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feeling bad - 2/25/2012 6:17:18 PM

toodesireme2

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i had a master that i was conversing with and made me his property, i had talked about it with friends and gave his name. come to find out that this master was my friends master. there was a trust broken from my friend and her master cuz her master told her that she would be the only one. when all of this came about in the open my friend got her feelings badly hurt, i lost a friend and a master wanting me because he lost her. i value my friendship with her but now she hates me and hates him. the master claims to want me but keeps yearning for her. he keeps calling her telling her to come back to him almost stalking her. she has moved on with her life and found a new master, but my feelings have come to terms. i miss my friend and want her back. i want her back so much i want to be with her new master and her. what is wrong with this picture?

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RE: feeling bad - 2/25/2012 6:26:38 PM

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The master lied to you and lied to your friend.

Do you really want a master who would begin a relationship based on lies?
Has it occurred to you that in addition to that lie that there may be others: like perhaps his main interest isn't in being a master but in getting some booty?

Chances are he has other girls that he is "master" to as well.

You need to respect your friend.
Even if she said yes to an arrangement with her new master and you (and that is always a bad idea in an un-established relationship- imo) she would not trust you around her new master.

In time your friend may come to realise that you weren't out to steal her man and in fact did her a favor by exposing his lies.
She may forgive you.

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RE: feeling bad - 2/25/2012 6:37:37 PM

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Take out the kink and what you have is a man who lied and was playing the field which then caused problems between you and a friend because the friend was involved in the man's lies too. You miss your friend, and it seems desire her company more than the lying cheater you are somehow still with.

What's the dilemma? Go be with your friend if she's willing to see that it wasn't your fault the guy was a douche. Nothing wrong with leaving behind the idiot that played you both and sticking with a friendship that means more to you than one with a liar.

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RE: feeling bad - 2/25/2012 7:11:12 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: toodesireme2
what is wrong with this picture?

everything.

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RE: feeling bad - 2/25/2012 7:11:29 PM

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1). This guy is obviously a selfish, untrustworthy player who used your friend and then attempted to use you. As we speak, he's probably in the process of getting his hands on more unsuspecting women who will believe his lies. Why, for the love of all that is holy, would you want someone like that back? Not only did he treat you like an easy, ignorant f*ck but he ALSO betrayed your friend.

2). I feel bad for dumping on your friend. After all, she's just discovered that her master is a liar and a user. But the fact that she hates you, even when she damn well knows that you never intended to f*ck her master, gives me the impression that she isn't a very good friend and should best be left to her own devices. Maybe she is still in shock. So, do as she asks. Leave her alone. If, one day, she realizes her mistake and apologizes, great. If not, she was a bad friend anyway, and no harm done.

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RE: feeling bad - 2/25/2012 7:16:06 PM

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One issue is that it seems like you gave yourself to some random idiot without knowing him completely. Taking a master or a slave is a huge commitment - how long did you know the idiot before agreeing to be his?

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RE: feeling bad - 2/25/2012 7:17:51 PM

Baroana

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So, each of you ended up perving with the same dipshit online, and you're taking this seriously why?

This is not worth any more of my time.

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RE: feeling bad - 2/25/2012 7:26:44 PM

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Have you been watching soap operas? This is absolutely ridiculous. Why dont you just stalk both of them and drive them nuts? It sounds like youre going to anyways. So GO FOR IT !!!

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RE: feeling bad - 2/25/2012 7:28:13 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: toodesireme2
What is wrong with this picture?

i had a master that i was conversing with and he made me his property.

Regardless of the outcome, you were talking with a human being who just so happened
to call himself a master, and you got caught up in the excitement of being owned by someone
None of this would have happened had you truly known anything about this man, other than his name.

There are plenty of wonderful men out there that are honest. Spend more time getting to know them
before declaring yourself their property.

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RE: feeling bad - 2/25/2012 8:52:15 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: toodesireme2

i had a master that i was conversing with and made me his property, i had talked about it with friends and gave his name. come to find out that this master was my friends master. there was a trust broken from my friend and her master cuz her master told her that she would be the only one. when all of this came about in the open my friend got her feelings badly hurt, i lost a friend and a master wanting me because he lost her. i value my friendship with her but now she hates me and hates him. the master claims to want me but keeps yearning for her. he keeps calling her telling her to come back to him almost stalking her. she has moved on with her life and found a new master, but my feelings have come to terms. i miss my friend and want her back. i want her back so much i want to be with her new master and her. what is wrong with this picture?

