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dogobedience -> ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 11:54:02 AM)


Mental domination, the taking of the girls mind, is where the true foundational structure of this lifestyle begins and ends. Without deep control of the girls mind you do not have domination, only play. For many this is enough. But to those few who have tasted real mind control, they will never be the same. It is the standard for which all TRUE MASTERS are measured. Whips and chains are great, but only a embellishment to the overall experience in this lifestyle. OWN THE BRAIN (the main course), the rest is simply desert. Many only have desert and NEVER THE MAIN COURSE, how sad.

I take great pride in my ability to mentally dominate a girl. I believe mental domination is the pinnacle of this lifestyle. It is the foundation.  
The skill sets I was taught and seeked out in my professional life has a parallel to managing ANYBODY, ANYWHERE in this lifestyle. A good manager of people is usually a good manager of girls in BDSM. That person understands the fundamentals of structure, continuity, measured and monitored performance, and successful training and coaching. This is fostered with training the people under you to want to follow, their brain WANTS TO DO IT. 
 
Anybody can bind, whip, YELL at you, or make you call them master. To do so does not make them a master.............great for play and show..........but it means northing unless the girl is mentally dominated. Many new girls and girls who have a new (new to them) dom's project sooooo much into their new dom. The funny thing is IF you are not mentally dominated it does not last. YOU ARE SIMPLY DOMINATING YOURSELF!!!! 

A good dom has the ability to lead you, NOT BY PUSHING or PULLING, but by creating an environment conducive to MAKING YOU NEED TO FOLLOW and continue to do so. At first a girl does this for herself (the desire to be lead), but within a short period of time any skilled girl can see WEAKNESS in the so called dom if he does have the capacity to control your mind.

You can be played forever and feel good, however if you ever live with him for any period of time you then will see IF YOU ARE MENTALLY DOMINATED. Without this VERY DIFFICULT SKILL TO MASTER, the girl is only a plaything and all you have is ROLE PLAY and SELF DOMINATION. 

ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ?



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 11:55:49 AM)

Has anyone told you that caps = shouting = rude in online forums?

They are to be used sparsely.

Anyway, yes, I think we all agree that, unless the sub desires to submit within themselves for their own fulfillment, it's not a relationship that will work long term.



dogobedience -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 11:57:58 AM)

Thanks for the all caps advise........ 



champagnewishes -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 12:08:33 PM)

Yes I have been of my own free will mentally dominated.  I have also, not willingly, been entrained.   One is a skill, the other is a very dangerous person.



CrappyDom -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 12:18:40 PM)

I am not worthy, I am not worthy, I am not worthy...



Sab -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 12:39:42 PM)

RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ?






NO! [:D]



Tikkiee -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 12:42:58 PM)

quote:

ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ?

Nope. Nor do I have any desire to be. [:D]



Lashra -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 12:46:09 PM)

No, although Im sure the Bush Administration will keep trying[;)]

I'm to Dominant and unwilling to give up control, so nope.

~Lashra



dogobedience -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 12:51:25 PM)

interesting



Proprietrix -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 12:56:54 PM)

I’m surprised that you have almost 300 posts and still use terms like "True Master". "true foundational structure of this lifestyle", "pinnacle of the lifestyle", "what makes a master"
and make assumptions that there’s a standard to measure a Dominant, casual players aren’t enjoying the "overall experience of the lifestyle", one’s professional training makes someone able to manage "anyone, anywhere" in this lifestyle, slaves should be made to need to follow, skilled subs can see weakness in a Dominant who has the capacity to control minds, that people who don’t engage in mental domination are only engaged in play and show that doesn’t last, or that without mental domination a sub is only a plaything and it’s all role-play and self domination.


Sorry, I was so overwhelmed with the generalizations, I couldn’t grasp anything meaningful in the post.



gooddogbenji -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 1:03:51 PM)

Ummmmm...  You, sir, are coming damn close to making me break the TOS.

Anyway, what I would like to say is that the "dog" in my name and the "dog" in his name does not mean we are related, friends, or agree on anything.

We all know a true Dom can only be measured by his speed of spamming.  Below 300 "Kneel, bitch" e-mails a day does not give anyone the full BDSM experience.

Of course, I am not surprised no one else has pointed this out.  Only a true sub, such as myself, can know it.

Yours,


benji



Tikkiee -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 1:04:23 PM)

LOL Miss Proprietrix, I am sure that if I looked up sarcasm in the dictionary, they would refer me to you.
 
/trying very hard to dispense with the giggles that I now have.



mnottertail -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 1:06:02 PM)

Well, I almost was... just 'cause you asked it so loudly!!!!


LOL,
Ron



RiotGirl -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 1:07:47 PM)

er one has mentally dominated the dog = )  Alls ya gots to do is look real evil, step fwd menacingly.. and the dog rolls over onto her back gets those puppy paws going.. and one swears she's like saying "ooooooo please please please i'll be good"

Cept it doesnt work when the dog is chasing the neighbors down to rather roughly explain to them that its HER neighborhood and they've got to get out.    Poor neighbors = (

so the dog has dominated the neighborhood.. and this slave has dominated the dog. 

ayep thats about how it goes 

(oh rah and the dog dominates the cats and the guinea pig too)



Quivver -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 1:25:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: dogobedience
At first a girl does this for herself (the desire to be lead), but within a short period of time any skilled girl can see WEAKNESS in the so called dom if he does have the capacity to control your mind. 

Just like Dorothy thinking the Wizzard Walked on Water till she saw his
Rear sticking out of the Curtains....  LOL

quote:


ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ?

Needless to say my answer is NO...................



dogobedience -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 1:49:32 PM)

Thank you for your insightful analysis  my verbiage. I will grow from it, I enjoy thoughtful observations from anybody. 



dogobedience -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 1:51:34 PM)

smiles...........and I stick my head out knowing some are happy, some are sad, and others confused! 



dogobedience -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 1:53:08 PM)

nice reply, thanks



zumala -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 1:53:26 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: dogobedience

smiles...........and I stick my head out knowing some are happy, some are sad, and others confused! 


That's probably true in any group you examine.  Fact of life.



dogobedience -> RE: ARE YOU MENTALLY DOMINATED ? (6/2/2006 1:59:15 PM)

Back on topic.

The post was to bring up the fact that the brain is the part that is dominated. It is mental domination that "binds" the mind. Everything else is an accoutrement to that..............



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