. Where do you work or what is your occupation? 
   I am some lofty sounding title that means, I make coffee and havent' had a promotion in years.

15. How do you get along with your immediate family? 
   Fine now that they are all dead but we dont' talk as much as we used to. 

16. How often do you call or visit your parents?
   See above.

17. Have you ever had a restraining order issued against you?
   No.

18. Have you ever been arrested/charged/convicted of a felony? 
   Yes, 20 years ago, or how about for stopping a cop from beating someone up, or for shooting a burgler or any number of other things. 

19. When was the last time you were screened for STDs? 
   last week but the week before I did 40 prostitutes without protection, or 20 years ago and have had one partner since then.

20. Do you have any mental health problems? 
   No, but those around me are all crazy

21. How does BDSM fit into your life? 
     It is a wonderful part of a full and rich life, oh and I love the outdoors and puppies too. 

22. Could you explain what a D/s relationship means to you? 
   .Okay, this is a decent question. 

23. When did you first know you were dominant? 
   In the womb

24. What do you think qualifies you to be a dominant?
   I have a bag full of toys

25. What do you think the role of the submissive partner should be? 
  Oh, I don't know, submissive? 

26. Why would I be suitable as your slave/submissive? 
    You wouldn't be.

27. What kind of relationship are you hoping to create? 
   One that looks good to others so I can get a couple more subbies on the hook

28. What is your idea of "consent/consensual" in a BDSM relationship? 
   Insert some high minded concepts that mean nothing

29. Can you name and demonstrate at least one knot used in bondage? 
   The one I use to tie my shoes. 

30. Is there is an appropriate reason/time/place to push someone's boundaries? 
   Depends on what she wants to hear.

31. What is your current dating status?
  I am tired of banging the current one so I am looking for another.

32. Who else are you involved with and may I speak to all of them?
   I of course would not cherry pick the ones I let you talk to.

33. If you're as good as you seem, then why are you still available?
   I think this is the best question here.  The answer is I don't want to get tied down at this time.

34. If you have ever been married, why did you get divorced? 
  
35. Why did you break up with your (most recent) ex?
  She wanted kids, I do not. 

36. What would your last submissive say about you?
   I think something like "hhhmmmfff muuuu" 

37. What worked and what didn't in your previous relationships? 
     Trust me, my side is better than hers. 

38. How many times has someone used a safeword with you?
   Not often enough, although I did kill a few before they had a chance to.

39. Would you be offended if I have a safe call set-up?
    I wouldn't be bothered, I only eat them later.

40. Do you have references within the community?
   If you could check them, why would you waste time with crap like this? 

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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 1:00:38 PM   
TallDarkAndWitty


Posts: 1893
Joined: 6/12/2004
From: Rochester, NY
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ORIGINAL: CrappyDom

01. What do you want out of life? 
     A whole bunch of great sounding things that I have never spent the least bit of time persuing



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40. Do you have references within the community?
  If you could check them, why would you waste time with crap like this? 


That was an impressive job of someone trying very hard to be cool.

You know know what would even be a better way to show that you are too cool for these questions?  Not answer them at all.

Taggard



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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 1:03:57 PM   
CrappyDom


Posts: 1883
Joined: 4/11/2006
From: Sacramento
Status: offline 		Says the hipster in sunglasses and skull cap...and the dreamy sounding name to a guy with a crappy screen name.

Yep, being cool is what I am all about.

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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 1:08:29 PM   
TallDarkAndWitty


Posts: 1893
Joined: 6/12/2004
From: Rochester, NY
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ORIGINAL: CrappyDom
Yep, being cool is what I am all about.


Or trying to be...  *wink*

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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 1:08:52 PM   
gooddogbenji


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ORIGINAL: marieToo

benji;
 
you are funny funny funny!! 



Thank you, but you may want to get your stutter checked out.  Could be a symtom of something more serious.

Yours,


benji

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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 1:39:56 PM   
puella


Posts: 2457
Joined: 12/2/2004
Status: offline
1.  What do you want out of life?
Nothing.

