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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/14/2012 9:58:35 PM

LadyConstanze

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The guys writing online, they want to dream about it, they want to talk about it, I doubt any of them follow up on it.

IRL, I know a few who have the kink, if done responsibly it's fine in my book, a friend of mine and her sub both love it, she doesn't really exploit him, she just plays with him a bit, it's a power game, he'll go to work, sometimes she will meet him before lunch and take his wallet, she'll basically snatch his lunch money and take the credit cards with her, he said that when he has to skip lunch and feels hungry, it reminds him how much he is in her power and who calls the shots, plus he looks forward to seeing her this evening, in the evening he serves her then, which ever way she pleases, a foot massage, some play, he sometimes just does the dishes or cleans the floor, and she hands him back his credit cards.
I assume they both enjoy it as they have been together for something like 5 or 6 years.

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/14/2012 10:09:45 PM

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Meanwhile his wife and kids go hungry......

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/14/2012 10:35:41 PM

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Meanwhile his wife and kids go hungry......

Oh obviously you do know all that? Pray tell how?

Isn't it becoming a bit tiresome to try and find the fly in the soup? You must have a supply of flies you carry around with you in case there is soup...

Or maybe you come from such a deprived background that an occasional 20 bucks mean that a family is starving. Maybe you would also like to pass some laws how 2 consenting adults can interact?

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/14/2012 11:18:34 PM

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You have flies in your house and in your food? Gross!
$20 bucks? Wow, you sure work cheap.

Actually, I do come from a poor background. My parents were born poor, as were their parents. I am not ashamed of them nor that they were honest, hardworking, very decent people whom I have enormous respect for. My grandparents were farmers and teachers and both by grandfathers fought in WW1, yes the first world war. Only a douchebag would be ashamed of who they are and where they come from.
They enabled their kids to get a good education and now all of their offspring are very well off, especially yours truly.
Anyhow, I don't want to hold you up from your "work" hopefully you can beg at least $40 tonight and buy some fly paper and maybe a screen door, lol.

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ORIGINAL: VanessaChaland

Meanwhile his wife and kids go hungry......

Oh obviously you do know all that? Pray tell how?

Isn't it becoming a bit tiresome to try and find the fly in the soup? You must have a supply of flies you carry around with you in case there is soup...

Or maybe you come from such a deprived background that an occasional 20 bucks mean that a family is starving. Maybe you would also like to pass some laws how 2 consenting adults can interact?

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/15/2012 12:27:56 AM

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I always thought that the slave is the one getting paid. After all, the one paying is ultimately in charge and the one receiving is a slave to money.

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/15/2012 12:32:19 AM

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Hi, I'm a new FinDom and I am wondering how you get money from slaves without giving away your identity? I'd be grateful for any advice.

I think first, you ask them (for the cashola), then you show some titty.

(It's a gut feel, but 'm going with it).

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/15/2012 12:35:01 AM

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I don't want to hold you up from your "work" hopefully you can beg at least $40 tonight and buy some fly paper and maybe a screen door, lol.

I know what she does for a living, and, frankly, your tone of voice is not looking too impressive right now.

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/15/2012 12:38:52 AM

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Wow, where on earth did you come up with the notion that I would ever be concerned or care if you are impressed or not. Such ego, such arrogance, get over yourself, lol.

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ORIGINAL: VanessaChaland
I don't want to hold you up from your "work" hopefully you can beg at least $40 tonight and buy some fly paper and maybe a screen door, lol.

I know what she does for a living, and, frankly, your tone of voice is not looking too impressive right now.

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/15/2012 12:48:54 AM

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I was trying to be nice, not egotistical. I could have phrased it differently.

Whatever it is in your life that is causing you to post this way, I hope you resolve it soon.

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/15/2012 1:40:11 AM

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Causing me to post this way? I can tell you what the root cause of me posting how I post is, its just me. Its how I write, how I think, how I talk. I am direct, I state my opinions, no blowing smoke up someones dress, no pussy footing around, tolerate no fools and am very happy with myself for being who and what I am. I have nothing to resolve and nothing to apologize for, nor anyone to apologize to. Look CollarMe is full of antagonistic posters and volotile subjects. And? :)

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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

I was trying to be nice, not egotistical. I could have phrased it differently.

Whatever it is in your life that is causing you to post this way, I hope you resolve it soon.

