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My first chastity experience - 2/19/2012 8:03:54 AM

simplyphilly

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Since I can remember I have has desires and fantasies of being kept in chastity on a long term basis. I believe orgasm denial is a huge factor in any female dominated relationship and that chastity would help make me an even better submissive. So after all the years of dreaming, I finally took action and bought my very first chastity, the CB-6000. When it arrived I probably should have been a little more patient and well prepaired, but I was just so excited to finally see it in person and actually put it on and here that click. However getting it on was a bit of a struggle, so to aid the slide in process I used dawn dish soap. This, as you can probably imagine, was not the greatest idea. After only one night, which was unbelieveablely painful, and a half a day at work it appeared I had, "Dish pan dick."

The chastity was removed, I explained the situation to my ex girlfriend who had the key and she allowed me to be unlocked. Now I am given a one week time frame to find the right fit through trial and error and no more dish soap for insertion of cage. Was my first chastity experience quite how I imagined it, not so much. Then again, if I would have been smarter about it I could have likely prevented the soarness and dryness I am experiencing now. Simply put, this was a learning experience.

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RE: My first chastity experience - 2/19/2012 8:15:50 AM

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RE: My first chastity experience - 2/19/2012 8:26:25 AM

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Glad you had an interesting first experience.
Please take down the dick pic, we don't all need to see it and explicit primary photos are against TOS here.

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RE: My first chastity experience - 2/19/2012 8:47:31 AM

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My apologies, the picture has since been removed.

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RE: My first chastity experience - 2/19/2012 9:52:54 AM

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It may not have been the dish soap. This may simply not be the right model for you. As far as being given one week to figure out how to wear it, that's totally unrealistic. Unless she can afford to purchase multiple chastity cages and have you try each of them on.

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RE: My first chastity experience - 2/19/2012 2:29:01 PM

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ORIGINAL: DesFIP
As far as being given one week to figure out how to wear it, that's totally unrealistic. Unless she can afford to purchase multiple chastity cages and have you try each of them on.

The CB-6000 comes with several differently sized rings and spacers; my guess is he was talking about finding the combination that works best. Playing with those combinations for a week before attempting something locked and long-term is actually pretty realistic… although I'd allow some time for any irritation from the soap to subside before trying again.

simplyphilly: For some realistic expectations of chastity and some tips about how to select a good fit and how to get a cage on without resorting to dish detergent, you might want to take a look at this site: Denying Thumper - CB-6000 Tips & Tricks. And thank you for changing your forum picture!

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RE: My first chastity experience - 2/19/2012 5:14:47 PM

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Shallow Deep, thank you. I've always read and heard that find the right sizing and right comfort were the hardest aspects of chastity. and now I am finding that out.

I know that wasn't the most descent picture I could have posted as my default, but I was excited to show off what took me so long to finally accomplish. Hopefully no one was offened, as I'm sure it's nothing you haven't seen before.

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RE: My first chastity experience - 2/20/2012 11:41:43 AM

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That was a good link, Shallowdeep. Very enjoyable read. Thanks.

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RE: My first chastity experience - 2/21/2012 11:52:28 AM

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shallowdeep, as others have said using a chastity cage takes some time getting use to. i had used the CB6000 for 56 days with it only being off for a few hours due to pinching. it went right back on. The size of the ring is the important issue but also the size spacer is equally important. too loose and the balls slip out, too tight and the sack gets very irritated. Trial and error are the only way to be successful.

I agree that chastity control is something all subs need to experience. it is amazing how your desires do deminish once you know you are not being released for an entended period. My erections got less frequent and softer as the weeks went on.

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RE: My first chastity experience - 2/21/2012 4:04:37 PM

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Sounds like a fun time!

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