2.  What would a typical day with you be like?
Get up, get ready for work, go to work, go to the gym, come home, make dinner, read something, take a shower, go to bed.
 
3.  Who would you turn to if you needed help?
Family

4.  Are you passionate?
I used to be, not so much anymore

5.  What are your three worst traits?
Stubbornness, too sensative, too introspective.

6.  What are you afraid of?
Being hurt and not being able to care for myself, and being stuck in that situation for a long time

7.  What is the worst crime committed against humanity in your opinion?
Any of the Genocides

8. Do you have soft hands?
I suppose so, but they are strong and not very feminine.

9. What is your reaction if someone cuts you off in traffic?
Not much.

10. What's the one thing you hope I won't find out?
There is nothing I wont tell anyone if they ask me personally, as long as it is about me and not involving others.

11. What is your full name and home address?
Jennifer Granville Rochester, NY

12. Can I call you any time (within reason) at home?
I guess if you wanted to.

13. Can you verify who you are and what you look like?
Yes

14. Where do you work or what is your occupation?
I work for a non profit that aids people who have physical and mental disabilities in rehabilitation into common society.

15. How do you get along with your immediate family?
Well.

16. How often do you call or visit your parents?
I live near my family so its pretty frequent.

17. Have you ever had a restraining order issued against you?
No

18. Have you ever been arrested/charged/convicted of a felony?
. No

19. When was the last time you were screened for STDs?
. December

20. Do you have any mental health problems?
No

21. How does BDSM fit into your life?
I am submissive by nature, I do not serve anymore nor do I seek a relationship, though I have been owned.

22. Could you explain what a D/s relationship means to you?
It is the fullness of love and the rightness of two opposite parts coming together. It meant everything to me.

23. When did you first know you were dominant?
. I have always known, on some level and perhaps without labels, that I was submissive, it is as much a part of who I am as a person as my intelligence, my stubbornness, my kindess.. etc.

24. What do you think qualifies you to be a dominant?
I do not qualify my ‘submissiveness’ , it just is.

25. What do you think the role of the submissive partner should be?
. Lover, giver, server and partner.

26. Why would I be suitable as your slave/submissive?
?


27. What kind of relationship are you hoping to create?
I no longer seek to be a part of a relationship.

28. What is your idea of "consent/consensual" in a BDSM relationship?
Knowingly, and while in full emotional and mental capability, choosing that life.

29. Can you name and demonstrate at least one knot used in bondage?
No.

30. Is there is an appropriate reason/time/place to push someone's boundaries?
When the pusher is able to handle the wholness of the cause and effect of taking charge of that pushing.

31. What is your current dating status?
I do not date and do not seek to.

32. Who else are you involved with and may I speak to all of them?
I am alone.

33. If you're as good as you seem, then why are you still available?
I very much doubt I would be misconstrued as such. I am not seeking and am not sought, so it works out rather well.

34. If you have ever been married, why did you get divorced?
No.

35. Why did you break up with your (most recent) ex?
I failed.

36. What would your last submissive say about you?
Probably that I am a nice enough person but a big disappointment.


37. What worked and what didn't in your previous relationships?
I don’t think it would be fair of me to answer something that personal in this venue.

38. How many times has someone used a safeword with you?
Safewords were not really a part of our relationship.

39. Would you be offended if I have a safe call set-up?
No.

40. Do you have references within the community?
I suppose so, you could contact any of my previous owners.

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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 1:48:13 PM   
RiotGirl


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I thought I would answer them here, and see if any other brave souls (a.k.a. attention whores) might want to play as well.


sure one is boooooooored........  lets see

01. What do you want out of life?

happiness

02. What would a typical day with you be like?

every day is different

03. Who would you turn to if you needed help?

Master

04. Are you passionate?

depends on what its about

05. What are your three worst traits?

the whole not being able to deal with emotions, insecurity, low self esteem - me thinks  Rah maybe being a negative person too....  or being really good at being depressed.  Or being waaaay too out of control at times.  Maybe those times when one has no limits and will do literally anything.  attitude, the many forms it takes could be considered it.. or the fact that one could give a flying F or a rolling donut about most things.  Yeah the whole being utterly detached from most everything.  Rah too many to list?

