Hi, I'm Kitten, I'm spoken for, and only here for the social side of things now. Looking for events for me and my Dom to attend. Possibly other sub females for me to play with (under my Dom's supervision)
I see you're in Durham, UK, so perhaps some other Brits will be along to offer specific advice.
Here in the US, fetlife is great for finding groups and events, but the Durham results seem to be for Ontario and North Carolina. Sticking w FL, you could try another city name, or check to see what groups the Durham UK members belong to, or likely someone will come along with a more UK-centric site.