Okay so i am going to be colouring inside the lines here because there are some holes. If i am wrong, by all means tell me so. You and your friend were both playing with a guy and he decided to own you both without telling the other. This came out in a bitter, ugly way and she left the relationship and you stayed. She pushed her disdain on you as well as he because you chose to stay in the relationship and essentially "chose" this man over your friendship with her.

So now you really miss her and you want her friendship back. She is with another man ..... and you want to fuck her new master....again? Is she poly? (didn't seems so) I am thinking that you have some unresolved issues of your own that you need to deal with and you should leave this woman alone.

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RE: feeling bad - 2/25/2012 10:30:50 PM

toodesireme2

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thank you everyone for your responses. i have tried to make ammends with my friend and she wants nothing to do with me. her xmaster still trys to get her back, but she has excluded him completely, and has moved on with her new master. as for me, i still miss her and try to also make ammends, hopeing that she will forgive me some day. I hope she is happy with her new master and wish her the best. i admire this woman for her strength in walking away from the man she truely loved and has been hurting due to the betrayal from both sides.

i just want to add... i love you mizo, and i hope one day you will forgive me and we can become friends again!!!!!

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RE: feeling bad - 2/26/2012 2:34:11 AM

MetalJoe

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From a lot of threads around these forums I get the feeling that people forget many rules that govern vanilla relationships still apply. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.

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RE: feeling bad - 2/26/2012 3:37:04 AM

DarkSteven

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quote:

ORIGINAL: toodesireme2

i had a master that i was conversing with and made me his property, i had talked about it with friends and gave his name. come to find out that this master was my friends master. there was a trust broken from my friend and her master cuz her master told her that she would be the only one. when all of this came about in the open my friend got her feelings badly hurt, i lost a friend and a master wanting me because he lost her. i value my friendship with her but now she hates me and hates him. the master claims to want me but keeps yearning for her. he keeps calling her telling her to come back to him almost stalking her. she has moved on with her life and found a new master, but my feelings have come to terms. i miss my friend and want her back. i want her back so much i want to be with her new master and her. what is wrong with this picture?

The weenie (the guy you called a master) likely told your friend that she was the only one in his life but that you came on to him and he succumbed in a moment of weakness.

It sounds like the weenie is stalkerish, wanting both of you back even though she's owned by a new Master (people in your circle seem to get into M/s relationships rather quickly).

Why do you say that you "want to be with her new master and her"? It sounds like you want to be in a poly relationship with the two of them. She's probably thinking you were a factor in the breakup of her previous relationship, and you want to be added to her new one? Not in a million years.

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ORIGINAL: toodesireme2

thank you everyone for your responses. i have tried to make ammends with my friend and she wants nothing to do with me. her xmaster still trys to get her back, but she has excluded him completely, and has moved on with her new master. as for me, i still miss her and try to also make ammends, hopeing that she will forgive me some day. I hope she is happy with her new master and wish her the best. i admire this woman for her strength in walking away from the man she truely loved and has been hurting due to the betrayal from both sides.

i just want to add... i love you mizo, and i hope one day you will forgive me and we can become friends again!!!!!

Let her have some room to breathe. She's got a new relationship and is happy. She won't trust you for a while, maybe never.

You're drop dead gorgeous and live in LA. You should have no problem finding hordes of Doms interested in you, even some that are ethical and won't lie to you. Go for it.

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RE: feeling bad - 2/26/2012 8:10:42 AM

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OP - websites are using your photo commercially. If you want any help contacting these sites to get it removed using the Digital Millennium Copyright Act, let me know.

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RE: feeling bad - 2/26/2012 11:42:26 AM

toodesireme2

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@kalikshama...what do u mean these sights are using my photo!!!!????

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RE: feeling bad - 2/26/2012 11:45:21 AM

toodesireme2

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please help..this person has no rights to use my picture

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RE: feeling bad - 2/26/2012 11:45:25 AM

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If you click that link it will take you to google where theres a list of sites all using your picture, dozens of them - your pic is all over the web!

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RE: feeling bad - 2/26/2012 11:53:06 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: toodesireme2

what is wrong with this picture?

You're all very well under age? Thats what I see wrong with this picture... or at least you all sound that way...

don't 'talk' to someone and have them become Master.. ok? Spend a little time with them and perhaps this might not have happened

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RE: feeling bad - 2/26/2012 11:58:05 AM

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beat me to it... lol

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RE: feeling bad - 2/26/2012 12:04:51 PM

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Since you are so photogenic, I suggest you use a professional service and go with the $10 monthly plan:

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