06. What are you afraid of?

rah - erm - life, evil ppl, being helpless, heights, bee's, being unable to protect ones self from harm, being hurt, ppl geting inside, caring about others, losing those you care about.  Most tho just being prey.   Really the list is long and generally saying everything works

07. What is the worst crime committed against humanity in your opinion?

the destruction of earth, of the natural habitat.. the destruction of more cultures then one wants to think about.  Starting with the clans at the Battle of culloden.  The native americans.. the wide variety of african culture that was going on back in the day that the dumb white/europeans went and took away from.  So many damn cultures right down the tubes.. that are no longer there.  the tribes, the clans that are gone..

08. Do you have soft hands?

er think so?

09. What is your reaction if someone cuts you off in traffic?

generally its "well done"

10. What's the one thing you hope I won't find out?

who i am

11. What is your full name and home address?

not in your wildest dreams

12. Can I call you any time (within reason) at home?

sure call the cell

13. Can you verify who you are and what you look like?

most days, but ayep got the paperwork.. tho Kinko's has the DL, ssc and student ID over in tampa.. still got a passport tho = )

14. Where do you work or what is your occupation?

rah - saddly unemployed at the moment.  blows for moi dont it

15. How do you get along with your immediate family?

its a love hate thing.  Some times one loves em sometimes she hates em.  generally one doesnt like what they stand for and whats important to them.. but none the less loves them and will always be there for em.  Some of em, things are good.. some well its all a polite front.. Aye the family believes in fronting to the max

16. How often do you call or visit your parents?

Like never call the father.. he's too busy. email randomly.. cant visit he's in london.. the mother well she's around more then one would like

17. Have you ever had a restraining order issued against you?

ayep, by an x.  he thought one was gonna break his jaw cos he stole her car right out from under her nose.  bought a new car and he registered it in his name while one stayed over atoo a friends house.  rat bastard.  Never touched him tho.. but thought about taking a bat to the car = )  But didnt.. dun believe in harming others or their stuff.  He was just a scared wussy little twit.

18. Have you ever been arrested/charged/convicted of a felony?

ayep.  Assult on a police officer.. assult on a police officer.. attempted possesion of a firearm by a convicted felon.  And one took the rap for a misdomeaner of marijuana when she was 17.. dunno if its still there.. ooooh geez on prolly should "get into it".   Rah and they were all like ages ago  6 years on the last one me thinks

 First assult twas when there was this 14 y/o in a bad place and no matter how much one argued with the po'lice or the parents nobody did crap.  So one night drinking and partying she stumbled upon the girl in a NOT okay situation and well one flipped. = )  Aye whupped the guy with out touching him.. though challenged him a fight he couldnt win.  Cos if this one won.. well.. and if she didnt her boyfriend would of demolished the guy.  Then one went to a church to ask GOD why the heck NOTHING was being done about this girl.. and well knocked on the door (drunk and crying bout the poor girl) and the priest said "go away" and then the preist called the cops.  one did "go away" round the building to stare at the church to talk to God.. tho the brother says dont tell folks you were "talking to god.. say praying" hah.  so po'lice show up and say "go home kelly"  (small town) and well one was talking to god so.. she wasnt moving and then they tried to arrest her and she was drunk and couldnt feel pain.. and well it sort of broke out into a fight.  Kind of funny actually.. took about 3 of em to take her down and hog tie her = )  They actually threatened to break her arm.. and cos she twasnt feeling pain.. she told em to go ahead.  They didnt tho = )  The drunk chair it was that night!  helmet and all.  LOL (which one DID get off her head and manage to no matter the 3 sets of handcuffs used, pick it up and repeatedly throw it at the unbreakable window till she got tired)  Got probation

Ayep the other assult was a laugh.  Bf got jumped by the police for god knows why.  one was drunk again.. so she jumped in.. got hog tied. (again) slammed her head in the back of the cop car.. twas taken to the hospital.. chewed through leather cuffs and supposedly as cop cuffs were put on her legs she kicked a cop "near" his groin.  Now one knows she's got great aim and if she was aiming to kick the cop she'd of nailed him.  But the police lied all over the stand so w/e.  They sedated her in both thighs and as she was going out she heard the cops say "we;re gonna throw a few assult charges at her" woke up in a jail cell.. and eventually did 6 months.