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/15/2012 3:56:01 AM

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Ok maybe this is a bit out of left field, but how about opening up your own FinDom One Stop Shop at shopify.com? They handle all the online payment system for a small commission and your eager herd of moneypigs will not have your personal details....Yay!!

Let us know how you go :)

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/15/2012 4:02:19 AM

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Oh silly me! My super-smart husband says all you need is a PayPal account in your FAKE name. DON'T use your real name, OK, because among other things you are really a man, not a sexy lady with big tittles. Only PayPal then has your real bank account details, not all those lucky people with the honour of giving you money for nothing!!

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/15/2012 7:55:39 AM

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MmeSerenity,

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Oh silly me! My super-smart husband says all you need is a PayPal account in your FAKE name.

Though I'm not an expert on this subject, PayPal has been discussed here before. Processing payments for adult services violates PayPal's terms of use and they will cancel your account if they figure out that's what you're doing. Short answer: it's best to stay away from PayPal for this sort of thing.

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/15/2012 8:43:33 AM

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/15/2012 9:59:14 AM

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Meanwhile his wife and kids go hungry......

What makes you think the guy is married? I read the post a couple of times and there is nothing to imply that.

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/16/2012 9:40:05 PM

LadyConstanze

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quote:

ORIGINAL: VanessaChaland

You have flies in your house and in your food? Gross!
$20 bucks? Wow, you sure work cheap.

Actually, I do come from a poor background. My parents were born poor, as were their parents. I am not ashamed of them nor that they were honest, hardworking, very decent people whom I have enormous respect for. My grandparents were farmers and teachers and both by grandfathers fought in WW1, yes the first world war. Only a douchebag would be ashamed of who they are and where they come from.
They enabled their kids to get a good education and now all of their offspring are very well off, especially yours truly.
Anyhow, I don't want to hold you up from your "work" hopefully you can beg at least $40 tonight and buy some fly paper and maybe a screen door, lol.

Apparently you are such a poor little girl that you can't afford panties and the education was obviously also piss poor, because your reading ability leaves a lot to be desired. I said a friend and her sub play that game, you decided then that his wife and children go hungry - I am wondering how you know that much about a stranger's family situation.

So what went wrong with your good education? It seems somewhat... lacking.... A bit like your mental facilities...

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/16/2012 9:46:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: MmeSerenity

Oh silly me! My super-smart husband says all you need is a PayPal account in your FAKE name. DON'T use your real name, OK, because among other things you are really a man, not a sexy lady with big tittles. Only PayPal then has your real bank account details, not all those lucky people with the honour of giving you money for nothing!!

I'm not an expert on PP, but I seem to recall when I made my account (before anybody jumps to conclusions, I buy sometimes stuff from eBay) the PayPal name and the name on the bank account had to match in able to proceed with the test amounts they sent to my account, but maybe that is country specific?

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/16/2012 10:14:58 PM

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I'm not an expert on PP, but I seem to recall when I made my account (before anybody jumps to conclusions, I buy sometimes stuff from eBay) the PayPal name and the name on the bank account had to match in able to proceed with the test amounts they sent to my account, but maybe that is country specific?

True for the US. And also true that if the account is used in any way for 'adult services' they will shut you down faster than you can say Uncle Beezus.

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/16/2012 10:25:39 PM

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Never used it for adult services but sometimes bought toys and paid with PayPal, but that's ages ago, I had a PP account in Germany when I lived there and they raised hell because of a typo I made (with my own name, duhhh - all due to switching between the UK and German keyboard) and I had to go through a lengthy verification process with passport scans and showing them recent bills in my name as the transaction apparently failed. When I moved to the UK, same story, in the US I haven't made a PP account yet, so I wasn't sure if maybe they're a bit more relaxed, but apparently not.

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RE: How does financial domination work? - 4/16/2012 10:29:00 PM

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that answer is perfect(& awesome!)

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ORIGINAL: SylvereApLeanan

How To Become A Financial Dominant In Five Easy Steps

Step 1. Be awesome.

Step 2. Find someone with a job or other income who also thinks you're awesome.

Step 3. Express a desire for an item you'd like to receive.

Step 4. Receive gift from the person who thinks you're awesome.

Step 5. Continue being awesome to receive more gifts.

Oh wait...I think Step 1 might be too much work for the OP.

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