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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 7:49:54 AM   
MrsT301


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Status: offline 		I didn't read every page of this but my question for the OP is now what? Maybe someone has already asked this and if so my bad. Are you going to try to pursue a D/s relationship with your husband? Have you ever shared your fantasies with your husband? Maybe you guys could read a few books together and look into it.

Sometimes when needs are not met people look elsewhere. If you have a need to be submissive maybe your husband should make use of you.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 7:50:13 AM   
softnsexy73


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Status: offline 		Okay it's not me to put in my input but I have a 2 year old girl and there is no way in hell I would remain married to her father and take a collar from another man. I have been a single mother to her for a while and I'm still hesitate about who I let her be around when it comes to my dating life. Get a grip on reality.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 7:52:11 AM   
LaTigresse


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ORIGINAL: MrsT301

I didn't read every page of this but my question for the OP is now what? Maybe someone has already asked this and if so my bad. Are you going to try to pursue a D/s relationship with your husband? Have you ever shared your fantasies with your husband? Maybe you guys could read a few books together and look into it.

Sometimes when needs are not met people look elsewhere. If you have a need to be submissive maybe your husband should make use of you.


I believe asking would require some sort of give a damn. I am not sure that anyone here actually does.

Softn...... I hate to tell you but you are about 2ish weeks late and well.....wasting your typing, with this one.

What we have now is purely entertainment.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 8:00:55 AM   
SailingBum


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Status: offline 		Ya know something I never even considered it could be like holly said in another thread. The OP might be so ugly <in his eyes of course> Not only will he not be seen with her in public he wont bang her either. I know a few times I ve seen a smoking hot body but once she turned around ...Fugly comes to mind. So I'd comment to one of my buds ... " I might have to put a flag over her face... and screw her for old glory"

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 8:47:15 AM   
chatterbox24


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ORIGINAL: MrsT301

I didn't read every page of this but my question for the OP is now what? Maybe someone has already asked this and if so my bad. Are you going to try to pursue a D/s relationship with your husband? Have you ever shared your fantasies with your husband? Maybe you guys could read a few books together and look into it.

Sometimes when needs are not met people look elsewhere. If you have a need to be submissive maybe your husband should make use of you.


THanks for the Advice. Your a keeper sunshine. Yes Ive considered all that, but its not part of my marriage dynamic. It was never a part of any dynamic of any relationship I ever had. I only had it with this guy, so its not something I will pursue in the future. For some reason I really wanted to submit to this guy, I had never ran into a personality like this before. Yes strong Dom men yes, but not ones I liked.I found them arrogant fucks. I think I will just try faithful, if that doesnt work Im out. lol.

To the ones who continue your negative posts and say you dont give a shit, then show you really dont and dont post at all. What is so funny I made a remark about someone trying to look sexy and young and I was attacked like a rabid dog. i didnt even say they were ugly but you want to insist I am ugly. crazy. etc etc.
I think its evident Im not the one having prolonged problems here.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 8:58:06 AM   
chatterbox24


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As to why her master won't fuck/sodomize her - I can only guess that she is fat or old or otherwise unattractive so there is no incentive to do so.


Oh, please. Couldn't have anything to do with his issues, could it?

I don't know if it was of her, but the picture the OP had earlier with the red gloves showed an attractive woman.


I also wanted to apologize to Kailshamma. I got all defensive and upset when I was at the peak of decisions and confusions, when you were only trying to help me. I can admit when I was wrong and I respect what you were trying to do for me then.
You dont have to like me, I dont expect you to like me, nor would I blame you for disliking me or my decisions. But You were owed an apology by me.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 9:29:08 AM   
chatterbox24


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ORIGINAL: softnsexy73

Okay it's not me to put in my input but I have a 2 year old girl and there is no way in hell I would remain married to her father and take a collar from another man. I have been a single mother to her for a while and I'm still hesitate about who I let her be around when it comes to my dating life. Get a grip on reality.