the fire arm.. we'el one was protecting a girl from her mother who was a crack head and the mother wasnt too happy and threatened to bring over a group of ppl break down the door and kill everyone inside.  So one twas protecting herself, her unborn, the girl and ones dog.  Ayep that woman was 3 times this one size and one was preggers.  Cant take a beating preggers.. so well.  Got probation.  Even tho one was so totally guilty.  Laywers.. its all about laywers folks.. and how much cash you got. = ) 

First charge.. good lawyer... probation.. second charge.. public.. went to jail.. third charge.. lawyer.. probation. 

Its retarded.


19. When was the last time you were screened for STDs?

couple of months ago

20. Do you have any mental health problems?

ayep.. ones crazy

21. How does BDSM fit into your life?

dunno

22. Could you explain what a D/s relationship means to you?

nyob

23. When did you first know you were dominant?

one knows she's got dominant traits as she generally has men bending over backward as she pleases = )

24. What do you think qualifies you to be a dominant?

er.. one isnt

25. What do you think the role of the submissive partner should be?

thats another thinking question

26. Why would I be suitable as your slave/submissive?

well taggard.. you'd be suitable cos one would love to torture you = )

27. What kind of relationship are you hoping to create?

erm.. depends on the person

28. What is your idea of "consent/consensual" in a BDSM relationship?

that seems silly..

29. Can you name and demonstrate at least one knot used in bondage?

sure Master has taught His slave to do knots.. the names tho.. errrrr

30. Is there is an appropriate reason/time/place to push someone's boundaries?

ayep

31. What is your current dating status?

collared - er owned.. er.. property.. er.. in a relationship?

32. Who else are you involved with and may I speak to all of them?

sure speak to who ever you wish.. dun care.  Tho not "involved" w/others really

33. If you're as good as you seem, then why are you still available?

heh.. one isnt

34. If you have ever been married, why did you get divorced?

newp

35. Why did you break up with your (most recent) ex?

cos he lied.  he played games and he was a dweeb and one couldnt be bothered with the bs

36. What would your last submissive say about you?

that he's not submissive.. that he's dominant (and of course one just snickers) course he's only a friend.. never actually "had" a sub

37. What worked and what didn't in your previous relationships?

dunno?  What worked.. then being straight up.. what didnt.. them not being straight up.  Them whining.. oh rah.. and them thinking they were dominant.  one generally gets that idea out of their head easily.  lol and then drops them

38. How many times has someone used a safeword with you?

zero.. and one has never used one

39. Would you be offended if I have a safe call set-up?

newp, but one might think you were retarded.  = )  one would prolly think that if you cant trust your own instincts that you'd best bring like 3 friends to the first 4 months of seeing this one and THEN ask them what they thought.

40. Do you have references within the community?

old old ones


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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 2:49:40 PM   
MistressSassy66


