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RE: Relocting for a Master/Mistress - 3/5/2012 6:36:58 AM

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Then again, some of us are wanderers and move every few years just to see new things.

I use to be a traveller, would take trips on a whim just because I could... of course once you become a stuffy old resonsible adult with obligations, that changes. :(

*notes that I am an irresponsible adult shirking my obligations. Who knew?

Well, at least I'm still stuffy...

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RE: Relocting for a Master/Mistress - 3/7/2012 2:57:42 PM

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*notes that I am an irresponsible adult shirking my obligations. Who knew?

Well, join the club. Carol and I pulled up stakes and moved to Canada on a whim. Happily, I've never been a stuffy old responsible adult even when I had more obligations (children) than I do now.

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RE: Relocting for a Master/Mistress - 4/26/2012 4:13:31 PM

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i'm lucky being self sufficient so can move at will. i'd have to sell or rent them out but i'm comfortable in life.and 24/7 is what i signed up for.

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RE: Relocting for a Master/Mistress - 4/26/2012 5:27:16 PM

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I did. I met him online in June. Started dating a the beginning of October, moved here at the end of October, and we are getting married June this year, about a full year after he first messaged me.

I love Master :)

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RE: Relocting for a Master/Mistress - 4/26/2012 5:33:24 PM

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I wish sometimes that i was free to just pick up stakes, but that would mean my parents were gone...so, I'll be a stick in the mud that takes lots of holidays.

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RE: Relocting for a Master/Mistress - 4/26/2012 6:00:38 PM

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I did. I met him online in June. Started dating a the beginning of October, moved here at the end of October, and we are getting married June this year, about a full year after he first messaged me.

I love Master :)

This is why women my age so often swear that we wouldn't go back to being her age if you paid us.

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RE: Relocting for a Master/Mistress - 4/26/2012 6:18:01 PM

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All too often I see people online desperate to 'relocate' either because they can't support themselves financially, and want to be 'taken care of' or because they are so socially lonely they hope clinging to one person will solve their lonliness issues. Neither of these are good, though can be worked through if the person beneath the problem proves to be worth the effort.

My dad calls it "doing a geographical," moving away from all of your problems. Of course, most folks who do it discover that their problems quickly follow, while they are now far from family and friends...
Then again, some of us are wanderers and move every few years just to see new things.

^^^ ALL THIS. big red flag. good for OP, for having the strength to walk away. lord knows, i don't know if i would, depending on the circumstances. it might or might not work out, but why have that added risk and pressure. not the best way for your new exciting beginning.

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RE: Relocting for a Master/Mistress - 4/26/2012 11:08:45 PM

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i know of two. One got married to their Master. The other walked into a mess. MANY thing going on not involving them but obviously when you are there........ and they had to pick up and leave after a short time. They had been online together for YEARS. They had NO warning things were not going to well.

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RE: Relocting for a Master/Mistress - 5/7/2012 1:56:57 PM

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Met my Wife and Sub years ago at a party organised for one of the first ever online chatrooms...(yes it was written for sex but thats not what we were doing). We dated for a while but it didnt work out. Lost touch. Bumped into each other 5 years later via work, met up. Spoke a bit but were at different ends of the country. 5 years after that decided to try and make the long distance thing work. It was only then I found out she was Sub. Shortly after she relocated to me. Luckily her company had an office opening near me and she could transfer.

Has it been easy? No. She moved a long way from her familly and as we live in a rural area not many ways for her to make friends. And then her company closed that office. And then her mother got really sick and recently passed away. But we wouldnt trade it. It works. Or it can do.

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RE: Relocting for a Master/Mistress - 5/16/2012 12:37:23 PM

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If I asked a sub to relocate to me, I wouldn't want her to work... I would take care of her... mostly because I was her attention all the time ...

This would be after she spend a couple weeks with me first... its hard to tell chemistry online

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RE: Relocting for a Master/Mistress - 5/17/2012 2:09:32 AM

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I have never relocated to be (or stay) in a relationship, vanilla or not. I'm dominant and have a bit of bias that my slave/sub come to me in a relocation scenario, but I also have business interests that require my staying at or near where I live, at least for the meantime. Reading these posts drives home the importance of establishing a personal relationship before committing to live with someone. Thanks for the OP and replies!

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