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pjjohn69 -> Hi from Indiana (2/29/2012 7:39:16 AM)

Hi everyone,

I am brand new to the site, and fairly new to the BDSM lifestyle. I am not sure how to find what I am looking for, and still a little unsure of some etiqutte. I dated a lady for a short period of time and she introduced me to the lifestyle, while we are no longer together I would truly love to find a submissive woman to spend time with. I guess I just want to say hi, and I looking forward to getting to know you all better in the future.

M



OsideGirl -> RE: Hi from Indiana (2/29/2012 7:41:01 AM)

Welcome!

I'm going to suggest that you get out and meet your local community. Also, I think you might benefit from having a mentor to help guide you.

Good luck!



pjjohn69 -> RE: Hi from Indiana (2/29/2012 7:51:34 AM)

Oside, thanks, dont mean to sound ignorant, but how does one go about finding a mentor, or finding out more about my local BDSM community. Finding this site was the only advice ive gotten so far as to where to find locals in the lifestyle.



OsideGirl -> RE: Hi from Indiana (2/29/2012 8:07:16 AM)

You're far from ignorant. It can be difficult to navigate the communities at first.

I would recommend looking on Fet Life and search Valparaiso. There's a group listed in your area. They have munches and discussion events listed. A munch/social is a meeting at a vanilla venue (restaurant/bar/coffee shop) where you just hang out and meet people.

Get around meet people, make it known that you're looking for a male dominant mentor...and find someone with a style you like.

This person should be able to help guide you through the community and give you some insight into how varying styles of D/s relationships work.



ashjor911 -> RE: Hi from Indiana (2/29/2012 10:27:52 AM)

Welcome



Delilya -> RE: Hi from Indiana (2/29/2012 10:32:41 AM)

Welcome to CM



OohAahMrs -> RE: Hi from Indiana (3/2/2012 8:19:38 AM)

Welcome M



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