Posts: 1675
Joined: 11/5/2004
Status: offline 		#1. I have what I wanted in life
#2. A day with Me can be running errands or kicking back relaxing
#3. I turn to My bishop first
#4. About everything
#5. a)Too passionate  b)Long fuse,but explosive temper  c)Somewhat of a Hermit
#6. I am afraid of the dark,heights(fell of the roof) FLYING
#7. The worst crime against Humanity.....Hmmmm,How about the fact that way too many kids go to bed hungry,whilst the more fortunate spend money on yet another house.
#8 Yes
#9. Depends on the day...sometime they get the finger sometimes the get the wave
#10 If I tell the the one thing I dont want you to know...you'll then know it.
So...I'm not telling.
#11 I'm not putting My full name or address here  Shelly,Denmark,Maine.
#12 Yes you can call anytime cell phone 207-461-02__ cant put the whole thing.
#13 Will a drivers license do?
#14 I work from home.Rainbows and More is the name of the business.
#15 Really well
#16 Dont know where both parents are.
#17 No...but I took a couple out on other people.
#18 Yes,I have been arrested,Trafficking in Marijuana in the late 80's
#19  January of EVERY year
#20 I do not like crowds,Social Anxiety Disorder.
#21 BDSM fits into daily life because its a part of Me.Most of My friends are either into it or open to it.
#22 D/s = Total devotion by both parties.
#23 Late teens...when did I admit it....Much later in life.
#24 I'm qualified because I know that this is Who I am.Experience,natural abilities and having a Mentor have all helped.
#25 submssive partner should be doting,making sure needs are met among other things.
#26 N/A
#27 I generally try to create an open and caring relationship.
#28 Whatever the "parties" involved BOTH decide on.
#29 Slip knot,Monkey knot,Shoot cant think of the other name...the one for a loop.
#30 Yes...I believe there is.The key is knowing when is the right moment.
#31  Not dating
#32 slave bishop lives with Me.My submissives that dont mind talking to someone are: betty,evette,hanna,jen and holly.The others dont wish to be known and I wouldnt betray that no matter what.
#33 LOL....I'm always looking for a few good submissives...One is never enough...
#34 I got divorced because I was sick of being a wash rag anymore.
#35 That would be over 7 years ago...and its because I met bishop.
#36 I honestly have no clue what they would say...I'm not them.I would hope they are honest with you.
#37 Letting the small stuff get in the way didnt work...agreeing to disagree does.
#38 With bishop a couple times,testing her limits= black and blue butt
With the other subs I honestly dont know.Some like to be pushed to say it so its been said a lot.
#39 Oh hell no...Take more than that say like the cops....
#40 I wouldnt call Them a reference,but Yes.


Phew....That was long.


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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 3:03:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: gooddogbenji

quote:

ORIGINAL: marieToo

benji;
 
you are funny funny funny!! 



Thank you, but you may want to get your stutter checked out.  Could be a symtom of something more serious.

Yours,


benji


ffff...ff....fff.....fu....fuu...fuck you

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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 3:12:32 PM   
marieToo


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For the same reasons you mentions, I did not fill out the survey either.  I actually was doing it and thinking about how much the answers would lead to untrue implications on more than a few of them, so I deleted it.   I did not take is as light-heartedly as some here did. Though I found some of them to be very funny.
 
Anyway......kudos to you.            
 
Your post here was a fantastic read.  Very articulate and really good examples.  You summed up all I was thinking, but I could not have done it nearly as well, with so many off-the-cuff examples.
 

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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 3:27:05 PM   
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ORIGINAL: murmur

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ORIGINAL: champagnewishes

The universal answer to any question....
 
"It depends...."
 


muahaha... i second that one.


LOL...... i'll third that one myself....


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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 4:28:00 PM   
MrrPete


Posts: 614
Joined: 11/7/2005
Status: offline 		Here's mine

01. What do you want out of life?
    Another 20 years and slave to keep me warm.
02. What would a typical day with you be like?
       I'm retired so I spend a lot of my time looking for that slave
03. Who would you turn to if you needed help?
       I don't have anyone to turn to.
04. Are you passionate?
       yes
05. What are your three worst traits?
    Impatient at times, hate keeping house, I'm a republican
06. What are you afraid of?
       heights
07. What is the worst crime committed against humanity in your opinion?
       pedophilia
08. Do you have soft hands?
       yes
09. What is your reaction if someone cuts you off in traffic?
       controlled road rage
10. What's the one thing you hope I won't find out?
       I'll answer that when a sub REALLY asks me

11. What is your full name and home address?
       irrelavent on this forum
12. Can I call you any time (within reason) at home?
       yes
13. Can you verify who you are and what you look like?
      yes
14. Where do you work or what is your occupation?
       retired
15. How do you get along with your immediate family?
       N/A
16. How often do you call or visit your parents?
  N/A
17. Have you ever had a restraining order issued against you?
nope
18. Have you ever been arrested/charged/convicted of a felony?
  N/A
19. When was the last time you were screened for STDs?
  N/A
20. Do you have any mental health problems?
PTSD after loosing everything to hurricane Katrina. Improving. some days are better than others

