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DomGentleman4u -> A Dom man with little replies in Cme (2/16/2012 11:42:35 PM)

hello all. I'm a Dominant guy in the Roseville CA area seeking a submissive lady for a LRT D/s but not 24/7 bond. I've found more than a few flakes in my inquiry here, where are all the real open minded sub females




GreedyTop -> RE: A Dom man with little replies in Cme (2/16/2012 11:59:18 PM)

Have you tried attending munches or events?




myotherself -> RE: A Dom man with little replies in Cme (2/17/2012 12:01:07 AM)

Welcome to the discussion side of cm [:D]

As to your question - there are far more males than females on this site. Which means female subs often have the choice of several guys, if they so wish.

You are honest in that you say you are married and looking for a discreet relationship, and that honesty is to your credit. However many 'real' subs (as you call them) want something more than to be someone's second-in-line. Given the choice of being someone's priority instead of their option, they are likely to go for the former rather than the latter (you).

There are undoubtedly women on here in a similar position to you who don't mind the subterfuge involved in having an extra-marital relationship, but they are vastly outnumbered by the men in a similar position (IME).

Be prepared for a looooong wait...





Delilya -> RE: A Dom man with little replies in Cme (2/17/2012 1:55:19 AM)

good luck




ashjor911 -> RE: A Dom man with little replies in Cme (2/17/2012 5:32:51 AM)

Welcome




kalikshama -> RE: A Dom man with little replies in Cme (2/17/2012 6:12:36 AM)

In addition to the male:female ratio against you, your objectives are incompatible with your constraints.

When I first joined the site, I met and played with a married man in an open long distance relationship. While he was very good technically, the relationship was ultimately unsatisfying to me, so I sought (and found) Relationship Guy.





OohAahMrs -> RE: A Dom man with little replies in Cme (2/17/2012 6:22:38 AM)

Welcome, you'll find a lot of flakes everywhere you go, it's a pity there are'nt a host of females waiting to service every man's need, the instant we snap our fingers, where else does that happen?




OsideGirl -> RE: A Dom man with little replies in Cme (2/17/2012 7:50:39 AM)

Even if you were single, the men far outnumber the women, so there's a lot of competition.

You're married and the number of women willing to be the other woman is extremely small.

So, does your wife know you're looking for another woman?




Fornica -> RE: A Dom man with little replies in Cme (2/17/2012 8:53:07 AM)

Didn't you post this question before? 400 times?
I have a weird deja vu feeling.




DarkSteven -> RE: A Dom man with little replies in Cme (2/17/2012 8:56:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

So, does your wife know you're looking for another woman?


He specifically used the word "discrete" in his profile.  Any other questions?




OsideGirl -> RE: A Dom man with little replies in Cme (2/17/2012 9:22:38 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

So, does your wife know you're looking for another woman?


He specifically used the word "discrete" in his profile.  Any other questions?




Well, since "discrete" means "separate from" he may be getting his wish.




Fornica -> RE: A Dom man with little replies in Cme (2/17/2012 9:38:03 AM)

You've been here for SEVEN years, and don't know how things work?




smartsub10 -> RE: A Dom man with little replies in Cme (2/17/2012 2:31:19 PM)

Your wife is disabled so it's OK to have a sub on the side?

I couldn't respect you as a man, let alone a Dom.

Anyway, this is the introductions.....so welcome.




MistressDarkArt -> RE: A Dom man with little replies in Cme (2/17/2012 5:49:31 PM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl


quote:

ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

quote:

ORIGINAL: OsideGirl

So, does your wife know you're looking for another woman?


He specifically used the word "discrete" in his profile.  Any other questions?




Well, since "discrete" means "separate from" he may be getting his wish.


I'm not sure what 'discression' is either but ehhh, welcome OP and good luck with all of that.




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