When your actually married, lets say for not 22 yrs, but how about 10 yrs. Actually live the REALITY, come back and tell me what you would and wouldnt do. THen your advice might come in handy. Not trying to be a shithead, but you really dont know.....thats where the saying never say never comes from. Granted most people never would do what I did and I wouldnt advise it either.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 9:49:11 AM   
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I also wanted to apologize to Kailshamma. I got all defensive and upset when I was at the peak of decisions and confusions, when you were only trying to help me. I can admit when I was wrong and I respect what you were trying to do for me then. You dont have to like me, I dont expect you to like me, nor would I blame you for disliking me or my decisions. But You were owed an apology by me.


Thanks.

I don't dislike you. I was angry that you waited so long to reveal that you were married and living with your husband. I had spent a lot of time answering you and my answers would have changed had I known that bit of key information.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 12:26:14 PM   
ChatteParfaitt


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Status: offline 		Sweetie, I hope you come back in a few months (or a few years) after the brainwashing wears off and read your words here.

Then spend some time thinking about whether this was really a good relationship for you.

And yes, I used the word BRAINWASHING on purpose.




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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 12:41:07 PM   
sexyred1


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A month ago I had someone ask me to post an update when I figured something out. If I was needing validation I would not post on such a controversal topic. It didnt bring positive input then and I didnt expect to bring positive input now.
I am the same a month ago, as I am today, and I will be tomorrow. I just made a decision that I had problems making.
I come back a month later to get the last word? lol. Does it look like Im winning here?
For a group of people who supposeably practice an alternative lifestyle seem to be a tad bit judgemental and very fast to call people liars.I could judge you for all the things I would find weird about your alternative life. But I have no desire to make you feel bad or question your decisions. If it is right for you then I am not going to judge it and call you names for your choices.
The truth is the vanilla people I have talked to about this in the past, might not have agreed but were far less judgmental and level headed about their responses .
ITs cool! IM finished posting about it, Im happy with my decisions for the time being.



Here is where many people, like yourself, make a huge error. You seem to think that people practicing an alternative lifestyle lose their brains and any sense of morality, sense or judgement.

The truth is that your vanilla friends most likely feel the same way everyone here does but were far too polite to tell you the truth.

When you come to a message board, you are going to hear the unvarnished truth of opinions, which you asked for.

So be careful what you ask for and do not be surprised at the vehemence of the replies; many of us frown upon situations thrust on children and marriages where someone is trying to be all things to everyone, trying to have it all and making a huge mess of it in doing so.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 12:49:37 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Its pretty sad when you are lying to yourself so much that you don't know which way your head is going. When people tell you where its at, you get angry because you can't pull it out and actually smell the poopy circumstances you have allowed yourself and then blame them because your head really was there and you couldn't smell the smell.

Then to come back multiple times claiming your head was clear, apologizing repeatedly and then posting everywhere about how someone else put your head up there... just continues to smell to a lot of people.

I think I will wait for the steam to clear before I believe its turned to chalky turds and the whole ordeal is over. This over-night success in mind clarity hasn't convinced me.


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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 1:26:47 PM   
chatterbox24


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I had somoene trying to isolate me from family and friends advice. The excuse was "They havent been trained to my world how can they understand?" I was put in a room for several hours with a tape on repeating the same statements and same flashes of video. and the famous "You do love me dont you?" When I would try to say I wanted to get out of the relationship, a tiny tiny bit of affection or hope was given. THe smallest of gestures. I truly believed if i listened and gave freely some magical door would open. Conditioned over months. Serious head games.
Con-artist.
NOPE IM DONE.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 1:32:50 PM   
dharkling


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Status: offline 		How is that so different from what you're getting yourself into now?

Do you think that if you lower your standards far enough, your relationship with this man will turn into something deeply satisfying for you? In the meantime, what about the damage you're causing to your family? You and your husband are staying together 'for the children' but you're willing to allow another man to come into your life and take money away from those same children? lolwut?

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 1:49:40 PM   
Lockit


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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24


I had somoene trying to isolate me from family and friends advice. The excuse was "They havent been trained to my world how can they understand?" I was put in a room for several hours with a tape on repeating the same statements and same flashes of video. and the famous "You do love me dont you?" When I would try to say I wanted to get out of the relationship, a tiny tiny bit of affection or hope was given. THe smallest of gestures. I truly believed if i listened and gave freely some magical door would open. Conditioned over months. Serious head games.
Con-artist.
NOPE IM DONE.