21. How does BDSM fit into your life?
It isn't a matter of how it fits I'm Dominant, nuff siad.
22. Could you explain what a D/s relationship means to you?
I command, she obeys - it really is that simple.
23. When did you first know you were dominant?
about 40 is when I found out that's what it was called
24. What do you think qualifies you to be a dominant?
I am what I am and I eat spinach
25. What do you think the role of the submissive partner should be?
Obedient, without hesitation or reservation
26. Why would I be suitable as your slave/submissive?
  N/A
27. What kind of relationship are you hoping to create?
A lasting one.
28. What is your idea of "consent/consensual" in a BDSM relationship?
she says yes Sir, immediatle Sir
29. Can you name and demonstrate at least one knot used in bondage?
4 yrs explorer scout, 15 yrs Navy
30. Is there is an appropriate reason/time/place to push someone's boundaries?
Always
31. What is your current dating status?
Available and looking
32. Who else are you involved with and may I speak to all of them?
not all, even just a play partner will get jelous
33. If you're as good as you seem, then why are you still available?

34. If you have ever been married, why did you get divorced?
  N/A
35. Why did you break up with your (most recent) ex?
  N/A
36. What would your last submissive say about you?
  N/A
37. What worked and what didn't in your previous relationships?
  N/A
38. How many times has someone used a safeword with you?
none
39. Would you be offended if I have a safe call set-up?
nope, I expect it.
40. Do you have references within the community?
yep

Mr. Pete

available and looking

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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 4:31:04 PM   
LadiesBladewing


Posts: 944
Joined: 8/31/2005
Status: offline 		I'll play:

01. What do you want out of life?
I want to have an opportunity to build a community, write, lecture and teach/counsel among individuals who have chosen to live outside the "common life".

02. What would a typical day with you be like?
It would pretty much be like any other "day in the life", perhaps a lot busier than in some households, and probably with a good deal more tea than most see in the US. It would be filled with family, laughter, lots of work, and plenty of opportunities to be useful and appreciated.

03. Who would you turn to if you needed help?
It depends on what I needed help with. If I needed help organizing the cupboards in the kitchen, I'd probably ask one or two of our servants. If I needed help with a health issue, I'd likely ask SR, who is our resident trained homeopath. If I needed help with a spiritual or philosophical conundrum, I'd probably talk to one of my spiritual mentors... it all depends on what one needs.

04. Are you passionate?

Absolutely.

05. What are your three worst traits?
I procrastinate when it comes to boring, repetitive tasks, I have trouble remembering my "good listening skills" when I have a personal interest in a disagreement, I have an incurable case of "horizontal surface disease" and tend to drop my things on whatever flat surface presents itself, especially if I am caught up in a project or my mind is occupied with some big concept.

06. What are you afraid of?
I've gotten over many of my fears, but I still think I'm afraid of jumping out of airplanes.

07. What is the worst crime committed against humanity in your opinion?
The perpetuation of ignorance.

08. Do you have soft hands?
Yes, I think so.

09. What is your reaction if someone cuts you off in traffic?
My first reaction is to vent with some epithet, then I take a breath, settle in my seat, and see what other adventures the trip will bring.

10. What's the one thing you hope I won't find out?
I can't think of anything, offhand.

11. What is your full name and home address?
When I know someone and am speaking to them, I'll tell them.

12. Can I call you any time (within reason) at home?
Yes

13. Can you verify who you are and what you look like?
Yes

14. Where do you work or what is your occupation?
I earn my paycheck as an Administrative Assistant, and work part time as an author, pastoral counselor, and lecturer. Where I work is one of those things I won't share until I know someone.

15. How do you get along with your immediate family?
Immediate family and blood family are not the same thing for us. I get along pretty well with my blood family, except for my brother, who prefers not to have to deal with a 'wierdo' like me. I respect his right to choose his associations.

16. How often do you call or visit your parents?
I call my dad once a month or so, and usually write him a handwritten letter every few weeks. My mom died a decade ago. I talk to my mate's mom, dad and step-dad every couple of months.

