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whisper676 -> Butt plugs (3/8/2012 3:32:53 AM)
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Not sure if this is the right area, or if I should have gone to the health and safety issues forum. My first post, I'm nervous, lol...
I've been around a while. Not a noob, although I sort of feel like it, since I've not found the answers I'm looking for, usually I'm the queen of the internet search. I've asked my mentor, and he's never heard of my issue either. So, I'm reaching out to everyone else for help as well, please be kind, I've seen what you've all posted when you think someone is an idiot. Damn, I hope I'm not an idiot for asking this [sm=dunno.gif]
I've recently started using butt plugs. I've never been a huge fan of anal, because ... quite frankly, I find it painful. I know that 3/4's of this is me, I get nervous when the subject is brought up, and by the time it happens, I'm tighter than a girdle on a baptist minister at an all you can eat pancake breakfast. If I could relax, I know it'd feel better, but I still find myself tense and tight.
Anyways, it was suggested to me that perhaps stretching by myself, with plugs and toys and such, where I can go at my own pace, control the pressure etc may help. And indeed, I've recently moved from the small to the medium plug. And made it from 20 minutes for insertion down to about 5. So it is getting easier to use.
Now to my issue. Sorry if I'm rambling. I get like this when I'm nervous. I just want you all to understand the whole picture. Once the plug is inserted, I feel an incredible urge to urinate. Doesn't matter if I've emptied my bladder before or not. I've searched these forums, I've googled the hell out of it, and I find nothing. Lots and lots of information for if I was a man and this happened. Nothing for a female. The closest I've found for a woman is that if I feel the urge to pee during sex, it's ejaculation... I don't think that's the case here.
Please, does anyone else experience this? If so, is there anything you find that helps with the feelings? I'm posting this before I leave for work, so if I don't respond back, it's not that I don't care, I'll check when I get home later! Thank you all, for any help you can give, in advance.
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