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sunshinemiss -> RE: First Impressions of Masters Here (3/8/2012 3:03:48 AM)
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All right, sugar, I'm gonna give you an actual answer to your little love letter.
ORIGINAL: texan4real
Having been here for a while, I thought it might be helpful for submissives here to understand how at least one Master (Me) obtains first impressions of the subs and slaves who express interest in serving -- at least impressions that you may wish to avoid making,
Well, thanks. I was wondering because I've never had any darned experience - you know with making a first impression (which is what you just did). Nor have I ever served anyone. Ever. Nor have I considered how my behavior and expressions have been perceived.
1. You would be surprised how many say they want money to relocate. That's not terrible, especially if they're in the country where I am (i.e., the US). But I've had them requesting money to fly them from the UK, Malta, Nigeria, Ghana, Russia, and many other countries. I think Masters would be well advised to follow the advice of collarme not to send money to anyone.
Now, if you could give me a ticket to UK, Russia, Nmibia, I'd be grateful. Don't really want to relocate, but I'd sure love to visit. I've been to Malta - lovely place btw with a fascinating history. I have a book around here somewhere that is set in Malta. I've been meaning to read it. Where did I put that? But I digress.
I do my best to budget for travel, but sadly I too have a limit. Ah well. I think I'll only make it to Thailand and Hong Kong this year. Maybe Cambodia if I get a couple of extra gigs... *crossing my fingers!* (By the way, my former actually did pay for the ticket and fly me to Europe... I didn't mind. While we didn't work out in the end, ah what a grand time we had.).
By the way, Texas, you realize of course that any number of S-types are also requested to send money to the so-called D-types.
2. I'm not an English language Nazi, but an unfortunate number of those contacting Me don't express themselves in anything that sounds remotely like high school level English. Spelling is something else. I think that, as a matter of respect, subs and slaves should at least try to show their best side in all respects.
"Me" is not capitalized in English. FYI.
3.You might be surprised as well that it is quite obvious that many individuals copy and paste from other profiles and don't even try to change a word. When a Master has read a lot of profiles, He begins to recognize the copies.
Shut the front door. You might be surprised how well an S-type recognizes copies as well.
4. Perhaps most importantly, if you promise a Master that you will send Him an email or picture right away, do it. A number of subs and slaves will waste our time chatting here or on another service and promise to send something to the Master right away, and it never shows up. That either shows the sub/slave is not real, or she doesn't respect the Master enough to live up to her promise.
What's good for the goose is good for the gander. And by the way, that doesn't speak to a person's side of the kneel, their respect for a *koff* "Master". It speaks to the content of their character. I personally consider it excellent information to have right away... ah, you aren't interested. Cool. Next!
OK, there will be detractors, I'm sure. But this is an honest attempt to be helpful.
Why do you think we need help? Have you been around the boards so long that you've noticed we are making those kinds of foolish mistakes? Because if so, you may want to brush up on your reading skills. Also, you seem to have forgotten that you are dealing with people. None of us owes you jack. You want someone to act all "oh you are so wonderful", then you need to be that. From what I have seen in your post, you are condescending. Was that your intention in posting? To tell all the rest of us how foolish and ignorant you think we are? Frankly, it doesn't bode well for your chances. But some gals like fellows who think they are stupid. I'm just not one of them.
Good luck,
sunshine
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