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DommesLesEnigma -> RE: Female subs don't respond to messages on this site (2/22/2012 9:44:58 AM)
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ORIGINAL: PolyDommesgirl
A submissive is showing a lot of trust when she gives up control to someone. That person needs to be aware of himself as well as her at the same time. What is best for himself? What is best for her? What is best for the relationship between them? If a sub thinks that you're not even aware of what's going on with yourself, she's gonna run from you.
Could not have said it better, [sm=agree.gif] with DarkSteven
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....and you seem not to know women all that well either. If you treat them in public the way you show you might in this thread...I get the feeling that you repel them. Don't get me wrong, I understand the male supremest attitude (as I have worked with them on a daily basis). But you are to a point that you will not call a woman/women by proper English is over the top. To me that would be a red flag immediately.
Take a look at your comment below. Because this comment and other comments you've made makes you an easy mark. I know a young Dommes that could easily pose as the sub your looking for, and take you and make you into her submissive pay puppy. Why? Because you underestimate the power and knowledge of a woman. Which is something you need to be trying to learn from what??? A woman and if she decide to teach drink a double shot of humbleness first.
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ORIGINAL: Aderious
Wimmin are worse with computers, on average, than men are. They are unlikely to know about the feature of this site which lets you view profiles without being recorded as a "hit".
So take a look at your comment below. You need to try to get one of those "50 year old self-proclaimed "doms" on collarme" to mentor you. Since they are getting the women don't get jealous about them, learn from them. Their old school, if they teach you...you will be ahead of the game.
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ORIGINAL: Aderious
No thank you. I've worked extremely hard to develop the physique that I have and I'm not going to drastically lower my standards to sleep with someone who has no self-discipline and no self-respect. That's what desperate losers (and 50 year old self-proclaimed "doms" on collarme) do.
It is absolutely fair, right, and just for someone with my physique to prefer young, thin and attractive girls rather than used-up housewives. I'm the Dom, remember? I'm the one who does the teaching. No female is going to be teaching me anything.
It seems you have an unhealthy view of women. Honestly, you need to seek help about that. Your brain is also a part of your body. Your mental state is very important, just as much as muscle. You also need to decide if you are really straight too. It seems to me by overcompensation of your view of masculinity. You may be having an inner fight concerning your sexuality.
My last point to you is...when you are seeking a submissive. Just because you call yourself Dom don't make you a gift to sub women on this site. Your body is well toned, a sheer muscle shirt and jeans and sunglasses will bring that out nicely. Put that as your profile picture and you will catch some looks. Then show her some respect. You have to get her to even want to talk to you. From this thread that is gonna be your biggest struggle. Find out about her and get to know her and you will be on your way. You search her out, why should she search you out. As people are trying to tell you on this thread she can be discriminating in who she choose and who she picks. So drop the male ego and let her get to know the real you.
I think you are young, someone told you that you are cute, and you just came into your own, and your head has tripled in size. Maturity and life should deflate the big head you are toting around. So, chill out and take the advice of some of the people on this thread.
Dommes Les Enigma
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