Dear powers that be... your story just gets wilder and wilder. If this indeed happened, over the course of days and months and your husband knows about it... you haven't had the guy arrested... you haven't sought professional assistance and your husband hasn't cleared his head in winning you... and hasn't protected the children from your faulty whatever that allowed you after the first indoctrination to go to a second... I call bull shit on the whole story or wish I knew who you were so I could send children's protective services to your door.


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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 2:02:11 PM   
Killerangel


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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24


I had somoene trying to isolate me from family and friends advice. The excuse was "They havent been trained to my world how can they understand?" I was put in a room for several hours with a tape on repeating the same statements and same flashes of video. and the famous "You do love me dont you?" When I would try to say I wanted to get out of the relationship, a tiny tiny bit of affection or hope was given. THe smallest of gestures. I truly believed if i listened and gave freely some magical door would open. Conditioned over months. Serious head games.
Con-artist.
NOPE IM DONE.


What the heck? Are you honestly purporting this garbage with the idea that anyone is buying it? From the start you have flip flopped around on your stories wildly saying it's like this, then suddenly it's like that. Then you get loco when people call you on the BS. Did you need another shot of attention today so this story comes out conveniently? How do you expect intelligent people to buy this crap?

Don't let me hold you back, there'll be more spinning out of control on this thread and then clean up. Lady, you need help, I mean that in a straight way. You are the definition of bat shit crazy.

Edited to add: You keep saying you're done. You were dumped. He left. You had no active role in the end of the relationship.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 2:11:46 PM   
kalikshama


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ORIGINAL: Killerangel

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ORIGINAL: chatterbox24

I had somoene trying to isolate me from family and friends advice. The excuse was "They havent been trained to my world how can they understand?" I was put in a room for several hours with a tape on repeating the same statements and same flashes of video. and the famous "You do love me dont you?" When I would try to say I wanted to get out of the relationship, a tiny tiny bit of affection or hope was given. THe smallest of gestures. I truly believed if i listened and gave freely some magical door would open. Conditioned over months. Serious head games.
Con-artist.
NOPE IM DONE.


What the heck? Are you honestly purporting this garbage with the idea that anyone is buying it? From the start you have flip flopped around on your stories wildly saying it's like this, then suddenly it's like that. Then you get loco when people call you on the BS. Did you need another shot of attention today so this story comes out conveniently? How do you expect intelligent people to buy this crap?


This is not at all inconsistent with the way she described him in the first thread.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 2:19:34 PM   
Lockit


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Status: offline 		Ahhh, I think she just likes stirring the pot and watching the swirls and she wonders who will fall into them. Master manipulator she thinks she is... that or... very like others that have proceeded her.

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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 4:26:56 PM   
chatterbox24


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Status: offline 		This all happened kiddos. He called it the dungeon. I told ya there was alot of things you didnt know. You think the girls who talk about guys Doming them into thier lifes and then abusing them are liars too? I believe them whole heartedly and my heart goes out to them.
My kids are sitting on the floor with friends playing with puppies, and having supreme pizza and milk. No CPS required.

No updating needed, My Master experience is over so no need to be on a BDSM Site. oh and thank you for all your support, such level headed, kind people with outstanding levels of understanding. If I have an enemy who is close to suicide Ill be sure to send them here. NO DOUBTS YOU WOULD GET ER DONE !

HELLO MASTER I KNOW U READ THIS REGULARLY, HELLO HUSBAND I KNOW YOU DO TOO.

SOME OF YOU PEOPLE REALLY ARE THE OUTCASTS OF SOCIETY. THE DEFINITION OF BAT SHIT CRAZY. EXHIBIT THE WORST OF HUMAN BEHAVIOR.
WHen I think of what hell would be like it would be a sizzling room full of you people. YIKES. and it STINKS.
Chatterbox is now packing up her notes, pulling her long legs into her future sports car, tossing her hair, smiles at the golden rays of sunlight and saying as she flips her cigarette out the window.................







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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 4:27:35 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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RE: Update on Master does not want to have sex - 3/2/2012 4:29:15 PM   
Fornica


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Status: offline 		Everything else aside, it's always funny as fuck to see how delusional people view themselves..lmfao. Like a little movie in their minds, starring them.

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