17. Have you ever had a restraining order issued against you?
No

18. Have you ever been arrested/charged/convicted of a felony?
No

19. When was the last time you were screened for STDs?
Three years ago, and I have had one sexual partner in that time.

20. Do you have any mental health problems?
I'm probably a bit obsessive-compulsive for some people, and probably a little ADD for others.

21. How does BDSM fit into your life?
It is a small part of a complex and full life.

22. Could you explain what a D/s relationship means to you?
D/s means choosing to live in a relationship with a distinguishable hierarchy, where the tendency to choose to take responsibility for another individual and the tendency to choose to yield up control of one's life are clearly defined and respected.

23. When did you first know you were dominant?
When I realized that I was both capable and willing to take on the responsibility for the well-being of another individual.

24. What do you think qualifies you to be a dominant?
I think that whether or not I am "qualified" remains to be seen, since I am only qualified when an individual accepts my skills as being sufficient to allow him or her to yield comfortably to my leadership.

25. What do you think the role of the submissive partner should be?
To yield gracefully in the areas that we have acknowledged that I am in charge, and to stand proudly in the areas that are still under his or her own care.

26. Why would I be suitable as your slave/submissive?
I think this is meant for a specific person, not a generalized response.

27. What kind of relationship are you hoping to create?
A household, based on the concepts of dominance and submission as practices to evoke the highest potential in all of the individuals involved in the family.

28. What is your idea of "consent/consensual" in a BDSM relationship?
If both parties do not agree to a practice, or agree to give up the right to make a decision regarding a practice or set of practices, there is no consent. For myself, I will ask even if someone has yielded the right to be asked, if the situation is a new one, for my own comfort.

29. Can you name and demonstrate at least one knot used in bondage?
No, but I do not claim to do bondage.

30. Is there is an appropriate reason/time/place to push someone's boundaries?
Yes. If we have discussed an area where one of ours wishes to know more, but is afraid to make the first move, we will discuss pushing the boundaries to see how he or she responds. If the response is completely negative, we will discuss again whether we will continue to push, or whether this is something that will be set aside. If we decide to push further, we will push a little harder each time, until we are either comfortable in the practice, or have decided that it is not something advantageous to us.

31. What is your current dating status?
I am in a poly family. I can date, but don't often. We are open to new potential members, but the process is long. I do not have casual sex. My mate knows about anyone I am interested in or anyone I see as a potential, and our household decides collectively whether an individual is a good fit. If not a good fit for the household, we may still date, but there will always be some private matters that will not be shared between us.

32. Who else are you involved with and may I speak to all of them?
Right now, I am involved with my mate of 10 years, SR, and you will be encouraged to speak with her. We also have 2 servants, and you will be encouraged to speak with them and determine whether you are able to work together comfortably.

33. If you're as good as you seem, then why are you still available?
I was never "unavailable". Our situation doesn't work that way. We keep ourselves open to the potentials of the Universe.

34. If you have ever been married, why did you get divorced?
We had stopped growing by being together, and our relationship was no longer healthy. It was a mutual decision, companionably decided upon and completed, and we are still friends.

35. Why did you break up with your (most recent) ex?
He died.

36. What would your last submissive say about you?
I don't know, since I can't be inside her head, but I hope that she would say that I helped her to know herself better and respected who and what she was.

37. What worked and what didn't in your previous relationships?
Family companionship always worked... sorting out the kitchen use and reclaimation process never worked well.

38. How many times has someone used a safeword with you?
Twice.

39. Would you be offended if I have a safe call set-up?
No. I would encourage you to do whatever you need to do to keep yourself healthy and feeling secure.

40. Do you have references within the community?
Yes.

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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 4:43:41 PM   
LadiesBladewing


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ORIGINAL: Proprietrix

If a submissive came to me with this list of questions, my first response would be "why do you want me to answer this?" If they said "just for fun" or "as a conversation starter" I’d probably enjoy the discourse it brought about. But if they said "so I can screen you as a potential Dominant", I’d probably tell them I wasn’t interested in them. [/size]


Actually, the only thing these are good for is for filling out somewhere like this -- as a time-killer and conversation starter in a non-personal medium. I fill them out with that in mind, and feel free to have a little text-based diarrhea when it comes to being verbose.

