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Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 1:02:08 PM

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Hey everybody! Just curious, I was looking at some play gear and read a review where a woman had her male friend in this apparatus called the humbler for a bachelorette party. Is it a common occurrence to use subs or slaves for bachelorette parties?

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 1:05:56 PM

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Why, are you offering to be used? Humbled? The object of attention? Or are you offering to serve chocolate cocks, drinks and then be a party favor?

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 1:28:21 PM

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Lockit, more of that last question about serving chocolate cocks, drinks and being a party favor, but being humbled and used are good too. Don't want to be center of attention though.

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 1:38:07 PM

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Don't want to be center of attention though.

The problem with being a sub all done up at a bachelorette party is that he would probably be the center of attention, taking the attention away from the bride. Also, this assumes that a Domme only has Domme friends. I can't imagine introducing vanilla friends to BDSM via a party that is supposed to be celebrating a wedding. It just sounds like a bad idea.

To answer your question, no, I have never heard of a male submissive being dressed up and restrained and brought to a bachelorette party.

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 1:42:36 PM

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Peppermint,
I totally understand your point of view. It seemed that the women had a good time humiliating the guy. I'll see if I can find the review.

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 1:42:57 PM

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Okay, on its face, this reminds me of hiring a stripper for a bachelor party. So, using that analogy, I would say you would want it to be one part of the party, perhaps, but not the entire thing (i.e., to avoid taking the attention away from the bride). So perhaps there is some way to incorporate some service element into the overall party, but not being present for the entire thing, so that they can still do their girlie thing, too. Also, one can consider whether there are vanilla guests, and how to incorporate the male submissive in ways that do not scream BDSM, if that would make some guests uncomfortable. Just my

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 1:44:03 PM

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Most submissives that I've talked to, had a fantasy of being used by many women. They don't seem to interested in serving so much as being used/humiliated by all those women. As a dominant, I can get my kink on when and where I wish to, but anything that robs me of my just due at a party for me... get your own party on... I am not sharing!

I guess someone might like it... but I've never heard of it.

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 1:58:15 PM

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Here's the review that I saw.

This is one of the best amusement toys for any woman. I used it at a bachlorette party on my friend that has the largest balls ever. His nut sack is also one that hangs down. First we gave him 2 viagra and shaved his balls. (That was funny)- We let the "bride to be" strap it on him (she had to figure it out all by herself) and then we had 5 of the ladies take water pistols with food coloring in them, blindfold them and let them try to squirt his balls. We were in the garage - so no property damage. It was a hoot.. This guy had a hard on for 2 hours. The water guns had warm / hot water in them. We laughed until we cried. The pictures are hot. The guy wore a mask- so no one ever knew who he was..but me..Now I strap him in quite often.

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 1:59:33 PM

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And where did you find that review?

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 2:05:37 PM

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quote:

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Hey everybody! Just curious, I was looking at some play gear and read a review where a woman had her male friend in this apparatus called the humbler for a bachelorette party. Is it a common occurrence to use subs or slaves for bachelorette parties?

Probably not common, but there obviously can be exceptions.

The Humbler works great for its purpose. I don't see a lot of service involved with wearing it though since you can't stand up to serve and crawling around to get to where you are going would cause the ice in all the drinks you're serving to melt. That waters down the liquor and where's the fun in that!?

Since I play with both men and women, I do have things like the humbler, parachutes and the like which are strictly guy oriented and don't seem to be the sorts of things used at parties where the bride is the main attraction.

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 2:07:03 PM

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Lockit,
It was at a store through alt.com

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 2:08:44 PM

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That definitely wouldn't be any fun with watered down drinks!

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 2:11:47 PM

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Bingo... not catering to women having parties, but horny men that wish to be the object of the party. Honey, they will say just about anything to get your attention and money. They might cater to your wants in some part, but most of us dominants... will not. Think how bored a domina would be if there were only one boy to play with. Not the rip roaring party most of us would need to want to even do it, unless its a bring your own boy party. No way do I want to share in tormenting one boy with many ladies. How dull.

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 2:22:00 PM

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Lockit, that makes sense.

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 3:48:55 PM

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Peppermint,
I totally understand your point of view. It seemed that the women had a good time humiliating the guy. I'll see if I can find the review.

Excuse me. I don't see any humiliation in this. I just see a dick who thinks his dick actually has a brain, which is does not. I think you read BDSM porn which is geared to the male horny net geek. It it NOT based on what women really want.

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 3:57:21 PM

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I don't know if you have anything like this out there, but it's a company that does very well over here in the UK. A 'Butlersinthebuff' "Butler" just does serving - nothing else - and he gets paid well for it. He just has to be very polite, servile and be pretty damned near naked. The team are in great demand here for hen parties and the like.

Well, if you haven't got anything like that there, then you may need to create it!

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 4:23:39 PM

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Humbler races. Serious hilarity.

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 4:29:05 PM

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Peppermint,

I don't read BDSM porn! I have seen some strapon porn and it definitely isn't true D/s.

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 4:29:13 PM

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no. Bachelorette parties do however, show toys that can be used for both male and female pleasure.

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RE: Subs at a Bachelorette Party - 2/18/2012 7:29:03 PM

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Tut. I don't think you or anyone else has checked my link. Brit women go for these naked butler parties.

Surely it cannot be that North American women are, how can I put it, a little more prim and, dare I say it, stuffy than their UK counterparts? Hmmmmmm?

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