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My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 7:02:43 PM   
JeffBC


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Status: offline 		OK seriously. We woke up and I really really banged her. I felt like I'd done my duty for the day. But later on, she wanted more. And just because I know some of you are thinking "well, twice in one day isn't that bad", I feel you should know I'm omitting about 20 blow jobs. Come on. When is enough enough?

And the problem is clearly worse than simply her seeing me as a sex object. I have some grave concerns about being topped from the bottom here. I mean.... if she wants me to do her and I agree then aren't I submitting? Do I have to say "no" even if I want to fuck her? And how does that reconcile with "getting my way". This is all very confusing so it bring it to the great minds on this board for help.

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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 7:15:57 PM   
HisPet21


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Status: offline 		You're complaining about too much sex? Seriously, Jeff, what kind of a man are you?

See, if your libido was truly masterly, it would be in excess of your girl's, so that YOU could demand sex after she'd had enough, and you wouldn't have worry about accidentally satisfying her needs while you satisfied your own.

My suggestion? Lots of aphrodisiacs!

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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 7:26:26 PM   
lizi


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Status: offline 		First of all, you poor put upon bastard. Words can't describe the agony I feel coming from your words. Obviously you put up with the state of things here because in your naturally Dominant brain you've already decided that forcing her to see you as a sex god will put everything to rights again.

Of course you know that if slave gets the crazy idea that she has a say in anything at all, you only have to give The Look. You know, that Domly stern look. That'll take care of it. Any thought of topping from the bottom instantly withers with The Look. The Look has anti microbial properties too you know, it can cure cold sores and the flu as well- just be careful when you wield the thing as it might do more good than you intended. Such is the weight of being Dom.

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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 7:28:51 PM   
kitkat105


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Status: offline 		hehehe Yes I fail to see the problem too!

I must say I am guilty of this. What my Sir has done is set particular tasks and challenges for me to complete. Till I complete them to his satisfaction.. no nookie.
However, this only works if you are able to restrain yourself as well.


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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 7:31:48 PM   
Baroana


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Status: offline 		Stop treating her like shit all the time, scamming money off her, and having her give you blowjobs followed by maid service. If you insist on maintaining such behavior, she will continue to find you irresistible. I've seen it happen.

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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 7:33:47 PM   
xXsoumisXx


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ORIGINAL: HisPet21

You're complaining about too much sex? Seriously, Jeff, what kind of a man are you?

See, if your libido was truly masterly, it would be in excess of your girl's, so that YOU could demand sex after she'd had enough, and you wouldn't have worry about accidentally satisfying her needs while you satisfied your own.My suggestion? Lots of aphrodisiacs!


This. You are obviously NOT a true Dom!

eta.. or Leader..or .. whatever..

< Message edited by xXsoumisXx -- 2/25/2012 7:34:35 PM >

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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 7:43:54 PM   
poise


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Status: offline 		Ayayyayy! I can so relate to you feeling as though you were nothing more than a sex object.
Does she try to grope you while you are serving her coffee in bed too? Pobrecito!

I read somewhere that as long as you smile and keep your eyes open, you're in charge.
If all else fails, I have 2 words for you. Well, 2 actually.

White thongs
aspirin

Best of luck, you delicioushunkofmouthwateringmanmeat!

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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 7:48:44 PM   
DarkSteven


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Status: offline 		When My slave makes excessive demand upon Me, I hide in the closet. she has yelled at Me to get out, but I refuse to do so because in My house I am The Boss.

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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 7:51:33 PM   
poise


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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 9:10:14 PM   
Delilya


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Status: offline 		Man up, grow a pair and take back your leadership. Don't let her push you around this way. Take matters into hand and reestablish control of her.

Of course now I've been doing it all wrong. I just found out I wasn't supposed to be having sex with my collared sub. Huh?

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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 9:11:28 PM   
Delilya


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

When My slave makes excessive demand upon Me, I hide in the closet. she has yelled at Me to get out, but I refuse to do so because in My house I am The Boss.


rolling here.....


