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DesFIP -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 8:00:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC Wait... this was someone in the text in the dom's handbook right? I mostly just looked at the pictures. Maybe I should reconsider. Nah. If you read the book that would be the same as asking for directions. And we all know real doms don't do that.

tazzygirl -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 8:18:19 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC OK seriously. We woke up and I really really banged her. I felt like I'd done my duty for the day. But later on, she wanted more. And just because I know some of you are thinking "well, twice in one day isn't that bad", I feel you should know I'm omitting about 20 blow jobs. Come on. When is enough enough? And the problem is clearly worse than simply her seeing me as a sex object. I have some grave concerns about being topped from the bottom here. I mean.... if she wants me to do her and I agree then aren't I submitting? Do I have to say "no" even if I want to fuck her? And how does that reconcile with "getting my way". This is all very confusing so it bring it to the great minds on this board for help. I tried to warn you... But NOOOOOO You just had to do it I told you that plan would not work That it would backfire Even as you laughed maniacally I could see the tinge of madness Now you have The "Sexford slave" Remember, you were warned

Kana -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 8:22:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC OK seriously. We woke up and I really really banged her. I felt like I'd done my duty for the day. But later on, she wanted more. And just because I know some of you are thinking "well, twice in one day isn't that bad", I feel you should know I'm omitting about 20 blow jobs. Come on. When is enough enough? And the problem is clearly worse than simply her seeing me as a sex object. I have some grave concerns about being topped from the bottom here. I mean.... if she wants me to do her and I agree then aren't I submitting? Do I have to say "no" even if I want to fuck her? And how does that reconcile with "getting my way". This is all very confusing so it bring it to the great minds on this board for help. You know, even the most sadistic bastard should let her cum once in a while....lest they get like this-juices running down their leg like the Nile in flood season, an overwhelming smell of tuna that has cats following them everywhere, that glazed vacant hungry look holocaust survivors had when shown their first cheeseburger... quote: ORIGINAL: DarkSteven When My slave makes excessive demand upon Me, I hide in the closet. she has yelled at Me to get out, but I refuse to do so because in My house I am The Boss. You have closets in your basement??? Man, I am just dying of jealousy here. All I have is a single harsh lightbulb, a cot with bad springs and cum stained sheets, an electric outlet and boxes of never to be used mail-order bondage equipment.

PollyAMorris -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 8:35:38 AM)
ROFLMhO!!!! (am I allowed to do that? without permission?)

PollyAMorris -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 8:44:30 AM)
P.S.--that "roflmho" was to this entire thread. You F/folk have me in virtual stitches here! LOL

MarchHare0289 -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 10:04:02 AM)
Sex can be a really powerful weapon in my opinion, and it can also be a real mindfuck too. >.> However, my advice for your problem is this - YOU are the master. SHE is your slave. You are supposed to be in charge of the relationship and must set the pace and the rules, or yes, you will be topped from the bottom. While that's fine and all for other relationships, it doesn't sound like that's what you want. As the dominant force in your relationship with her, it is your job to set the standard. If that means denying her when she wants sex, even if you want it to, that puts you in charge as the Master. In my experience, what the slave wants should always be in the dominants thoughts, but not always in the actions. If the bottom wants sex, deny them until it is earned in some way. When people want things, you can use that as a reward for good behavior and take it away as a punishment. This keeps you in charge, and lets you get your way. Two birds, one stone. You also mentioned concerns that she sees you as a sex object. That has always been a major red flag to me, as the dom/sub relationship should be more than about sex. I suggest you find out why she likes being yours, and do some introspection as to why you like her, what does she do that is special? Do you both share the same passions, like any of the same things, have conflicts about certain subjects? These are a few of the many things relationships are built upon, and when a couple finds out the only thing they like about each other is the sex, problems do come up. That's all I've got for ya for now. Best of luck on this.

Casteele -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 10:31:41 AM)
Gosh, you people whine too much. Do you whine that your automobile needs regular service; wash & wax, gas, oil & lube, etc? Do you whine that the dishes need to be washed so you can eat from a clean plate? Sure, it'd be nice if all these things could take care of themselves, especially slaves, but alas, then they'd start thinking for themselves and asserting their independence in some misguided sense that being owned and used is a bad thing. The have no appreciation for the time and effort we have to put in keeping them locked up and chained, flogging them and pushing them to cook our food right, clean the kitchen after, and so on. The simple reality, though, is that you need to maintain and service just about everything you own. If you don't have the time, energy, or resources to service your slave, take her in to the shop to be serviced by a professional. Just deal with it.

kalikshama -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 10:38:54 AM)
Allow me to give you some context. This thread is a spoof inspired by: Master Wants To Have Sex With Me or Update on Master does not want to have sex which were spawned by Master does not want sex

HisPet21 -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 10:54:18 AM)
quote: You also mentioned concerns that she sees you as a sex object. That has always been a major red flag to me, as the dom/sub relationship should be more than about sex. I suggest you find out why she likes being yours, and do some introspection as to why you like her, what does she do that is special? Do you both share the same passions, like any of the same things, have conflicts about certain subjects? These are a few of the many things relationships are built upon, and when a couple finds out the only thing they like about each other is the sex, problems do come up. I can see you're new here. [:)] quote: When My slave makes excessive demand upon Me, I hide in the closet. she has yelled at Me to get out, but I refuse to do so because in My house I am The Boss. [sm=rofl.gif] quote: Wait... this was someone in the text in the dom's handbook right? I mostly just looked at the pictures. Maybe I should reconsider. You didn't even read the book? Did you even do the homework, or did you copy off someone else? sigh I'm gonna have to ask you to turn your Dom License over to the proper authorities and return your sub to the nearest outlet. If she's not too beat up, maybe you can get some of your money back.

