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lizi -> RE: Is there some sort of oxymoron here... (2/26/2012 9:27:09 AM)
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ORIGINAL: simplyphilly
One thing you're not taking into account that seems rather blatant is the difference between the sexes, how they think, and what they want. A woman generally wants a relationship, a man may want a relationship, but may also take whatever sex comes his way. Therefore she cares about the quality of the men she wants to meet, a picture of someone's penis or ass puts out the premise that the pic's owner primary purpose is being here for the penis or ass. It's like a target or bullet point- short and sweet, this is what this person is here for and what they are concentrated on. Men however will generally look lovingly at breasts and vagina all day long. It's a gender thing. The genders have different wiring and different goals- that's not an oxymoron, it's apples and oranges.
Women are just as capable, and mind you there are a few out there that do, of having the thinking you described above. Yes it might not be as clearly noted as it is to the male gender, but nevertheless. I get the tackieness, lack of taste, rudeness, volgarity in it all. But you all must understand how incredibly asinine it is to only regulate the main picture and then wash your hand, so to speak, on all others.
Personally, I liked it in the good old days when you had to wait a day for the simplest of pictures to be approved. You want classy, try changing CM's policies back to the way they were.
Why yes, women are capable of having the thinking I described, which is why I was careful to use qualifiers when I wrote the post. Then you agreed to what I wrote, confusing, not sure what your point was in all that then. Also, as I pointed out, many of those purporting to be women here are not in fact women. That contingent is not some small, insignificant, part of the site.
Back in the day when things had to be approved picture by picture this was a smaller site. They've got volunteers mod-ing it, and it's free....if they were to approve each shot they'd have to add many more people to work on that task as the site has grown exponentially bigger. I like it free, not sure if you feel that way.
You seem to feel very black and white about many things, that is your prerogative, it might be easier for you if you accepted the fact that many other humans out there have their own view of things.
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