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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 9:13:17 PM   
LookieNoNookie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

OK seriously. We woke up and I really really banged her. I felt like I'd done my duty for the day. But later on, she wanted more. And just because I know some of you are thinking "well, twice in one day isn't that bad", I feel you should know I'm omitting about 20 blow jobs. Come on. When is enough enough?

And the problem is clearly worse than simply her seeing me as a sex object. I have some grave concerns about being topped from the bottom here. I mean.... if she wants me to do her and I agree then aren't I submitting? Do I have to say "no" even if I want to fuck her? And how does that reconcile with "getting my way". This is all very confusing so it bring it to the great minds on this board for help.


I actually wanted to have sex with you twice....but when I realized you were a guy, I felt it was impertinent of me.

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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 9:18:05 PM   
JeffBC


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quote:

ORIGINAL: HisPet21
You're complaining about too much sex? Seriously, Jeff, what kind of a man are you?

Well, now that I think on it, I'm the kind of guy who went for a white pair of panties as my first bet rather than a red thong on the "show us your panties" thread. Imagine my surprise later when I found out they only meant the women. ~face palm~

See, if your libido was truly masterly, it would be in excess of your girl's, so that YOU could demand sex after she'd had enough, and you wouldn't have worry about accidentally satisfying her needs while you satisfied your own.
Wait... this was someone in the text in the dom's handbook right? I mostly just looked at the pictures. Maybe I should reconsider.

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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 9:21:34 PM   
JeffBC


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
When My slave makes excessive demand upon Me, I hide in the closet. she has yelled at Me to get out, but I refuse to do so because in My house I am The Boss.

OK, but when you're in the closet I see that your safe from the whole excessive demands thing (well, unless you failed to reinforce the closet door). But I still have some questions about the whole topping from the bottom angle. What if she really wanted you to stay in the closet and was using reverse psychology on you? Perhaps she's sitting out in the kitchen giggling as she eats bon bons.

That, I suspect, is why it's so important to trust our slaves.

edited to ask:
But for my own growth as a master, do you find any particular closet better? The hallway closets are nearer, but the bedroom closets have the advantage of having one extra door between her and I. Do you favor speed or security?


< Message edited by JeffBC -- 2/25/2012 9:23:05 PM >

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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 9:34:52 PM   
SoftBonds


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Status: offline 		OK, here is what you do, you find a sub with a husband who will provide the sex, then all you have to do is get blowjobs, make her clean your house, and share a bank account with you. Just make sure she doesn't come on here and tell everyone about it if you are a really famous person and she has kids whose college fund you intend to steal...

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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 9:37:12 PM   
xXsoumisXx


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quote:

ORIGINAL: JeffBC

quote:

ORIGINAL: HisPet21
You're complaining about too much sex? Seriously, Jeff, what kind of a man are you?

Well, now that I think on it, I'm the kind of guy who went for a white pair of panties as my first bet rather than a red thong on the "show us your panties" thread. Imagine my surprise later when I found out they only meant the women. ~face palm~

See, if your libido was truly masterly, it would be in excess of your girl's, so that YOU could demand sex after she'd had enough, and you wouldn't have worry about accidentally satisfying her needs while you satisfied your own.
Wait... this was someone in the text in the dom's handbook right? I mostly just looked at the pictures. Maybe I should reconsider.


You have to actually read the words or You are not Real or True.

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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 9:43:49 PM   
ResidentSadist


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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/25/2012 10:34:06 PM   
SilverBoat


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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
When My slave makes excessive demand upon Me, I hide in the closet. she has yelled at Me to get out, but I refuse to do so because in My house I am The Boss.


Dammit, now I've got rasberry-fizz all over the laptop ...


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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/26/2012 7:04:29 AM   
kalikshama


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RE: My slave wanted to have sex with me... twice! - 2/26/2012 7:53:00 AM   
mummyman321


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Status: offline 		Okay....let me get this straight. You are DOM and your subbie is bossing you around for more sex? Life can be so terrible unfair.

Well, this is BDSM afterall. Tie her up with some vibes and such. Four or five hours of bondage orgasms ought to slow her down alittle and give you time to recover!

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