KnightofMists -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 11:38:22 AM)
Jeff.. I have two suggestions.. Buy her a cucumber.. Preferably a small one and soft. Second.. Find some cheap slut and bang the bitch in front of her. If that does fix the problem... Fake you have a headache...women have been using that line for centuries.

JeffBC -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 12:05:16 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: KnightofMists If that does fix the problem... Fake you have a headache...women have been using that line for centuries. You know I'm beginning to understand why people come onto the internet and ask total strangers for advice. This is great. I'm thinking I can actually string some of this together. For instance, fleeing down into the basement closet and locking the door then moaning (in an assertive and dominant way, of course) about having a headache when she rattles the door. I think this thread is really going somewhere now! I have to admit though that much of the advice offered on the internet seems to be about labels. And honestly, labelling my relationship as a "vanilla marriage" doesn't seem to be changing the reality of it all that much. We keep trying to live up to the standards of "vanilla" but obviously it's not working out all that well. Perhaps if we picked some different labels that are even more pure it'd change things? Casteele offered up: Just deal with it. Dude, you don't understand. I'm trying. But this incessant business with blowjobs -- I'm going to get a chapped cock if this continues. I'm just about at wit's end. At this point I may have no choice but to stop commanding her to come on over and blow me.

OsideGirl -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 2:44:38 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC Wait... this was someone in the text in the dom's handbook right? I mostly just looked at the pictures. Maybe I should reconsider. Nah. If you read the book that would be the same as asking for directions. And we all know real doms don't do that. Good point! See, Jeff? That's what's happens when you give your slave sex within the first five years....when they're clearly not ready....

JeffBC -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 3:14:53 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: OsideGirl See, Jeff? That's what's happens when you give your slave sex within the first five years....when they're clearly not ready.... Ahhh, I like this viewpoint. Simple, clean, and it makes it all Carol's fault for being un-ready. Although in the end I suppose the buck still stops here. I should've sent her off to sex training obviously. Now I'm beginning to understand all those doms wanting to train random subs. It's kind of a mutual help pact among doms... "Dude, you sex train my slave and I'll sex train yours."

JeffBC -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 3:17:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DesFIP Nah. If you read the book that would be the same as asking for directions. And we all know real doms don't do that. A VERY valid point. Thank you for bringing that up. However, this does bring up a new question. I never stop and ask for directions but I do drive with a GPS. Personally, I feel like I'm still dominant because I don't always obey. In addition I've programmed it with a sexy female voice and sometimes I snap back, "Fuck you bitch, I'm going straight no matter what you think." But how do you see it? Can I still be dominate if I use a GPS?

kalikshama -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 3:25:31 PM)
M uses a GPS and has sex with me, oh NOES!

Kalista07 -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 3:30:19 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC A VERY valid point. Thank you for bringing that up. However, this does bring up a new question. I never stop and ask for directions but I do drive with a GPS. Personally, I feel like I'm still dominant because I don't always obey. In addition I've programmed it with a sexy female voice and sometimes I snap back, "Fuck you bitch, I'm going straight no matter what you think." But how do you see it? Can I still be dominate if I use a GPS? Jeff...Jeff....Jeff....Jeff....Jeff...... You are clearly misguided....... I would offer to help you out but I'm sure you could not afford my fees... A real true dominant trains his GPS to ask if it's okay to suggest directions...And when you snap, "Fuck you bitch, I'm going straight no matter what you think" the mastered GPS, will simply respond "Yes, Sir...As you wish Sir". tsk tsk tsk...It's a said day when an icon fails... But, don't give up hope...for a mere $496,145 I would offer to train you myself. Kali

JeffBC -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 3:32:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Kalista07 the mastered GPS, will simply respond "Yes, Sir...As you wish Sir". nods in understanding Now I'm seeing where I went wrong. Mine mostly just falls into a semi-hopeless series of "Please make the next available U-turn." statements. I never should've tolerated such passive aggressive behavior. Kalikshama protested: M uses a GPS and has sex with me, oh NOES! Yes, I think there's possibly a whole separate thread on that topic.

amaidiamond -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/26/2012 9:48:28 PM)
Ok... this is just OUT OF ORDER! Who gave you permission to tell the world that slaves can enjoy sex??? It is a closely guarded secret! or rather was... There goes my years of convincing the world that all i want is to give money to a man whilst cleaning his house and giving him regular blow jobs... Dammit

poise -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/27/2012 6:14:17 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: JeffBC My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! This very curious mind would like to know....did you comply? Details, please. [:)] as some slaves also like a little wank now and then

DrMajolica -> RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! (2/27/2012 3:42:59 PM)
There seems to be a variety of responses, from questioning the "twueness" of the post or the post-er, to some good humour, and some scathing sarcasm. But whatever, I think youre brave to admit this problem, so I'll offer advice like its a real question. First of all, if you set out to make your slave a crawling cock-hungry filthy fuckslut, thats what youre going to get. Second, if you think of banging her as "doing your duty", thats not gonna work now , is it? What you have to do draws a deep breath, is not just do your duty, but fucking REALLY fuck her. I mean take HOURS at it, tie the little cunt up, and fill her so fucking full she thinks she's going to die, (I'm guessing I cant be TOO specific here, because I dont like prison food much... but c'mon, let the fucking BEAST out..) Keep doing it til shes bleeding and BEGGING you to stop, and then some more. And then some other shit too Then you can either take her and bathe her lovingly, or fall asleep and fart a lot. Or cheerily say, "Are there any pork pies left in the fridge, you little whore?" That should get you at least a few hours peace... Yeah, I know. Glad to help

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