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RE: I would like to ask for the key back - 3/11/2012 8:11:47 AM   
chatterbox24


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ORIGINAL: crazyml

I think that you ought to remain in chastity till you figure this one out yourself.

Sincerely.

Heck-I was thinking stay in chastity to save the gene pool :-)


hahahahaha

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RE: I would like to ask for the key back - 3/11/2012 8:24:21 AM   
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ORIGINAL: crazyml

I think that you ought to remain in chastity till you figure this one out yourself.

Sincerely.



You really need to come visit.. we'd have fun :)

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RE: I would like to ask for the key back - 3/11/2012 12:35:42 PM   
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The problem is that my ex girlfriend, the current key holder, only wants to let me out and have sex, which is great! But it also defeats the purpose chastity. Some I have fantisized about for so long is being torn to pieces because I gave the key to the wrong person. I need someone who knows what they are doing.


Actually, it sounds like your girlfriend needs someone who knows what he's doing.

I'm confused by your story. You have a dominant woman (or at least I presume that she's dominant, since she is the keyholder) who has you locked in chastity. She is releasing you only to use your cock for her sexual pleasure. And now you're mad because she isn't doing it the way that you want her to? WTF? Have you ever heard of "topping from the bottom"?

Sounds to me like you have a fetish for being locked in a chastity device. Submission apparently plays no role in your fantasy. It's all about your cock. Your girlfriend is just a prop in your long-term chastity fantasy. Her wishes and desires are unimportant to you. Your cock is all that matters.

The way I interpret your situation is that you have a dominant woman who keeps you locked up. She only releases you for her own pleasure, and then she locks you right back up. So in essence, she owns and controls your cock. It's now her property, and and is only to be used when SHE wants to use it. That sounds like a dream situation for many male subs. Yet you seem to be rejecting her control.

Do you realize that there are lots of submissive males who are dying to find a dominant woman to be their keyholder? You have that, and you're upset because she lets you out occasionally in order to satisfy HER sexual desires.

Some people just don't realize when they have a good thing. You'll miss her when she's gone. But at least you'll be able to lock yourself up anytime you want, and for as long as you want.

Hopefully you'll lock your cock up and throw away the key, because you sound like an idiot to me.

ETA: I agree with the person who suggested that a cuckolding situation sounds perfect for this guy. She should lock him up, and satisfy her sexual desires with someone who deserves to fuck her (unlike this guy, who seems to resent having to fuck her). Once he sees her being satisfied by another man, he'll realize how lucky he was. BTW, if she needs a bull, I volunteer.

< Message edited by Rochsub2009 -- 3/11/2012 12:53:05 PM >

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RE: I would like to ask for the key back - 3/11/2012 1:26:59 PM   
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Heck-I was thinking stay in chastity to save the gene pool :-)



This.

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RE: I would like to ask for the key back - 3/11/2012 8:04:41 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Rochsub2009

Hopefully you'll lock your cock up and throw away the key, because you sound like an idiot to me.



+1. Nice goin' Roch.

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RE: I would like to ask for the key back - 3/12/2012 7:30:54 PM   
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RE: I would like to ask for the key back - 3/12/2012 7:56:57 PM   
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*giggles* at all the responses

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RE: I would like to ask for the key back - 3/13/2012 7:11:07 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Kana


quote:

ORIGINAL: crazyml

I think that you ought to remain in chastity till you figure this one out yourself.

Sincerely.

Heck-I was thinking stay in chastity to save the gene pool :-)



and the winner of this years kinky darwin award is...

(drum roll please)

The OP! - what a surprise to everyone here.

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RE: I would like to ask for the key back - 3/13/2012 7:21:11 AM   
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Kill her.




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