If someone comes and sits down to talk with me, I want to have a -conversation-. In the course of the conversation, many of these will probably be answered... but not, with any luck, as a 40-question cross-examination. *smiles*

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RE: 40 questions - 6/2/2006 4:54:34 PM   
Level


Posts: 25145
Joined: 3/3/2006
Status: offline 		01. What do you want out of life? True love, peace, and giggling.

02. What would a typical day with you be like? Depends on all sorts of things... "typical"... there would be closeness, and laughter, at least.

03. Who would you turn to if you needed help? I hate asking for help, but will if need be. Again, it depends on what the situation is.

04. Are you passionate? Yes.

05. What are your three worst traits? Impatience (too often), saying things in a cutting way (not frequently), and temper (NOT a violent one, though)

06. What are you afraid of? Extreme poverty.

07. What is the worst crime committed against humanity in your opinion? That anyone would go hungry.

08. Do you have soft hands? Yes hehheh. Used to be callused, but roofing will do that to you.

09. What is your reaction if someone cuts you off in traffic? Depends on my mood lol. Either I'll just shake my head, or tell the person they're "number one".

10. What's the one thing you hope I won't find out? I believe in transparency, so there's things that would be hard to discuss, but they would be talked about.

11. What is your full name and home address? Peter Sax, 2112 Rush St. Coldashit, Antartica

12. Can I call you any time (within reason) at home? Yes.

13. Can you verify who you are and what you look like? Yes.

14. Where do you work or what is your occupation? Justice of the Peace court.

15. How do you get along with your immediate family? Dandy.

16. How often do you call or visit your parents? My dad died when I was 15, and my mom stays with me, she had a stroke years ago.

17. Have you ever had a restraining order issued against you? No lol.

18. Have you ever been arrested/charged/convicted of a felony? Nope.

19. When was the last time you were screened for STDs? Last year, never had a STD, and do not want one.

20. Do you have any mental health problems? Wait.... the voices in my head say "no".

21. How does BDSM fit into your life? Play is limited for now, but the important part for me is the D and the s... which fits just fine.

22. Could you explain what a D/s relationship means to you? Yes. The mercifully short answer is I lead, she follows, in pretty much every area, with mutual respect for one another.

23. When did you first know you were dominant? 5 or 6 years ago, I'd say.

24. What do you think qualifies you to be a dominant? I'm bossy lol. Hmm... I do like having my way, but usually look for a win-win situation; I care about my partner and her life, dreams, and desires, and I believe that would go a fair way in making me a good dominant.

25. What do you think the role of the submissive partner should be? To obey and to please.

26. Why would I be suitable as your slave/submissive? Because you're intelligent, kind, funny, and have sexy feet. And you adore me.

27. What kind of relationship are you hoping to create? One that at the end of our life will stand as a shining example of what two human beings were capable of doing together.

28. What is your idea of "consent/consensual" in a BDSM relationship? Consent is where one genuinely agrees to whatever situation is at hand. Not coerced, not bullied.

29. Can you name and demonstrate at least one knot used in bondage? Nope, and have no interest to.

30. Is there is an appropriate reason/time/place to push someone's boundaries? Yes.

31. What is your current dating status?  Single and not looking too hard lol. Got some things to square away first.

32. Who else are you involved with and may I speak to all of them?  No one, and if I were, you absolutely could.

33. If you're as good as you seem, then why are you still available? Do I seem "good"? lol....

34. If you have ever been married, why did you get divorced? Never been married.

35. Why did you break up with your (most recent) ex? Two headstrong people was two too many.

36. What would your last submissive say about you? I believe it would be positive.

37. What worked and what didn't in your previous relationships? A deep love of one another overcame many mistakes on both our part, but again, there was too much clashing.

38. How many times has someone used a safeword with you? Never.

39. Would you be offended if I have a safe call set-up? Not at all.

40. Do you have references within the community? I think I could get one or two folks to say nice things about me lol.

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